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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: GredandForge



All are super human. They almost always speak the truth, ever ready to sacrifice, exercise so much self restraint that even though they are lovers before marriage they don't have SR until and unless the story demands it😆

Exactly..Its annoying as hell😡 Does it mean people who hug and kiss are immoral?😆
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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: rogerrocks

Exactly..Its annoying as hell😡 Does it mean people who hug and kiss are immoral?😆



Then almost everyone is immoral😆
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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: GredandForge



Yes. I agree. That is how it will happen. She will be more than happy to accept Najma. I remember thinking the same when Asad first met Haseena.

Relationships are sometimes forged like that my dear. Believe it or not, the fair-dark conflict exists, so does the demand for money. And it happens exactly how its portrayed. The in-laws believe it to be their birthright.

What remains to be seen is how it will affect the brothers.


Haan..on that I agree with u...relationships are forged on much worse grounds than this also..but what I meant to say was that is a good relationship forged like this..?..because the background is superficial, so is their relationship...and if Najma is stupid enough to allow him back in her life after knowing what Nikhat went through...then toh they deserve to be caught...she left him of her own will...now she should stick by it...she should think about her family IMO...the clash will be epic...
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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: starsinmyeyes


Haan..on that I agree with u...relationships are forged on much worse grounds than this also..but what I meant to say was that is a good relationship forged like this..?..because the background is superficial, so is their relationship...and if Najma is stupid enough to allow him back in her life after knowing what Nikhat went through...then toh they deserve to be caught...she left him of her own will...now she should stick by it...she should think about her family IMO...the clash will be epic...



Take the pre-Najma Imran-Nikhat for example. Nikhat didn't like Haseena either. She was in love with Imran, he promised her a good life, even told her they'll shift away from his mother. She was okay with that. Relationship depends on the couple. The families play a part but what is essential is that the couple has understanding. So, would it have been a good relationship? I'd say yes.
There have been many who made such demands in real life too but have all those couples only had a sad life? i don't think so.

Najma didn't allow him back to her life yet. She even withdrew her hand when she came to know about Nikhat. Will she or will she not remains to be seen. It will be stupid of her to do so.
I wonder, if Najma shares this story with Zoya without mentioning the names then what advice will she give?
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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: GredandForge



What are you trying to say? They can't love? They love their parents, don't they? How is that love different from this except that the dynamics are different?

There have been many who've given into family pressure. There have been instances when many have let their love go because their love loves someone else. So should they have not let them go? Its the same thing right? I agree he didn't fight at all but we cannot dismiss the situation off as infatuation.
I'm taking it as a case in point and not attributing it to Najma and Imran. Generally speaking, it could happen. Character is not responsible for love right?

How successful the pair will be and all we cannot say.

Though I'm sure the CVs might go with you.

"How far should a person go in the name of true love?" asks Nicolas Sparks in the book, The Choice. I ask the same.


See..love between a parent and a child is different...honestly no one knows what love really is and how far one can go...

You cited giving into family pressure...when do u give into pressure? You do so when u are convinced u are wrong and they have made the right choice for you...trust me we all want our parents to be happy but at the end of the day it's an individual's life...I agree that both parents and children need to communicate for this...if you do not ask, how will u ever know what they would have said...

Second..u cited if they love someone else...of course u let them go...by doing that..u are showing character..and that's what I am talking about...now take Najma and Imraan for instance...she left him without giving their relationship a chance...was that fair? Did she suddenly realize Asad will be against it...no na...and then Imraan...had he respected her feelings...would he have called her yesterday...no..he would have left it as it is...

We cannot say how far a couple will go in their life..but all I know is that when Love is not absolute, life eventually runs out of fuel...there is no grey area in love...it's there or it isn't...strength of character is always needed to love..because to love means to put your loved one before yourself...to be that selfless, u need character...

..when i say I love someone, I have to put a lot of thought into it...with great happiness, i need to be ready for a greater responsibility...I Love you...these three words are really thrown around with a lot of disdain...and it is sad..honestly...I mentioned it in a previous comment, but I am mentioning it again...with most of this world falling prey to mediocrity, Love turned out to be the biggest casualty of them all...

Put Imraan-Najma and Asad-Zoya on the same level...u will get what I am trying to say😊


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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: GredandForge



When did they ever care for details? But I don't see why the issue will come up now unless Imran-Tanveer connection is revealed.

You are waiting to see Asad shout at Najma?😆


The issue will resurface I am sure...but Razia's involvement may not be revealed...
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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: GredandForge



This spewing corny dialogues for romantic scenes thing is out dated now. I get embarrassed for that too😆
Total prudes. They've never even shared a dirty joke. I was expecting so much when Sokalingam Singham came. But even then she was shielding Asad.😡😆


I want pushing and pulling wala love...but how will it happen when they are not even hugging each other😭
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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: starsinmyeyes


I want pushing and pulling wala love...but how will it happen when they are not even hugging each other😭

I want Asad to get back to character..I want him to cut his hair..I want him to stop shaving..I want him to stop moping around..I want him to stop mouthing those cheesy dialogues for a while..I want him to man up and do something instead of just talking and crying when he is around Zoya😆
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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: GredandForge



Take the pre-Najma Imran-Nikhat for example. Nikhat didn't like Haseena either. She was in love with Imran, he promised her a good life, even told her they'll shift away from his mother. She was okay with that. Relationship depends on the couple. The families play a part but what is essential is that the couple has understanding. So, would it have been a good relationship? I'd say yes.

There have been many who made such demands in real life too but have all those couples only had a sad life? i don't think so.

Najma didn't allow him back to her life yet. She even withdrew her hand when she came to know about Nikhat. Will she or will she not remains to be seen. It will be stupid of her to do so.
I wonder, if Najma shares this story with Zoya without mentioning the names then what advice will she give?


Nikhat gave it all to this relationship despite the insults...because her love was so strong...😊...did Imraan ever return the favor...promises bolne se poore nahi hoti dear...unko nibhaana padta hai...jis aadmi ka muh apni maa ke saamne nahi khulta, do u think he would have separated from his family...?? Nikhat trusted him and Imraan ne us trust ka undue advantage liya hai har baar...inspite of Haseena, the relationship would have been a successful one if Imraan was upto it...everyone noticed that Imraan never spoke up for Nikhat...they voiced their opinions too, but she defended him every single time? Kya hua? Ultimately she was pushed to her limit and she only broke the relation...if the two people are there for each other they can face any adversity, but Imraan was never there for Nikhat..ever...

The understanding and love was missing from Imraan's side and so this relationship broke...do you not think Nikhat is better off without Imraan?? Do you think minus Najma, Nikhat would have been happy with a man who never stood up for her...do you think he would have made good on his promise to separate and live elsewhere?

If she tells Zoya without taking names..I hope Zoya doesn't say, "If u love him, standby him"...phir toh sab gaye kaam se😆
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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: rogerrocks

I want Asad to get back to character..I want him to cut his hair..I want him to stop shaving..I want him to stop moping around..I want him to stop mouthing those cheesy dialogues for a while..I want him to man up and do something instead of just talking and crying when he is around Zoya😆


Tumhari saari icchayein poori hogi baalike...ek baar Najma aur Imraan ki love isshtory bahar aane do...tumhara purana Asad bhi laut aayega😆

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