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"Humesha ussi se shaadi karni chahiye jo TUMSE mohobaat karta ho, na ki usse jo tum mohobaat karo." (You should always marry the person that loves you, not that you love).
Ive heard this saying on many occasions in movies, and in real life.. and today it REALLY hit me.
This phrase applies to NIKHAT-IMRAN-NAJMA the most.
Nikhat- the girl genuinly loves Imran to the point where she is willing to make 100's of excuses to herself of why he is the way he is and what he does must have a reason, rather than come out of denial mode and face circumstances.
Najma- the girl who "loved" a guy but out of fear of her brother, called it off at the snap of a finger. And, seemingly was happy and perfectly okay until he called her up again 3 years later.
So who should Imran marry? From the above perspective, it should be NIKHAT because she is the one who GENUINLY loves him. Najma's can clearly live without him.. if she can go 3 years happily then surely she can go another 30.
Keeping in mind the color symbolisms as Ankie had pointed out in her post:
Nikhat today wore the color red- LOVE.
Najma wore PINK- friendship and a much less intense color of love..
Unknowingly Najma is only adoring the ATTENTION from Imran and she only sees him as a friend and a past teenage romance. We can see this, but Najma cant. Nikhat is truly in love and reminds me of one of those women who wait and wait for their love to come back to them.
Now this brings me to ANOTHER saying:
"If your love is TRUE, it will come back to you."
Imran did "come back" to Najma, so is it that THEIR love is true? .. Back to square 1? Or should we see if Imran himself goes back to Nikhat? 🤔
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Am I saying that NIkhat deserves Imran more than Najma. YES.
Am i saying she should marry him ? NO. Frankly i think both Najma and Nikhat deserve a REAL man.
But, I am just point out how the current NajRan and NikRan triangle reminded me of that saying.. because the way I see it, Imran should marry the girl who loves him.. not the girl whom he loves.
IF the CV's are planning to marry Imran to one of these girls, which is a possibility because Imran has been in Qh since Day 1 and I see him as a permanent character .. then I think he should marry Nikhat for the sole fact that Nikhat's TRUE love can change him, and so he can VALUE Nikhat. (Plus keeping the symbolism and parallels in mind.. this seems MOST likely that Nikhat will marry Imran at the end.)
Now, there is a possibility that NEITHER girl ends up with Imran. Why? Because Haseena bi was GLOATING like no tomorrow today that she gets to choose the girl for her son.🤢 What a SLAP in the face it would be if BOTH families say NO and GENUINELY move on. Frankly Id LOVE to see both Naj and Nikhat say HELL no Imran (possibly on Tanveer truth reveal), STOMP all over him and walk away. 😆 Wouldnt that be epic? AND then Asad and Ayan can beat him up, and Zoe can throw pepper spray in his eyes for daring to look at the sisters again.
😆 ANYWAYS..
Wanted to share this with you all! Just putting things in perspective. 😳
-Rosh-
P.S - This saying can also apply to AsYa and AyRa.. but all four of them would be marrying the person who GENUINELY loves them.. so there isnt even an issue 😆
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