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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: VindhyaMounika

I think she is meeting ekta now-a-days...

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: KaBhi-FAN


thanx for supporting! 😳

u r right thats y supporting u😊
i came to know about this so called nikah frm friend, so visited the forum to let evryone know they are insulting islam but ppl here hv alredy made the point, good to know that 😊
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Posted: 11 years ago
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u r right thats y supporting u😊
i came to know about this so called nikah frm friend, so visited the forum to let evryone know they are insulting islam but ppl here hv alredy made the point, good to know that😊


yeah of course, i am a muslim, n if anything going wrong i'll raise my voice!be it pakistan or india or china or any country Qur'an n Islam are same for all! i really pity them, who are not understanding our POV!
gud to c u here for Islam! 😊
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: KaBhi-FAN


yeah of course, i am a muslim, n if anything going wrong i'll raise my voice!be it pakistan or india or china or any country Qur'an n Islam are same for all! i really pity them, who are not understanding our POV!
gud to c u here for Islam! 😊


wat others hv problem in understanding simple point?
hmm...came for islam..it is above evrything 😊
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: KaBhi-FAN


yeah of course, i am a muslim, n if anything going wrong i'll raise my voice!be it pakistan or india or china or any country Qur'an n Islam are same for all! i really pity them, who are not understanding our POV!
gud to c u here for Islam! 😊

exactly pity is the only word i find for people like that. calling us fanatics n what not. and some think that just coz of the intentipon of getting asya back togethr we are venting our angst against gul... asya marries zoyaa or imran or whoever i dont give a damn. to spice things up u can throw all other shit at us. but she is creating a confusion among people who dont know about islam. now many people beleive that islam allows a girl to validate her marriage just by saying 'qubool hain'. what rubbish.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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I think she has also forgotten one part (condition) of muslim marriages, where if you are forced to marry someone who you dont want to, then it is not considered a real marriage. And is not valid because in your heart you did not accept and/or want it, which basically means that from then onwards anything these two do as a 'married couple' wont be considered real since the marriage itself is not valid.
In Islam the full agreement of the couple is needed and by that i dont mean if they have to/forced to verbally say 'yes' because of a situation, i mean that they actually and fully accept and want to enter in this marriage wholeheartedly.
I guess to give a more clear example it will be as if in a Hindu marriage, they did not do the full 7 pheres or did not put the sindoor/manglesutar on etc.
Or if in a Christian wedding the couple did not stand in front of a priest/minister and say their vows and 'I Dos' and get blessed.

So basically in Islamic Marriages you cant call a wedding valid just because you went through the rasams and the motions of being/getting married, until and unless you actually want to be in this marriage saying 'Qubool Hai/yes' or signing anything will not make the marriage real. Thats how important the full agreement of both the girl and guy is in a muslim marriage.

P.S. lol sorry if the explanation ran a bit long 😊

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: T4YY4B4

I think she has also forgotten one part (condition) of muslim marriage, where if you are forced to marry someone who you dont want to, then it is not considered a real marriage. And is not valid because in your heart you did not accept and/or want it, which basically means that from then onwards anything these two do as a 'married couple' wont be considered real since the marriage itself is not valid.

In Islam the full agreement of the couple is needed and by that i dont mean if they have to/forced to verbally say 'yes' because of a situation, i mean that they actually and fully accept and want to enter in this marriage wholeheartedly.

dittooo !! totally agree with you !
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Posted: 11 years ago
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😡 u know what i will do from now read all the dramas written by other members
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Qubool.Hain

exactly pity is the only word i find for people like that. calling us fanatics n what not. and some think that just coz of the intentipon of getting asya back togethr we are venting our angst against gul... asya marries zoyaa or imran or whoever i dont give a damn. to spice things up u can throw all other shit at us. but she is creating a confusion among people who dont know about islam. now many people beleive that islam allows a girl to validate her marriage just by saying 'qubool hain'. what rubbish.


exactly my point! those who are on internet may be able to catch gul's so called CLEARING MISCONCEPTIONS!
what abt others??? they'll remain in dark cuzof this!
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: KaBhi-FAN


yes i am a muslim! n i wrote it cuz the biggest crime for muslims is 'shirk' gul dnt know, n if she knows than i dnt know why she showed asad zoya in a dargah... we muslims are commanded to ask Allah directly for anything not by going in dargah of any baba
sory if am offending!!

Gud 1 Rabi, that we pray to Allah.. not baba.. nd we visit dargah to just see the the tomb of the sahabah or any buzurg. Not to ask them.
And secondly what ever tammy ^ said.. i felt it as true... well only the part where she wrote that u shud not talk bout her faith or she.not.opening.the.quran. i felt that wuz wrong... no actually rude...

Sorry Rabi dear if i sounded rude... but had to explain u this... :)
P.S- Tammy bhi muslim hai... nd she loves to fight... :/

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