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Posted: 11 years ago
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I know everyone loves Asad and Zoya (I do too), but the last few episodes got me thinking. Now that Ayaan and Zoya are married, whatever their individual feelings, shouldn't they place the sanctity of marriage above their personal sentiments? I happen to believe marriage is more than a relationship. Marriage is destined, whether it's good or bad. And unless your spouse is abusive or evil, should you end the marriage because you love someone else? If you believe in God and get married in a religious ceremony, you're not just making a promise to each other, you're making a promise to God. Can you treat that promise casually, even if you made it under a mistaken impression or under duress? So, considering the fact that neither Ayaan nor Zoya are abusive people, and considering also the fact that they got married in a religious ceremony, I don't think they should end the marriage, at least not for the reason they are contemplating it now. I know I'm probably going to get criticized for this, but that's my personal opinion. What do you guys think?

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Posted: 11 years ago
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it is better to end marriage rather than living a loveless married life,if u r not happy u cant make other happy ...
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Firstly, which marriage ? Nikah hua kaha hai joh nibhaye ?
If people get married by saying 'Haan Haan', then I would say this nikah is legal..
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Posted: 11 years ago
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marriage is nt just saying qubool hai n signing papers its something you put ur soul n heart promise to love him n trusting him n finding happiness in his
u cant do with forced marriage

i always prefer to be alone than living with someone i don't love its like cheating your own soul n institution of marriage


ppl have sme mentality like you n suffer through out their life n nt just that their spouse n children will b affected


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Posted: 11 years ago
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I disagree, why stay in a marraige when you'll be unhappy for the rest of your life. What's the point ? Duty isn't everything and I think people sometimes place too much importance on marraige. I believe we should be able to love and be with anyone we want to be regardless of age , gender, society etc. Marriage is just a formality imo.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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If marriage is that imp our socity never appriciate great love story like
Laila majnu
Heer ranjha
Radha krishan
If u love someone whole heartly like asya ppl may bash u but they accept the fact the love above any boundary.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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nothing think about Ayaan n Zoya b'z we know both r lookz like Bhai - behen or Dever-bhabhi 🤣
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Such marriage is not a marriage...marriage happens when u love someone n want to spend ur rest of life with them..
This was just a co incidence n hence this nikah isnt valid...plus zoya and ayaan both love someone else..so theres no point giving this fake and waste marriage a chance as it will actually ruin all 4 character's lives i.e zoya asad ayaan n humaira..
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Staying married for the wrong reasons is a mistake. More than ending the marriage with honesty. Neither of them chose this marriage. It was a mistake and then they were compelled into carrying it forward. So I disagree. These are not good reasons to continue a marriage.
I agree maybe destiny is part of the process of how you find a life partner. But I don't agree with Gul Khan that a mistake should be considered as one's destiny and something one is condemned into for good!!


Mistakes CAN be rectified and if they can be, then they SHOULD be!!
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Welcome to the forum. You made this account for making this post 😆
they are not married. That nikah is not valid in Islam. And rest my Fellow friends have said everything 😊

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