Understanding Humeira's behaviour - Page 2

Although I can imagine what she's going through after 1) finding out about Ayaan not loving her and that he lied to her. And 2) that she's got a septal defect.

Originally posted by: .Anamika.

Although I can imagine what she's going through after 1) finding out about Ayaan not loving her and that he lied to her. And 2) that she's got a septal defect.

In a very short span of time, she's been going through a lot. Imagine if she found about the truth about Razia as well! That would have literally broken her.

But still, what I wanted Humeira to do was avoid Ayaan and do something that would make her stronger inside. That could mean going to do a course, becoming independent in some way! Of course, she can't forget Ayaan when he's right there but at the very least I wanted to see her trying to do something else. To distract herself.

Love can do a lot of crazy things, especially when you've loved only one person your entire life. But if someone doesn't love you back, you can't force him to love you. The only thing you can do is move on, or at least try to. And I know that's easier said than done, but suicide is the easy option. Humeira's lucky she's got so many people that care about her.

Just because her emotional instability is understandable to a certain extent doesn't mean it should be condoned. Razia, Nikhat, or Ayaan, I don't care who, needs to make her realize how incredibly foolish she has been lately. A girl's life shouldn't revolve around a man, and if that makes me sound like a feminist, then so be it.

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Originally posted by: -Jazzy-

Just because her emotional instability is understandable to a certain extent doesn't mean it should be condoned. Razia, Nikhat, or Ayaan, I don't care who, needs to make her realize how incredibly foolish she has been lately. A girl's life shouldn't revolve around a man, and if that makes me sound like a feminist, then so be it.

Don't worry you sound just like the spirited Jazz...I know 😉😊

Originally posted by: gossipgirlxoxo

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</div>Don't worry you sound just like the spiritedJazz...I know 😉😊
<div>Nikhat will deal with the situation in a very smart way...

But again these things are very common in India !

😆 Spirited Jazz. I'm going to assume that's a good thing and if it isn't, then don't tell me otherwise.

I understand that other people do stupider things. But the "other kids do it too" argument didn't work with your (the general you here) mom when you were 10, what makes anyone think it'd work now? I mean Virginia Woolf jumped into a river. Does that mean you (general you again) should too?

Originally posted by: -Jazzy-

😆 Spirited Jazz. I'm going to assume that's a good thing and if it isn't, then don't tell me otherwise.

I understand that other people do stupider things. But the "other kids do it too" argument didn't work with your (the general you here) mom when you were 10, what makes anyone think it'd work now? I mean Virginia Woolf jumped into a river. Does that mean you (general you again) should too?

My comments are

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If you weren't being sarcastic there, I love you too!

Originally posted by: -Jazzy-

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If you weren't being sarcastic there, I love you too!

You are just like me.. you remind me of me... and I am serious..

Agree with both you and Jazzy. Both make valid points that explain both sides of the coin. Human beings are irrational. Humeira's behavior to stop her life is explainable through her past experiences...always getting what she wants but not the love of her life, her weak health, etc. But is it the right decision? Obviously not. She should life life for her dear and closest - family members. She must not take anything to such an extreme but yet she does...in the end it's her personality that is growing and developing in the show. She can grow into a stronger woman or just delve deeper into the dark abyss.

P.S. I have seen people like her and trust me it can go either way. Very realistic.

Originally posted by: fairy_stardust

Agree with both you and Jazzy. Both make valid points that explain both sides of the coin. Human beings are irrational. Humeira's behavior to stop her life is explainable through her past experiences...always getting what she wants but not the love of her life, her weak health, etc. But is it the right decision? Obviously not. She should life life for her dear and closest - family members. She must not take anything to such an extreme but yet she does...in the end it's her personality that is growing and developing in the show. She can grow into a stronger woman or just delve deeper into the dark abyss.

P.S. I have seen people like her and trust me it can go either way. Very realistic.

Thanks dear ! My classmate committed suicide because of unrequited love...