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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: niki_12

Okay another reason why Zoya entered...she needs to know Nikhat...and then even when AsYa unite she will look out for Nikhat's interest too.

Am i making sense? Or am i being delusional to think AsYa will be together for this whole AsYa + Ayaan fighting Bhaiseena gang??


Niki, you are making sense 😆 Even I feel the same but positive sochne se dar lagta hai when it comes to QH. Once bitten twice shy 😆
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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: mbficoa

i dont care about either of them..😳


Me neither Honey 😃

Hi 5 😆
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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: s120


Niki, you are making sense 😆 Even I feel the same but positive sochne se dar lagta hai when it comes to QH. Once bitten twice shy 😆


Thank you Shreya! I know but trp's ne bhi apna kamal dikhaya hai! Genius Gul cannot close this all up in a day right?
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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: niki_12


Thank you Shreya! I know but trp's ne bhi apna kamal dikhaya hai! Genius Gul cannot close this all up in a day right?


True! She can take all her time but she needs to clean the mess up 😆
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Posted: 12 years ago
ok, so I finally am getting time to respond. I read everybody's posts n couldn't respond till now cz parents were in for the weekend. Anyway, I really don't knw how this track is gonna play out cz I'm super confused but I did wanna share my thoughts abt the current happenings in regards to their behavior. I'm really not that invested in Ayaan so gonna ignore him for now. I do wanna say abt Asad n Zoya.
Ok, so a lot of ppl said that Asad is not asking Zoya what she wants n is treating like commodity etc. I think I already posted my thoughts on that but just wanted to take this a step further. For one, Zoya need not necessary listen or follow what he's saying. Its not even abt being modern or traditional. Its just the kind of character Zoya is. She has so many times gone against Asad's wishes or beliefs or as current results show, their promise. So why not this time!

But on a deeper level, I do feel that there is something lacking in Zoya's love. I feel that there is still insecurity and a little lack of intensity in Zoya's love. Firstly cz, I don't think she has a firm and solid belief in their love. I have a feeling that she needed that nikah to help her get that solid feeling n that's why whenever she promised Asad, she always said "nikah woh vaada hai" instead of just saying "main aapke saath hamesha rahoongi aur main aapke bina nahi reh paongi" or something like that. Secondly, I feel that she still hasn't completely understood Asad n his level of love for Nikhat, Ayaan and Nuzhat. I mean, I think maybe she has an idea abt Ayaan but I feel she still hasn't grasped that he loves Nikhat as much as Najma. I mean, when it was Najma's case, just to prevent her life from being spoiled by marrying a wrong guy, she was willing to break her love's promise, go out an hr before her own wedding and investigate the truth. Now, because of a mistake that she and Ayaan have done, it is Nikhat's actual life on the line n I don't think she's understanding wht that means to Asad. It was also obvious during the Nikhat blowout in the beginning of the Najma-Imran truth coming out. She was pretty insensitive towards his feelings for Nikhat n was more focused on Najma n Najma's happiness. Zoya hasn't made Nikhat and Nuzhat her sisters as she has made Najma. I think for her, relationships are more made out of contact and knowing each other not just out of extension. I mean, Asad had made it his mission to find Zoya's abu cz he understood how much he means to her n so her search became his search n similarly, he made Nuzhat, Nikhat and Ayaan as important as Najma even though they're not living together or even are in contact (except Ayaan). Zoya has failed on that level of making his extended family her family so she's not willing to sacrifice or compromise her relationship with Asad for Nikhat.

I feel Asad has a solid and strong belief/security in his love and their love/relationship. I think he belives (like KSG) that love will conquer and they will find their way bk to each other. I think Zoya is still insecure and needs that nikah to cement the security.

I just thought of something ki even if Nikhat's angle hadn't happened, wt wud they have done? I mean, they obv agree tat it happened by mistake but still do agree that it happened n that the nikah happened. Till now, they don't know abt the validity of the wedding so wt wud they hv done? That's wt I'm wondering cz Ayaan ko chhod ke, Asad n Zoya take nikah n their relationships very seriously toh pata nahi kya karte. This is just me thinking aloud 😛

Sorry if I offended anyone but the more I saw the scenes n the more I thought abt it, it just kept coming bk to this thought process and issues. Also, if u think abt it, Asad must be dead inside or is at least hurting the most. I mean, first of all, his heart breaks that his bro n the love of his life got married (at this point, doesn't matter ki its really not valid) then Nikhat's life is in danger cz of that mistake, then he has to break his heart again and give away his love n worst of all, he knows how much he is breaking Zoya's heart and how much pain she is in n so he's feeling the pain double cz according to him, they are one n their hearts are one. So to me, he's really like how ksg described it dead but showing live death (if that makes sense).
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Posted: 12 years ago
https://www.indiaforums.com/forum/qubool-hai/3746684/all-about-sacrifice
This is a great post! This is why i feel AsYa will be together by Eid.

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Posted: 12 years ago
Guys, our next part is ready for when we finish 150 pgs on this thread :)
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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: AsadkiDeewani

ok, so I finally am getting time to respond. I read everybody's posts n couldn't respond till now cz parents were in for the weekend. Anyway, I really don't knw how this track is gonna play out cz I'm super confused but I did wanna share my thoughts abt the current happenings in regards to their behavior. I'm really not that invested in Ayaan so gonna ignore him for now. I do wanna say abt Asad n Zoya.

Ok, so a lot of ppl said that Asad is not asking Zoya what she wants n is treating like commodity etc. I think I already posted my thoughts on that but just wanted to take this a step further. For one, Zoya need not necessary listen or follow what he's saying. Its not even abt being modern or traditional. Its just the kind of character Zoya is. She has so many times gone against Asad's wishes or beliefs or as current results show, their promise. So why not this time!

But on a deeper level, I do feel that there is something lacking in Zoya's love. I feel that there is still insecurity and a little lack of intensity in Zoya's love. Firstly cz, I don't think she has a firm and solid belief in their love. I have a feeling that she needed that nikah to help her get that solid feeling n that's why whenever she promised Asad, she always said "nikah woh vaada hai" instead of just saying "main aapke saath hamesha rahoongi aur main aapke bina nahi reh paongi" or something like that. Secondly, I feel that she still hasn't completely understood Asad n his level of love for Nikhat, Ayaan and Nuzhat. I mean, I think maybe she has an idea abt Ayaan but I feel she still hasn't grasped that he loves Nikhat as much as Najma. I mean, when it was Najma's case, just to prevent her life from being spoiled by marrying a wrong guy, she was willing to break her love's promise, go out an hr before her own wedding and investigate the truth. Now, because of a mistake that she and Ayaan have done, it is Nikhat's actual life on the line n I don't think she's understanding wht that means to Asad. It was also obvious during the Nikhat blowout in the beginning of the Najma-Imran truth coming out. She was pretty insensitive towards his feelings for Nikhat n was more focused on Najma n Najma's happiness. Zoya hasn't made Nikhat and Nuzhat her sisters as she has made Najma. I think for her, relationships are more made out of contact and knowing each other not just out of extension. I mean, Asad had made it his mission to find Zoya's abu cz he understood how much he means to her n so her search became his search n similarly, he made Nuzhat, Nikhat and Ayaan as important as Najma even though they're not living together or even are in contact (except Ayaan). Zoya has failed on that level of making his extended family her family so she's not willing to sacrifice or compromise her relationship with Asad for Nikhat.

I feel Asad has a solid and strong belief/security in his love and their love/relationship. I think he belives (like KSG) that love will conquer and they will find their way bk to each other. I think Zoya is still insecure and needs that nikah to cement the security.

I just thought of something ki even if Nikhat's angle hadn't happened, wt wud they have done? I mean, they obv agree tat it happened by mistake but still do agree that it happened n that the nikah happened. Till now, they don't know abt the validity of the wedding so wt wud they hv done? That's wt I'm wondering cz Ayaan ko chhod ke, Asad n Zoya take nikah n their relationships very seriously toh pata nahi kya karte. This is just me thinking aloud 😛

Sorry if I offended anyone but the more I saw the scenes n the more I thought abt it, it just kept coming bk to this thought process and issues. Also, if u think abt it, Asad must be dead inside or is at least hurting the most. I mean, first of all, his heart breaks that his bro n the love of his life got married (at this point, doesn't matter ki its really not valid) then Nikhat's life is in danger cz of that mistake, then he has to break his heart again and give away his love n worst of all, he knows how much he is breaking Zoya's heart and how much pain she is in n so he's feeling the pain double cz according to him, they are one n their hearts are one. So to me, he's really like how ksg described it dead but showing live death (if that makes sense).


Devika! How are you?

You are not offending anyone you are just stating your opinion and that is fine.

You are right that Zoya is more bonded to Najma and does not have the same relationship with Asad's other siblings. But she knows how much they mean to him IMO. Remember how she united Asad and Ayaan in that ambulance then on Holi.

Honestly i don't feel anything is lacking in Zoya's love. If there was then she would have never initiated the 2nd nikah attempt when nothing about Asad-Billi was clear. She would not have given up looking for her father for Asad. She loves him a lot but like I have said before she talks so much that we don't notice the intensity. But Asad talks less and when he says anything its automatically powerful.

Zoya's insecurity stems from her parent's relationship and she needs marriage to seal it. Her father impregnated her mother and left her. So IMO her insecurity is much more deep. Whoever Zoya has loved except Aapi and Jeeju have left her. She has no one blood related in the world according to her except her father who destiny has kept away from her. Now Asad is her life and she wants to seal the deal. She wants to get married ASAP because she is scared he will leave her. Unfortunately that is what has happened. Like i said, this is a DIRECT parallel between Asad and Zoya. Asad's biggest fear was becoming his father and Zoya's ultimate fear was Asad will leave her. After they overcome this they will be stronger then ever! 😳

I know Asad is broken because of this situation too and its killing him as well. Not marrying Zoya is probably the right thing to do. My biggest problem with what they have shown is how Asad takes her there and forces her to accept the marriage when she is calling it a mistake. He has the right to break up with her, be mad at her, hold her responsible for Nikhat's condition but IMO he cannot force Zoya do to something against her will. Zoya is an extension of him and yes they are one in soul but they are different individuals. And Asad understand this as well. This is why i am hoping he has a plan. He is not the kind of person to let Zoya cry like this or force his decisions on Zoya. He WAS like that but he has changed BIG TIME.
I agree with you that Asad is suffering a lot. Probably from every side. Gul is a sadist

Sorry if you are offended.
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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: niki_12

Okay another reason why Zoya entered...she needs to know Nikhat...and then even when AsYa unite she will look out for Nikhat's interest too.

Am i making sense? Or am i being delusional to think AsYa will be together for this whole AsYa + Ayaan fighting Bhaiseena gang??


Niks, Devika's recent post and this comment of yours kinda highlight the same thing, as far as Nikhat Zoya relationship is concerned..This could be the bonding time between the two..and later Zoya going out of the way to help Nikhat (Farhan theory we talked about today) just like she did for Naj on her wedding day!
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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: mbficoa


Niks, Devika's recent post and this comment of yours kinda highlight the same thing, as far as Nikhat Zoya relationship is concerned..This could be the bonding time between the two..and later Zoya going out of the way to help Nikhat (Farhan theory we talked about today) just like she did for Naj on her wedding day!


Yes Honey exactly! She will see the broken Nikhat and I think you only said how a repeat of Najma nikah can happen. But for her to work together for Najma and Nikhat with Asad and Ayaan one problem must be solved and AsYa and AyRa have to be together again!

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