Understanding Humeira's behaviour

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Why are the characters behaving this way ?
Gul's take ?? Because I want them to be like this.
My take :
Humeira: She thinks that she has nothing left in life . Imagine the last normal conversation you had with the love of your life was that He does not love you ! you are a samjhauta ! When he earlier made you believe that He loves you...
After dreaming for a future together .. she was in was a rude surprise that day. We all moved forward and a lot happened in QH time but that was the last day worth living. She tried to come to terms with this situation but then another life altering moment. She has a hole in her heart.
She is behaving immaturely because she is shocked as hell. Like Zoya Humeira has led a very sheltered life. Her whole life is Ammi this.. Abbu that ..
and then Ayaan as her life partner. Now she thinks that she does not have a life or a partner anymore...
Also she has been off meds for a week or more.. so she is weak and emotional...
Thank God for Nikhat .. she will knock some sense into her...
Humeira has always been very in her own world kind of person till Rajanigate...
This track was important because this will lead to confession...
Ayaan will confess... and also we have a feisty humeira... it seems she always had a Rajani in her.. waiting to come out at an opportune time.
Ayaan Miyaan is in ISHQ wala love...
Najma's wish on Meteor shower day came true.. but Ayaan's wish will not come true...

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Posted: 11 years ago
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I agree with you on some points, Although it's understandable that Humaira his hurt but the kitchen scene and the threat was not needed, I think she is emotionally unstable.
However, people are calling her selfish and spoiled and I disagree with that she is not threatening Ayaan into marrying her but trying to free him, she is hurt, its not wrong for a person who his hurt to the point that she can't think straight.

As for Zoya, it is her character she believes in people to fast, Rajvir did drop her home safely, so it's is normal for her to assume that he is a good guy, but now seeing her outside her window will put some sense into her.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Amber, I do see where you are coming from on the whole "love" angle.
But Ayaan is not her life and he shouldn't be. She has a family she should be thinking about. I guess it just goes back to what Razia said about fulfilling all of Humeira's wishes. She's used to that and she won't have it any other way.

Now that I think of it, this whole Ayaan rejection track is good for her. She needs to realize that everything is not going to go her way and she needs to come into terms with that reality.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: -Jazzy-

Amber, I do see where you are coming from on the whole "love" angle.

But Ayaan is not her life and he shouldn't be. She has a family she should be thinking about. I guess it just goes back to what Razia said about fulfilling all of Humeira's wishes. She's used to that and she won't have it any other way.

Now that I think of it, this whole Ayaan rejection track is good for her. She needs to realize that everything is not going to go her way and she needs to come into terms with that reality.

Hey Jazz...
😉
I know that ... ... nothing stops.. life continues...
But In India people still commit suicide if India loses a cricket match. Jilted lovers committing suicide is very normal. One of my cousin's friend committed suicide because she did not clear IITJEE (Engineering Entrance exam).
Nikhat is the most pragmatic person ... She understands life...Maybe because she endured a lot ..because of her complexion !... have seen her father endure a lot ... !!
I hope that Humeira does her share of maturing .. But Ayaan is about to confess .. so maybe next Jhatka is needed !
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Posted: 11 years ago
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sorry but humz kitchen dramatic immature scene was simply inacceptable to me coz she should think of zat mom dad who lived n is still living in hope for her all these years n for zoya she has been proven right many times when it comes to orthodox Asad but this time she doesn't know she is wrong coz z guy acted really gentle till his Msg where he is outside her window now a gentleman wouldn't do so now I guess zoya will use her brain like somethin is fishy with z vampire creep...
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: lopli

I agree with you on some points, Although it's understandable that Humaira his hurt but the kitchen scene and the threat was not needed, I think she is emotionally unstable.

However, people are calling her selfish and spoiled and I disagree with that she is not threatening Ayaan into marrying her but trying to free him, she is hurt, its not wrong for a person who his hurt to the point that she can't think straight.

As for Zoya, it is her character she believes in people to fast, Rajvir did drop her home safely, so it's is normal for her to assume that he is a good guy, but now seeing her outside her window will put some sense into her.

Lets cut her some slack...😉
She is off her meds.. young, immature, sheltered, ...
jilted in love and just found out that she has a hole in her heart...
Yes she is emotionally unstable. I think since she has been shielded all her life... she does not understand the harsh realities and priorities of life... She never had to fend for herself ...
Her behavior is erratic. maybe the coma made that hidden , aggressive humeira surface ...
But she needs to get out of her LA LA land soon...and hopefully she will... Abbu gate will help in her character growth !
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: lavalina

sorry but humz kitchen dramatic immature scene was simply inacceptable to me coz she should think of zat mom dad who lived n is still living in hope for her all these years n for zoya she has been proven right many times when it comes to orthodox Asad but this time she doesn't know she is wrong coz z guy acted really gentle till his Msg where he is outside her window now a gentleman wouldn't do so now I guess zoya will use her brain like somethin is fishy with z vampire creep...

Hey Lav, Not studying...😉
I am listening to Aashiqui 2 songs...
That drama was necessary because sometimes people do behave like this.. not saying that The behavior is justified in any way.. its not but people still do it...
because of that kitchen thing .. everybody in SM knows about Humeira's health.
Ayaan will confess his love ...
Humeira is down right now.. is emotionally unstable... so is reacting like this...
she has lost her marbles !!
But she will also learn and hopefully will be apologetic about it !!
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Well i agree with you becuase she didnt think of killing herself until she found out about her illness.Its only now that she is ill she is thinking about killing her self becuase the two traumatic incidents (ayaan rejecting her and her illness) have happend to her in a short span of time.I am not saying her behaviour is correct of course its wrong but many times we as human beings when we are vey hurt we behave wrongly that is what humeria is doing
And above all the way humeira and zoya are behaving is only for the sake of drama.If both the couples behave maturely Asya and Ayra toh phir drama kahan se ayega.Is track mein dono sister's immature hain next trackmein dono bhai immature ho jayenge tabhi toh story aage badegi
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Sabhayata

Well i agree with you becuase she didnt think of killing herself until she found out about her illness.Its only now that she is ill she is thinking about killing her self becuase the two traumatic incidents (ayaan rejecting her and her illness) have happend to her in a short span of time.I am not saying her behaviour is correct of course its wrong but many times we as human beings when we are vey hurt we behave wrongly that is what humeria is doing

And above all the way humeira and zoya are behaving is only for the sake of drama.If both the couples behave maturely Asya and Ayra toh phir drama kahan se ayega.Is track mein dono sister's immature hain next trackmein dono bhai immature ho jayenge tabhi toh story aage badegi

Spot on !👏

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