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Posted: 11 years ago
#71

Originally posted by: rogerrocks

Hey while i respect your POV, i don really think it matters who is at fault..The track is not just lame but sick and Gul just managed to rip the female lead off her dignity and self-respect🥱 I feel disgusted after watching the TT video..Its not about who is right and who is wrong..Its about the blatant commodication of women on this show..Their consent is not asked even as a matter of formality😆 The elder brother loans out his fiancee to his younger brother for a month's time? Thats sick..I'd rather Gul had shown Ayaan and Zoya marrying eachother out of their own accord cos thats million times better than the regressive plot thats being shoved down out throats


Roger,


It is LAME LAME LAME...the LAMEST THING I HAVE SEEN FROM GUL...
Zoya's dignity and self respect: I thnk it is intact, since she is convinced that the nikah was not valid...Asad knows it too...

Why is Zoya fighting him here...because she does not want to be SENT AWAY FROM HIM...she fears teh DISTANCE HE IS PUTTING...NOt playing a drama in someon''s house...

Asad is trying to convince her that IT WILL BE FINE...HE WILL MAKE THINGS FINE...but she is too scared to listen now...

Neither of them, nor Ayan is thinking about a infidelity angle here...

Regressive plot...I agree...I think all Gul intended was that Zoya should get to SM and she should get some proper tears out of her leads...the trps will show her where she went wrong.😉

As for the forum, I think everyone is APPROACHING TEH SHOW WITH A PRECONCEIVED NOTION AND MISSING OUT ON THE STORY...does not help that Gul has screwed up a lot on her own too...but we are simply adding to teh negativity...compounding what is originally theer MANY TIMES OVER...
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Posted: 11 years ago
#72
Noodle khala, just cause you love Gul that doesn't mean that you will support her un-biased all the time. :((

She did a wrong thing. Send a very wrong message to the society which i really didn't expect at-least her to sent

It might be OKAY for the people at Tumblr and Fb and other places and they can fandom about it cause they think it is great thing in the name of aghast and drama, but then reality is what see always reflects the society and am sorry this really send a very bad message to the society.
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Posted: 11 years ago
#73

Originally posted by: Ani-asya

For one person life shake (nikhat) other persons sacrificing their life is too much.. Its not acceptable even in fiction..
Zoya is a selfless girl but sacrificing her love life is ridiculous...
Bechari.. Ayaan is at fault the way he compare najma & nikhat eventhough he sacrificing his love the way he asked zoya from asad clearly shows he is selfish.. ayaan only care about his sisters.. Not asad.. But asad always cared about all more than himself.. Its called sacrifice..
But ayaan is at fault selfish like his mother..
because of them asya suffering...


1. Zoya is not sacrificing her love life...she is being asked to go to SM and STALL HER NIKAH for a month...that is all!😊

2. If Ayan was selfsh, he'd have walked out on his sisters..he doesn't he goes to ASad out of helplessness,..and blackmails...OUT OF FEAR FOR HIS SISTER'S LIFE..😳😳
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Posted: 11 years ago
#74

Originally posted by: -KSGsmitten-

I agree that Nighat is not at all to be blamed. But Ayaan is. I know he is also sacrificing his love for his sister but he is asking a lot more from Asad.


I think Humeria would be told that its a sham and she would still be under the same roof.

But its not gonna be the same for Asad. He is asking Asad to make Zoya stay away from him. He is asking Asad to cancel his wedding when its his 3rd attempt.

Yet I would have forgiven him considering that he is Shireen's spawn. But by saying that 'what if it was Najma' he completely lost all my sympathy.


If the track goes teh way I think, Humeira and everyone is going to make Zoya feel at home...

What if it was Najma...😆...would Asad not have done the same?
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: MisHumptyDumpty

Noodle khala, just cause you love Gul that doesn't mean that you will support her un-biased all the time. :((


She did a wrong thing. Send a very wrong message to the society which i really didn't expect at-least her to sent

It might be OKAY for the people at Tumblr and Fb and other places and they can fandom about it cause they think it is great thing in the name of aghast and drama, but then reality is what see always reflects the society and am sorry this really send a very bad message to the society.

Ankie yaar abhi Delhi door hai...
Message to Drama khatam hone ke baad aayega..
jab hamari real life damini Nainsaafi ke khilaaf awaaz uthaegi...
Hai uski ye kahaani,hai Aurat jiska naam
jo hoti hai ghar ki izzat,jisse hota hai Imaan

Shakhs nahin ye ek,iske hai roop anek
kabhi Maa to kabhi Behan,har roop me hai ye Mahaan

Par bhool chuka hai aaj ka aadmi apni gairat
bas dekhta hai isse HAWAS se,ban gaya woh shaitaan

Zara socho us Aurat ko bhi..diya jisne janam tumko
Naari ki na izzat karke,na karo maa ko badnaam

kya ye hi woh bharat hai jisne pooja tha har maa ko?
Kahan gayi woh nazar poorani,kyon badal gaya Insaan?

har roz bikti hai akhbaar lekar balatkaar ki khabre hazaar
[B]Kahan gayi Bharatvaasion woh tumhari aan..maan..sanmaan ?

Bas haath jodkar kehta huun..ab ban jao tum Insaan
Is paak dharti ko ab na karo aur Badnaam
do us Maa ..us Beti..us Behan ko poora sanmaan
Lauta lao waapas wo Gairat..woh pehle jaisa HINDUSTAAN
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Posted: 11 years ago
#76

Originally posted by: MisHumptyDumpty

Noodle khala, just cause you love Gul that doesn't mean that you will support her un-biased all the time. :((


She did a wrong thing. Send a very wrong message to the society which i really didn't expect at-least her to sent

It might be OKAY for the people at Tumblr and Fb and other places and they can fandom about it cause they think it is great thing in the name of aghast and drama, but then reality is what see always reflects the society and am sorry this really send a very bad message to the society.


Ankie,

Gul goes crazy at times..I agree... and the trps will teach her a lesson I hope, like U all want!

But I sincerely feel the forum is just compounding teh ugliness...just focussing on it, when there is a lot more to QH than this infidelity angle people are trying to project!

Half of it is in their minds...😛
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Posted: 11 years ago
#77

Originally posted by: Mayeesha2217

I beg to differ...when did Haseena say that if Ayaan brings Zoya home,she will accept Nikhat?Rather,her action was quite the opposite..she broke off the relation because Ayaan betrayed Asad by marrying Zoya..at least thats what she told them..we all know she did it all because of her own selfish greedy demands.So how exactly does that justify Ayaan's demand?And come on man..instead of going up to his elder brother asking for his Dulhan and blackmailing him with 'agar Najma Nikhat ki jagah pe hoti to aap kya karte',Ayaan should just make Nikhat understand that Haseena bi and her family does not deserve her..and encourage her to find better things to do in her life.

I am not denying here that Ayaan is genuinely concerned for Nikhat..but that definitely does not mean he will go around and ruin other people's lives.And about what you said about Asad feeling guilty cause he went ahead with Najraan and ruined Nikhat's life.As far as I recall...Asad asked Nikhat time and again about how she felt..and she lied to him again and again.Even though he was away from his sister for years,for that matter,he already understands Nikhat a lot.We simply cannot expect anything more from him.


Ayaan IS selfish..not because he is trying to do something for Nikhat,his 'sagi' behen..but just because he thinks he can just go to his brother and ask for his dulhan on their wedding day just because being a sautela bhai,Asad said,'Nikhat ke liye mai apni jaan bhi de doonga'..this is downright cheap!His brother's 'jaan se bhi azeez' Zoya is not a freaking doll that he can take as a loan from his oh-so-sacrificing elder brother!!!😡


P.S- If it is a sacrifice that Ayaan is making because he loves Humeira..I think he should have talked to her first..before going and turning Asad's world upside down by making undue demands😡


1. I no way am I justifying Ayan's actions...please be clear on that...all I am saying is that he is sacrificing his love too...

2. Najma would never have to do what Nikhat did, so I'd rather not talk about that dialogue.😉

3. To Ayan,it seems like Haseena will agre to Nikhat if Asad leaves his dulhan ther and says it doesn't matter to him ONE BIT...some twisted logic, but that is all the script can offer.😉

4. If Nikhat lied, again it was for teh happiness of her brothers...even yesterday she screamed that no one should blame her bhaijaan Ayan for the whole mess...
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Posted: 11 years ago
#78

Originally posted by: -Aswini-

Soup, There is no logic at all...How Zoya acting as Ayaan's wife would solve the problem? and the most annoying thing is Zoya being treated like a commodity..If zoya had volunteerily agreed to fake something i'm ok with this..but she is being pushed and i hate her for simply bulging under Asad's pressure..where did the feminist inside her go? Gul was preaching ppl, "When a girl says a NO its a NO" in that Rajveer fiasco...where did that principal go now..?the TT video has made me hate QH altogether😆 Asad and Zoya are not same anymore..Gul simply butchered all the characters to incorporate the new twist..and yo know wat Asad is making her permanently get married to Ayaan just to save Nikhat from further problems after marriage. If they assume that makes him a sacrificial lamb they are wrong, this made him a selfish ass. and all the ppl in that house and the qazi are letting her sign the paper despite of her unwillingness🤢 for wat ? to get the girl in their house married🤢 R.I.P Self Respect


Ash,

There is no gun to Zoya's head..

She can chose between her self respect and her love...she chooses Asad...half willing..half- trusting...😊
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Posted: 11 years ago
#79

Originally posted by: anushreemishra

Ohk first of all I don't get why zoya nd ayaan are being blamed for nikhat's condition...the only one to be blamed is Haseena bi...she is an opportunistic woman nd while I agree zoyaan nakli nikaah gave her an excuse to do her drama but trust me had it not been this hassena would have broken the engagement on some other pretext...and I don't get how zoyaan is supposed to solve the problem?haseena bi clearly said while leaving SM ki ab Dekho wo log kitna Kuch denge engagement wapas jodne k liye ...she wants money and everyone knows by that now so why not shove a lot of money n her throat and the biggest point a woman who can break and engagement so many times at the drop of a hat what is to stop her from doing it again...IMO people shouldn't even think about sending nikhat there...
Having said that I can understand the plight of the khan brothers for their sister but that doesn't give them the right to play with someone else's life...they could die for all I care but they are ruining humeira and zoya's life in the process...
not once did ayaan think of even asking humeira?and asad nd ayaan casually decide that yes zoya can go with ayaan and do not even ask her and on top of that asad drags her out like she is some kind of rug against her wishes...just because you need to save someone's life you can't destroy someone else's that too against her wishes...
And after all this if zoya does agree to all this she is a fool too


It has become public knowledge...and the nikah is permanent as far as Siddiqui is concerned..like he told Raziya clearly...we have to live with the consequences..even our daughter...better accept it.

Assd is supposed to tell teh worldrhat he is happy with Zoya in Ayan's house...that he has no problems with 'that house' on ths issue..

He is not destroying her life..just trying to get a soluton for Nikhat, Zoya nad Ayan..
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Ayaan is selfish! for his own sister with whom he has khoon ka rishta he is emotionally blackmailing Asad to sacrifice his love...I thought he considered Asad his brother..But doesnt seem like it anymore 🥱..He is wronging both AsYa by asking them do this ..

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