Why the blame game!!!

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Posted: 11 years ago
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I just watched the new BTS videos. And now I can say that I am officially depressed. Nikkah, valid or invalid, looks like Zoya is left to rot in SM pagalkhaana.
But I still have no idea why Asad, Ayaan, Nikhat or Zoya are being blamed behind all of this for the situation. According to me, they've all behaved true to their characters. If you ask me they've all been like this forever. No surprises there.

Asad - This guy so deeply and unconditionally in love with his Ms.Farooqi, the guy who couldn't even bear the words when Zoya said she would run away from him even for fun, why would he himself would send her away from him? The Asad that we knew has always been a devoting and a sacrificing brother and a son putting his siblings and mother before himself. What do you expect him to do when he knew that the life of his dear sister was in danger??? Ofcourse there are other logical ways to solve the situation(like talk to Haseena bhi ofcourse or confront her with some jewellery or a bungalow whatever) But think about the bigger and shocking truth that Asad had learned just here. The truth that his Zoya is now married to his brother. And Zoya has herself acknowledged him of the fact. Dont start the nikkah validity argument here. No one is in their right mind is trying to question the nikkah. And the qazi saab and the elders is so hell bent on making it a very real and a valid one. All that the guy knows is that a nikkah has happened and he has just lost the love of his life to his brother. Knowing the Asad that respects his traditions so much, wouldn't it be immoral of him to now let Zoya stay? He didn't make the decision for Zoya. He did what he felt was the right and moral thing to do in that situation.

Zoya - We all know she is brave, stands up for what she believes in and can speak up for herself. Then why didn't she speak up when Asad literally dragged her out of the KM you ask. Well she did as much as she could. Despite being modern and outspoken, she has always been seeking the approval of Mr.Khan and accepting his decisions(well atleast in some cases. Like when she wanted his approval eventhough she wanted to stay back in India. There are other cases like when she left the house without informing Asad. What can I say? She is crazy and we know it) And above all she believes that a nikkah has happened. Eventhough she knows it is a mistake, it is a mistake on her part altogether and she has yet to find a way to correct it. Isn't losing the love of her life a big price to pay for a mistake? Yes it is. But what other choice does she have now? I hope she speaks up atleast at the right moment. But being the self sacrificing soul that she is I wouldn't be surprised if she does the opposite.

Ayaan - What can I say about this guy? He has always been IMPULSIVE and will always remain to be. He doesn't see anything except what is right in front of him. Right now it is Nikhat and her life. Being so determined to set things right for her he doesn't even look around the other loved ones being hurt, be it Asad, Zoya or Humeira. Like in yesterday's episode did the guy even look back a minute to see Humeira bawling behind him? Or when Zoya held onto Asad the minute he let go off her arm? If he had he wouldn't have even thought about going through with this. It is like him setting fire to Imran's car without even realising Imran being in it all over again. He doesn't even realize the depth of the situations until he is face with the consequences. He is flawed this way. Well nobody's perfect. We can't expect him to change now all of a sudden? Can we?

Nikhat - The victim in all of this. She has put up this brave girl facade all along for her family. All she wanted was to relieve her family off the burden of marrying her into a good family. Think about it. She was raised this way; to be a caring wife and a mother; to just raise a family; not to be a woman of today. I mean her brave girl act worked till now. But after Haseena bhi's fiasco everything came back crashing down. And so did her facade. How much more can the girl take? I am not justifying her suicide attempt though. So no bashing please.

With all of this, the only person who is making any sense is Rashid. Sorry man for all those times I've cursed you for being spineless. He is the only one trying to find some way out of this situation other than this. He is the only one who has even realised the depth of the feelings involved in all of this.

So to all those who are blaming the characters I hope my explanation helps. But I am open to your views too.
All I can say is I am disappointed by the way the things are unfolding too( especially after the BTS' today) But I am enjoying the drama as well. I am amazed by the sheer brilliance the cast brings on-screen. So I am gonna stick around till everything is sorted.

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Great post!
I know it is sad to watch the characters we love go through so much pain..we wish they change and do things differently but what can we say..that's who they are..their choices..their consequences..
I am loving the show..the story is moving..the actors have been brilliant! though heartbreaking, the scenes have been very well done!
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Posted: 11 years ago
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I understand ur pov and I agree... asad just got to know dat zoya got married to his brother and zoya also acknowledges the fact dat ayaan and her did get married and asad did wat is right because accidental or not,valid or invalid...the FACT is that they did get married...and asad can't do anything in dat..and so he can't let her stay at his house...but I just have a problem with the fact dat asad did not even ask her or requested her to go SM for nikhat's sake.I mean ok he thinks she is married to his brother so she should be in dat house but it should be entirely her decision if she wants to go there or not ...but no he literally dragged her to dat house and is basically forcing her to accept the marriage against her will. I would have been ok if asad had atleast asked her b4 taking her to SM...if she would have refused den he could have told her dat for him she is married and so its not correct for her to live in his house den if zoya herself would have decided to go to SM den dats ok because dis would have been entirely her own decision but here asad is taking decision on her behalf without even consulting her. And if she would have agreed to go den dats fine ...
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Omg!! I just realised I wrote too much... So sry got carried away...lol

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Posted: 11 years ago
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I really feel that the love for the cast in QH and their brilliant performances are the only thing that has kept me hooked till now.
Great post. 👏
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: y.c.yetikaroxx

I understand ur pov and I agree... asad just got to know dat zoya got married to his brother and zoya also acknowledges the fact dat ayaan and her did get married and asad did wat is right because accidental or not,valid or invalid...the FACT is that they did get married...and asad can't do anything in dat..and so he can't let her stay at his house...but I just have a problem with the fact dat asad did not even ask her or requested her to go SM for nikhat's sake.I mean ok he thinks she is married to his brother so she should be in dat house but it should be entirely her decision if she wants to go there or not ...but no he literally dragged her to dat house and is basically forcing her to accept the marriage against her will. I would have been ok if asad had atleast asked her b4 taking her to SM...if she would have refused den he could have told her dat for him she is married and so its not correct for her to live in his house den if zoya herself would have decided to go to SM den dats ok because dis would have been entirely her own decision but here asad is taking decision on her behalf without even consulting her. And if she would have agreed to go den dats fine ...



I wish he had asked her opinion too atleast once instead of forcing it upon her. He has changed so much since Zoya came into his life so I kinda hoped atleast now he would put his heart before his brain, would've asked Zoya what she wanted to do. But somethings never change. Do they? Asad has always been forcing what is right upon himself and upon others around him as well. I can only see him as the same old Akdu again dragging Zoya away like that. Remember all the times he has been rude to her, manhandled her. This was just like that.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: y.c.yetikaroxx

Omg!! I just realised I wrote too much... So sry got carried away...lol



Ha ha! I appreciate it. The long comments. Thank you. We all get carried away with this show.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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great post
please don't blame anyone
I also Strong Hope With Rashid beacause in this is the only and last chance he will prouved his inocent and get back son love
and he is not let happen asad life like his life.. and there another Rashid will born.

i think rashid will only reunit AsYa.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: mandarin26



I wish he had asked her opinion too atleast once instead of forcing it upon her. He has changed so much since Zoya came into his life so I kinda hoped atleast now he would put his heart before his brain, would've asked Zoya what she wanted to do. But somethings never change. Do they? Asad has always been forcing what is right upon himself and upon others around him as well. I can only see him as the same old Akdu again dragging Zoya away like that. Remember all the times he has been rude to her, manhandled her. This was just like that.

and Rashid not allowed asad life also go like His Life
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: mandarin26



Ha ha! I appreciate it. The long comments. Thank you. We all get carried away with this show.

yah thankyou😃

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