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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: mamta-s

In some other post, I had mentioned it too. He did not hesitate when he dragged her out of KV and forced her into SM, so why can't he do the same now? Grab her hand and take her out from there, ASAP. For once, he should not care about anyone else but himself and most importantly Zoya.
Asad is confused and vulnerable with the signals Zoya is sending him . In fact they are both confused . It is the writers actually who are responsible ...they are dithering . They have kept Ayaan unconscious just to create this confusion in Asad and Zoya's mind . There is a purpose for all this ...first to ensure Asad enters SM and goes right into Zoya/ Ayaan's room ...to witness their established relationship ( photograph)...then her concern for Ayaan and refusal to sit beside Asad ! He is baffled and hurt with the signals Zoya is sending him ...till she herself clears her confusion and hugs him ...throwing all caution to the winds !

I see a parallel here with Asad chasing her @ the airport and giving her the engagement ring . That set their relationship moving ahead ...and this hug in the heart of SM may invoke the same . Razia is working out to be the ally ..as Inspector Dhurandhre was then .
May be Gaffur and Rashid will enter just now and that would set things on the boil ...Asad activated into claiming proprietary rights and threatening to carry Zoya back to KV . He may get arrested and put in jail . Zoya will then leave every thing behind to stand by him .

I think there is a plan to keep Ayaan unconscious through all this . Asad and Zoya will be shown fighting for their love without any outside support ...the two of them together against everyone ...their only ally and confidant in the whole imbroglio rendered disabled when they have to fight the entire might of SM.

They will come out triumphant ...true love always does ...at least in Indian soaps for sure !!!



Amazing that he can see she is giving out mixed signals and has become confused. What happened when she gave him very VERY clear signals that she did not want to leave him or his house yet he held her hand and practically dragged her out infront of everyone to send her to SM.


Again he only thinks of himself and not Zoya. Now it is his brother who needs his lady love to look after him and then was his stupid suicidal sister that needed Zoya to save her.

Is that what Zoya is for him????? Is that her purpose in his life , to be going around doing things for his family on his behalf and he takes the freaking credit??

How many have sincerely thanked Zoya for her sacrifice in saving Nikhat( or NOT ) . Everyone claims he sacrificed his Love to save his sister , but she was not his right to sacrifice. She was not an animal.
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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: bheegi


A little miffed with Asad today, Sangeeta?! 😆 That's what I like best about you. Your appreciation for an actor does not cloud your judgement of the character. So, 👏 for that and speaking your mind honestly.

I agree with most of your thoughts except, IMO Zoya was NOT clear!

Both were giving each other mixed signals. 😕

Both are waiting for the other to find a way out of the mess. Pehle aap pehle aap! Let's hope that the proverbial gaadi nikal naa jaye!

Both are still emotionally challenged. 😒


What else does a girl need to do or say to you Asad?

She was very clear today..

1. Ayaan has enough people who can take care of him

2. How long would I have to stay here?

3. She hugged him right in the middle of the living room

Yes, she did all of the above, but she also:
  1. Shied away from him when their bodies made contact. There was no one around, so what was the reason for it?
  2. Did not sit next to him, instead sat on her nurse station!
  3. Clearly told him she is confused and that the situation would be different if Ayaan was not hurt. She said she did not know what to do.
  4. Did not clearly tell him she wants to go home with him.
  5. Did not initially hug him in spite of his extended arms.

What did you do Asad?

1. Felt bad that she stepped away when you had a slight body contact with her

Well, with his emotional baggage, do you blame him? A normal person would have felt bad too.

2. Didn't Asad say Ayaan was his responsibility? So, when Ayaan coughed, why didn't you offer your help? Instead, you let Zoya take care of him and felt bad as she performed her wifely duties

Completely agreed here.

3. Felt bad when you saw their photograph together.

Completely agreed here, although I was glad to finally see some jealousy!! Bromance hai hai! 😆

4. Expected her to run into your arms when she came with the phone

Now, now! Can't blame the guy for hoping now, can you? I was glad to see him extend his arms for a hug. That's a big step for someone who shied from PDA, and that too in the house that is the root cause of his emotional baggage.

5. She pulled you back into a hug

Did you see the look in Asad's eyes when she initially did not hug him? He looked very puzzled. She saw that and his arms. I felt she was upset with the whole situation so was indirectly/subconsciously punishing him and then could not bear it when he turned to leave.

Dude, what will take you to realize what she really wants? What will take you to hold her hand and take her away?

Didn't you force her into the house in front of everyone, so take her away in front of everyone.


👏 Exactly how I feel. In spite of what I believe are Zoya's mixed signals, I want Asad to be decisive and take Zoya away from there. Both brothers have no game plan! No thought process put behind how Zoya will return with Asad. This is what has been bothering me. I know you have heard me say this before. What is their plan?? Asad mentioned speaking to the maulvi. What did they discuss? What is the resolution? Why not tell Ayaan's family the truth and take away what rightfully belongs to you! Did he really expect her to sneak out and meet him outside?! Wow, amazing plan!!


Tomorrow, if Zoya wants to give her nikaah a chance, don't blame anyone but yourself, Asad.

The writing was clear on the wall today...you just refused to read it.

On another note...

I loved the episode because it was AsYa centric

I hated the episode because Asad was shown too passive

Agreed! But I blame the inconsistencies on CV's writing. 😆 The mixed signals from both Zoya and Asad were beyond ridiculous! I really want to see Asad stop crying and take action! Tomorrow will bring some insults Zoya's way. And like the true trooper that she is, she will take it on her chin (read the sarcasm!!)! Doubt she will tell Asad. More Rona dhona...

What I loved about the episode other than it being AsYa centric:
  1. Asad entered the house for Zoya. He's never done it for Ayaan. Not even when Ayaan was very upset with him after the Najma Imran reveal. He barely entered when Dilshad was shot. Yes, he was ready to leave from the door, but entered after BB called him in. Probably was the first time he entered Ayaan's room.
  2. He didn't ask how Ayaan was doing!! Romance is now taking precedence over bromance!! He kept looking at Zoya. I saw concern and pain for her, none today for Ayaan!!
  3. When Ayaan started coughing, he was more bothered by Ayaan holding Zoya's hand rather than Ayaan's health!! Bromance is really going down the drain!! 🤣
  4. Asad opened his arms for Zoya, in the middle of the SM living room!! Wow, PDA!!

I hated the fact that both Asad and Zoya were passive. What will it take for them to reunite?!


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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: MisZoobieDoobie

She didn't ?

So then it was asad who made a decision for her
Then why was he getting jealous he only told her to stay back and take ayaans care right
Good ! Now seriously zoe should give a damn to him and move on
I am still waiting for my independent zoe .Who works in office and yeah also my office romance i want 😆


I saw the episode again..it was a typical Mars vs Venus scenario

Zoya was initially unclear because she was upset with him

Later she tried to indirectly plead but he had already made the decision for her...in reality she wanted to hear, "let's go home Zoya. I will take care of everything.'

Yes Tanya, I want an independent Zoya after this mess. With a job. Yes, office romance between Asya would be good (i have always wanted to see that as you know😃)
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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: mamta-s

In some other post, I had mentioned it too. He did not hesitate when he dragged her out of KV and forced her into SM, so why can't he do the same now? Grab her hand and take her out from there, ASAP. For once, he should not care about anyone else but himself and most importantly Zoya.
Asad is confused and vulnerable with the signals Zoya is sending him . In fact they are both confused . It is the writers actually who are responsible ...they are dithering . They have kept Ayaan unconscious just to create this confusion in Asad and Zoya's mind . There is a purpose for all this ...first to ensure Asad enters SM and goes right into Zoya/ Ayaan's room ...to witness their established relationship ( photograph)...then her concern for Ayaan and refusal to sit beside Asad ! He is baffled and hurt with the signals Zoya is sending him ...till she herself clears her confusion and hugs him ...throwing all caution to the winds !

I see a parallel here with Asad chasing her @ the airport and giving her the engagement ring . That set their relationship moving ahead ...and this hug in the heart of SM may invoke the same . Razia is working out to be the ally ..as Inspector Dhurandhre was then .
May be Gaffur and Rashid will enter just now and that would set things on the boil ...Asad activated into claiming proprietary rights and threatening to carry Zoya back to KV . He may get arrested and put in jail . Zoya will then leave every thing behind to stand by him .

I think there is a plan to keep Ayaan unconscious through all this . Asad and Zoya will be shown fighting for their love without any outside support ...the two of them together against everyone ...their only ally and confidant in the whole imbroglio rendered disabled when they have to fight the entire might of SM.

They will come out triumphant ...true love always does ...at least in Indian soaps for sure !!!


I love your theory Mamta...would love it if it plays out this way
pyar kiya tho darna kya😃
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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: bheegi



<font color="#330099">I saw the episode again..it was a typical Mars vs Venus scenario</font>

<font color="#330099">Zoya was initially unclear because she was upset with him</font>

<font color="#330099">Later she tried to indirectly plead but he had already made the decision for her...in reality she wanted to hear, "let's go home Zoya. I will take care of everything.'</font>

<font color="#330099">Yes Tanya, I want an independent Zoya after this mess. With a job. Yes, office romance between Asya would be good (i have always wanted to see that as you know😃)</font>

one question di, why was zoya upset on Asad?It was clear that she indirectly refused to go at first .And what happened suddenly .? One more thing she had not come to hug him.When she saw him hurt badly then she huged him.i am saying this after watching again.
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Posted: 11 years ago

saw the episode again (on TV) to make sure I wasn't missing something that others saw. To me it seems like a typical Mars vs Venus scenario. If you look at things from Zoya's POV (BTW, pay attention to SJ's expressions in every scene because they say more than her words), then to me it's still clear that she was disappointed that he didn't take her home. Initially when Dadi stopped him and he made Ayaan the excuse for stopping by, Zoya was pissed. In reality, she wanted him to say the truth but he didn't. That's why that journey to Ayaan's room was so tedious because she was still upset with him. Later, she sat across from him because they were not on the 'same page' Then like a typical woman, she gave him mixed signals- why she couldn't come outside and then she asked him to make the decision for her (this is where she went wrong) She expected him to say 'chalo ghar chalte hain' Instead he asked her to stay back. That's when we saw the hurt expressions on her face (BTW, excellent emoting by SJ in that scene)- she told him that Ayaan has enough people at home and how long would she need to stay? Asad, like a typical man, did not catch on that clue that she really wanted to leave.

Also, Asad's perception was clouded by the slight resentment he was feeling (the photo etc) Then when Ayaan coughed and Zoya attended to him, Asad couldn't take it anymore. He left. Zoya was heartbroken to see him leave. She watched him leave even though she was holding Ayaan's hand.

Then of course she ran to return his phone and then the hug. Even after the hug when he replied he would be back, Zoya's face fell as she was hoping that he would just take her home at that point

It's the same situation like before their confession. They give mixed signals and get disappointed when the other party doesn't 'understand' them. I feel the hug will be a BIG factor going forward. This might give Asad the necessary impetus to take action and not wait passively.

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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: abhi.sweet

one question di, why was zoya upset on Asad?It was clear that she indirectly refused to go at first .And what happened suddenly .? One more thing she had not come to hug him.When she saw him hurt badly then she huged him.i am saying this after watching again.


Zoya is being a typical woman...she is not speaking her mind and expects Asad to understand her. She was also upset that night when he asked her to wait at the gate for her. She wants him to take her away respectfully- not 'sneak' out. When Asad replied he was there for Ayaan, notice Zoya's expression- she was really pissed. Even I have watched the epi again- it's a typical Mars vs Venus scenario. Hats off to the writers for giving this scene so much subtlety and so many ways to interpret it.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
Edited by bheegi - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
@sangi-we are on the same page because we do it in our life so many times...
we show two dresses to our husbands and ask him to choose one...though we already have in our mind which one to wear...but we just want some reinforcement form our husband and choose the one which we like most between them...😆
we get happy if they choose our preferred and get pissed when they chose the other one😆 andit later case we try to make them change their decision with our clues .😆
and women will be same in trivial issues or big ones😆
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