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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: gossipgirlxoxo

Thanks for leaving !
The best thing you ever did for me good bye...


hawww! 😲
thats so mean!
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: littles12


hawww! 😲
thats so mean!

I will take that as a compliment btw Howz you Mr. C doing ?

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: gossipgirlxoxo

I will take that as a compliment btw Howz you Mr. C doing ?

tumhe kya!
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Ok here is the list and by illogical i mean things that would never happen in real life

1)Zoya leaving on the day of marriage is not real. On marriage day there are so many things happening so many people are there its impossible for any dulhan to leave just impossible

2)Not telling your husband that you have a doubt that his sister's fianc has something going on with a psychotic women who had tried to murder you did mention tried to murder you. No one in real life will go to meet some one who has attempted to murder you once all alone completely illogical especially when you claim you are marryimg some one you love and trust

3)Ayaan and humeira rather than sitting in the car and running away after Ayaan beats up the goons decide to rum away on foot to a jungle. Roll eyes

4)Zoya after running away from the goons had phone in her hand rather than hiding somewhere and calling asad she just continues to run god knows where. Again roll eyes

5)Ayaan finds a place to hide but doesn't hide in there with humeira and call the police

6)Zoya after reaching a crowded place instead of telling people there that goons are following her and calling the police just hides. I don't understand once you have reached a crowded place what is the need to hide goons are not going to drag you out of the nikaah in front of everyone

7)Both ayaan and zoya not telling their family they are in trouble when they called them and worse thay both said yes exactly at the same time when qazi asked them the question what a coincidence

8)Worst haseena bi breaking the relationship because ayaan got married to zoya and ayaan's solution is to bring zoya home for that.I still cant understand how that will solve nikhat's problem rather than asad just telling haseena that he is ok with the marriage and then get zoya and ayaan divorced immediately. May be i am not intelligent enough to understand this

9)Zoya a strong and independent women who stands against hypocrisies of society decided to stand by this fake nikaah which is the biggest hypocrisy of society.Vaise toh Mr khan ki koi baat nahi manti par ye baat sir jhuka ke maan li.Big character inconsistency

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: Sabhayata

Ok here is the list and by illogical i mean things that would never happen in real life

1)Zoya leaving on the day of marriage is not real. On marriage day there are so many things happening so many people are there its impossible for any dulhan to leave just impossible

On marriage day almost every bride I know personally leaves the house to get make up done in a Parlour. Plus If somebody wants to sneak out , they can. Some brides run away from their Nikah on marriage day. This is how Qubool hai started 😉

2)Not telling your husband that you have a doubt that his sister's fianc has something going on with a psychotic women who had tried to murder you did mention tried to murder you. No one in real life will go to meet some one who has attempted to murder you once all alone completely illogical especially when you claim you are marryimg some one you love and trust

Yes in real life people do not do that , but during the entire journey of QH , zoya has been doing the same. Acting as Bond Girl. This was completely foolish but completely in character. Plus she just heard it on phone. She went to get proof. She did not want to cause unnecessary turmoil... but some people learn the hard way and some the hardest whereas some never learn. It was a very idiotic thing to do but she always does that !

3)Ayaan and humeira rather than sitting in the car and running away after Ayaan beats up the goons decide to rum away on foot to a jungle. Roll eyes

Because ...Ayaan dropped the keys in the fight, there was not enough gas, he thought he could run and hide better in a jungle, His brain cells stopped working because he was hit ? It was to create Drama . Can be ignored easily

4)Zoya after running away from the goons had phone in her hand rather than hiding somewhere and calling asad she just continues to run god knows where. Again roll eyes

She is more afraid of Mr. Khan than the goons, and would have lost precious minutes, it would slow her down...plus she did what she could think at that moment.

5)Ayaan finds a place to hide but doesn't hide in there with humeira and call the police

He is the guy, he needs to act macho. He needs to make sure that humzie is fine because just in case they find him atleast humzie will be safe. Also police in India 😆😆I would not trust them, plus it will take time to reach there.sometimes hrs.

6)Zoya after reaching a crowded place instead of telling people there that goons are following her and calling the police just hides. I don't understand once you have reached a crowded place what is the need to hide goons are not going to drag you out of the nikaah in front of everyone.
People usually are mere bystanders, they do not put their life in danger for others. plus goons are armed, she does not want a bloody massacre because of her

7)Both ayaan and zoya not telling their family they are in trouble when they called them and worse thay both said yes exactly at the same time when qazi asked them the question what a coincidence

This is what you call Drama 😉 and Gul is friends with Muqaddar !

8)Worst haseena bi breaking the relationship because ayaan got married to zoya and ayaan's solution is to bring zoya home for that.I still cant understand how that will solve nikhat's problem rather than asad just telling haseena that he is ok with the marriage and then get zoya and ayaan divorced immediately. May be i am not intelligent enough to understand this

That is why community Nikah's importance comes into play. there are too many people involved and if you stay in a society , sometimes you have to abide by the rules.

9)Zoya a strong and independent women who stands against hypocrisies of society decided to stand by this fake nikaah which is the biggest hypocrisy of society.Vaise toh Mr khan ki koi baat nahi manti par ye baat sir jhuka ke maan li.Big character inconsistency.
According to her its not fake Nikah, its Accidental but valid Nikah !
because she also thinks that Nikah ho gaya ! plus again the Drama is required to move the story forward !

Thank you ! I was about to log off . Very valid points. let me try to counter them and see If I am successful . My biggest argument is that they all are in character to a very large extent and we have to consider the dramatic license otherwise how will the story progress ?

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Posted: 12 years ago
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what i dont get is what is the point CV's are trying to make, is it that destiny in not in your hands. but if destiny had chosen Ayaan for Zoya, then how did she fall in love with Asad and Asad in love with her. I dont know how many marriages happen this way, you are suppose to marry one guy but you end up marrying another. that too without knowing. are you suppose to accept an unwanted relationship live with it for the rest of our lives, no matter how unhappy and miserable your are, because society dictates you must and it is your destiny. does that even make sense,
Asad always said "jinhe milana hai vo mill he jayage" he said that because he thought he had lost zoya, but the truth came out and he got Zoya back. they were going to be married. so now what?
he and Zoya must just accept that though they love each other they can never be together. how can you be destined to love one person and live your life with another. then why should anybody take love seriously at all? it is the most precious of emotions, but it has no value what so ever because of destiny.

life gives you choices and it is up to you to make your choice, life does not make the choice for you, if that is the case the nobody is accountable for the bad choice they make. people should not go to jail, or be punished. or be praised, get to go to heaven or hell. because they are not at all responsible for their own actions, fate does everything.

women in abusive relationships should remain in them because it is their destiny, men should live with women who dont love them because it is their destiny.

my point is that destiny does not make a choice for you, you do. Zoya never chose Ayaan, nor did Ayaan choose Zoya. so why should they be husband and wife. that is what is illogical. they have not signed the Nikha nama. that means they are not married yet, but they are be forced to and that is illogical.

what is illogical is that destiny made a choice. and four people have to live with it.

people dont choose to be miserable, but if they live in misery and accept it as destiny, how will they ever find the will to get out of their miserable lives and pursue happiness. how will anybody affect change if they keep blaming destiny and fate.

that is why i find this whole track illogical and a platform for giving out the wrong messages. even TV and entertainment should act responsibly, especially in a country like india, where a lot of people live by superstitions, and are easily influenced by what they see and hear.

take the seiral Balika Vadhu, each episode is wrapped around a social message. important decisions dont happens by chance. but right or wrong choices are made and the consequence are accepted accordingly. and that is the beauty of that serial, it sets examples that can be applied in like. and they to have a lot of drama and twists.

yeah we have seen this changing of the bride or groom routine, but in those either the bride or the groom have made a conscious choice. hear neither Zoya nor Ayaan have made a conscious choice, but they have to live with it and that is illogical
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Sabhayta this is a tv show not a reality show. It's someone's creative work so why look for realism in it? If we can enjoy movies knowing it's fantasy and fake and books the same, why cant e do that for a tv show?
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Posted: 12 years ago
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@merrydock- destiny hasn't shown ayan and Zoya. If it had they would literally be married. But they clevrly aren't.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: merrydock

what i dont get is what is the point CV's are trying to make, is it that destiny in not in your hands. but if destiny had chosen Ayaan for Zoya, then how did she fall in love with Asad and Asad in love with her. I dont know how many marriages happen this way, you are suppose to marry one guy but you end up marrying another. that too without knowing.

Destiny is very cruel
Many Many marriages happen this way.. you fall for one guy and get married to another .(This is the first I have heard that is unknowingly ) are you suppose to accept an unwanted relationship live with it for the rest of our lives, no matter how unhappy and miserable your are, because society dictates you must and it is your destiny. does that even make sense,
It is a temporary arrangement . They don't want to live with it.
Asad always said "jinhe milana hai vo mill he jayage" he said that because he thought he had lost zoya, but the truth came out and he got Zoya back. they were going to be married. so now what?
he and Zoya must just accept that though they love each other they can never be together. how can you be destined to love one person and live your life with another. then why should anybody take love seriously at all? it is the most precious of emotions, but it has no value what so ever because of destiny.
They are the end game. They will unite.

life gives you choices and it is up to you to make your choice, life does not make the choice for you, if that is the case the nobody is accountable for the bad choice they make. people should not go to jail, or be punished. or be praised, get to go to heaven or hell. because they are not at all responsible for their own actions, fate does everything.
That same fate sends them to jail, praise them and punish them

women in abusive relationships should remain in them because it is their destiny, men should live with women who dont love them because it is their destiny.

No ... they should not and eventually they will not


my point is that destiny does not make a choice for you, you do. Zoya never chose Ayaan, nor did Ayaan choose Zoya. so why should they be husband and wife. that is what is illogical. they have not signed the Nikha nama. that means they are not married yet, but they are be forced to and that is illogical.
Nikah Nama is a certificate like . First place certificate. It is a proof. have it or not you still came first
what is illogical is that destiny made a choice. and four people have to live with it.
Life is tangled..

people dont choose to be miserable, but if they live in misery and accept it as destiny, how will they ever find the will to get out of their miserable lives and pursue happiness. how will anybody affect change if they keep blaming destiny and fate.

that is why i find this whole track illogical and a platform for giving out the wrong messages. even TV and entertainment should act responsibly, especially in a country like india, where a lot of people live by superstitions, and are easily influenced by what they see and hear.
Message is beautiful. I want to let it play out
take the seiral Balika Vadhu, each episode is wrapped around a social message. important decisions dont happens by chance. but right or wrong choices are made and the consequence are accepted accordingly. and that is the beauty of that serial, it sets examples that can be applied in like. and they to have a lot of drama and twists.
No Idea what Balika Vadhu is . Guess that is not in my fate !

yeah we have seen this changing of the bride or groom routine, but in those either the bride or the groom have made a conscious choice. hear neither Zoya nor Ayaan have made a conscious choice, but they have to live with it and that is illogical

They will not have to live with it .
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Gossip girl and shayari

I know this is a fictional serial and what happens in real life doesn't apply here. But the topic was what all things are illogical so i pointed that out. I am not arguing with the fact that these things weren't necessary to create drama or weren't necessary for zoyaan track to progress i agree all these loopholes were required for the drama and and story but it doesn't make them logical it is still illogical .I know all serials are illogical to some extent and this is to create drama i have no issue with that after all if serials would depict real life what would be the fun in that. Serials things that cant happen in real life that is how we get entertained i know these things were required for the track but none the less are still illogical but were required for the drama that i agree

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