Zoyaan - the slippery highground of morality - Page 8

Originally posted by: bheegi

Thanks for directing me to your post. I completely agree with what you are saying

As I have said before, Asad and Zoya's story is a mirror image of each other. Zoya follows while Asad leads. Just like Tanveer helped him (indirectly) shatter his beliefs in love, infidelity, insecurity about being like his abbu, Zoya needs a wake up call from her firm belief in this 'tab umar' philosophy. Life doesn't follow a strict and preconceived pattern/. Despiet our beliefs, we are all forced to change ourselves in due course of time.

Zoya's belief in her philosophy shall also shatter because she will realize a loveless marriage means nothing.

Just like Zoya eventually trusted Asad, Asad will also come around and trust Zoya in this situation. Yes, he will be hurt initially (like she was) but in the end he will help her come out of the dumps

Originally posted by: Oldestfan

Thanks for reading nd commenting, sangeeta! More and more it looks like its going to be a mistake/accident of shakespearean calibre! Lets see how it goes! At least Tanveer seems to be doing all this for revenge against Zoya, and is not trying to get close to Asad again! Anything but Jaanu! Ayyans heart is in the right place, so hoping for a quick resolution. How long does Big boss last anyway?! Amd te one year anniversary of QH is Oct 29 ! Lot of external factors to influence!

Originally posted by: Oldestfan

Excellent question! My question really is... Will she do so blindly? You are absolutely right... A husband is not a car that you test drive! But ... In these lopsidedly contrived situations that qubool hai creates... Is the appearance of a wedding good enough to be real? Are you really married if you are made to beleve that you are married, or if everyone believes that bout you? Tanveer, the master of illusion is playing in this game. Its a question of the spirit vs. the letter of the law. Yes, marriage should be meant for life... But the second part is between two people who consciously accept each other and agree to be faithful partners etc. if she made a terrible mistake, or was a victim of a diabolical scheme, does that commitment still stand? It is a matter of conviction vs. blind faith. I donn't really have an answer myself! Only questions? 😛

Originally posted by: .Anamika.

But what if the marriage is accidental or worse, forced? Isn't this violating a principle of freedom? A woman and a man have their rights to choose their own spouse and to decide when and whom to marry. For marriage to be valid, both parties have to consent to it. If a piece of paper says you're married, does that mean you're married? To me, no.

This is quite a tricky topic to show and I'm still doubtful about how it's going to progress. I don't like the whole concept of "Destiny" shaping people's lives. At the end of the day, there are some things you have control over and instead of accepting defeat to "fate", a strong, independent girl should be fighting to exercise that control, not accept it blindly.