Originally posted by: GredandForge
Don't gimme that. She doesn't even know that it hurts feelings when you are rushing things.
For all the bhashan about the importance of relationship, and after her own marriage broke, she should know the dynamics like the back of her hand.
No..u aren't getting my point..what she says is the result of her upbringing in an environment where only two people decide they need to get married...
For her..once u are married, only death can free u from it...but until then if u have a chance to set it right...do it now...
She ran away from her own marriage for the same reason...and her marriage broke, so she took it in her stride and left..she came back to set things right only when she got to know the truth..and she still maintains that 'Nikah mere liye ek waada hai'...to her, marriage means an all or none thing..so she never wants to get it wrong nor she wants Najma to get it wrong the first time...for her it's the first and the last time..
And if I may add, right now she is being selfish for Najma...it's her bias talking...nothing else