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Posted: 12 years ago
#51

Originally posted by: bheegi


whether the guy loves her or not...she is very self conscious and remember wanted a guy who would love her for who she is


I thought that was a bold statement from a 'fat' girl...she was sure of what she wanted...not insecure😳. If she was insecure, she'd have said, 'I hope he can love me in spite of my weight problem'...all girls of her age suffer from issues with the phy app- either too fat, or too thin, or short...I feel vbeing fat is one of th ebiggest ones...but Najma has been loved so much by her bhaijaan and Ammi that she has never felt that as a shortcoming, though she'd love to be thin and independent like Zoya, I suppose.😉

I feel more weightage should be given to Dilshad's statement- she has been shielded so far from everything...it is not at all about children paying for their parents' mistakes...IT IS ABOUT THE CHOICES U MAKE AND THE EFFECTS THEY HAVE ON YOUR FUTURE...If Najma has chosen to hide something from even Zoya, there could be something ominous about it...It could be a non- muslim boy who will be unacceptable (though I doubt N will be that forward) or a WRONG CHOICE she made...(definitely not Imran.)😊
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: CanadianChik


Hi Di - thank you so much for making this post on Najma - IF really needed it!!

I agree with you completely - Najma's expression have nothing to do with Imran. IMO that pendent is more like I L U - i being in italics.

I think Najma being an A+ student will want to study more and have a profession - after all she has seen mother work and support the family - Asad is an architecture and a self made man - maybe she wants to be an architecture as well and work with her brother but was afraid to say before as prior Arku Asad might have said no - remember when the bullies were bothering her she had been afraid to tell Asad anything as she was scared he might stop her from going to collage? She was so scared that she had left Zoya alone in jail before Asad came.

On the night of meteorite shower Najma had wished that she becomes thin and if she cannot be thin then who ever comes into her life should love her the way she is. Additionally Dilshad had wished that her kids get the muqamil jahan i.e all the happiness in the word and she has raised Najma to be very broadminded and modern in thinking - remember she wanted to wear jeans when going to lounge and a skirt for fashion show? So Farhan who is studying aboard will not have any issues if Najma wants to work and will encourage Najma to wear jeans if she wants or skirts for that matter. Also Gul in her recent interview had mentioned often joint families have a kid who study's abroad and therefore as a different approach to life than the Conservative views of the family? IMO Farhan and Najma track will take that direction - especially as currently Hassina bi does not want Nikhat to finish her collage and write her exams - also note that every time Hassina bi comes Nikhat covers her head.

I think we are in for a cute track for Najma - She has always seen her mother sad because of what her father did and then she saw what Asad went through without Zoya - therefore I think she will be scared to fall in love and will give Farhan a hard time before she agrees - also Dilshad and Rashid fell in love then got married and same goes for Asad and Zoya so maybe she goes not want an arranged marriage but to find her own life partner but because Asad and Dilshad have protected her so much she never had a chance to do so befor.

Interesting in episode 14 we found out what Humeria, Ayaan, Zoya and Asad left about ishq walla love - in the meteorite shower night we found out how Nuzat feels about it - i.e she wants mills n boons romance where a tall dark and handsome guy to come in her life -- but we have never heard exactly what Najma thinks about isqh walla love - only she wishes someone to accept her the way she is - not her opinion on isqh walla love - i seriously think she will be scared of it and stay in denial like Asad was and Ayaan is now!)

btw: Wasn't Nikhats meteorite wish that her Nikkha to Imran happens without any hurdles? IMO it will happen without any hurdles - the bomb will blast AFTER the wedding in the form of Tanu😆


👏 Great thinking, CC. Loved the way U analysed this...👏

Yes, N could just be worried because she does not want marriage interfering with her studies...could be!😊

The bomb blasting...I used to think like U...but the F32 pic of Imran in tears and Nikhat seems to Q him...so I am not sure
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Posted: 12 years ago
#53
Thanks a lot for this positive post!! Agree with you😊 May both the siblings have the same fate and get the best ones for them!! Asad already has Zoya and now its turn for our sweet tamatar to get her prince charming😳 I just want a new entry😃
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: chicksoup


I thought that was a bold statement from a 'fat' girl...she was sure of what she wanted...not insecure😳. If she was insecure, she'd have said, 'I hope he can love me in spite of my weight problem'...all girls of her age suffer from issues with the phy app- either too fat, or too thin, or short...I feel vbeing fat is one of th ebiggest ones...but Najma has been loved so much by her bhaijaan and Ammi that she has never felt that as a shortcoming, though she'd love to be thin and independent like Zoya, I suppose.😉

I feel more weightage should be given to Dilshad's statement- she has been shielded so far from everything...it is not at all about children paying for their parents' mistakes...IT IS ABOUT THE CHOICES U MAKE AND THE EFFECTS THEY HAVE ON YOUR FUTURE...If Najma has chosen to hide something from even Zoya, there could be something ominous about it...It could be a non- muslim boy who will be unacceptable (though I doubt N will be that forward) or a WRONG CHOICE she made...(definitely not Imran.)😊


I think it was more of we have protected her, loved her, have pampered her, given her the world and not just a lot of love for Asad had completed the void of a father in her life. The sad fact she is she could not even deal with the bullies in school and that is the extent of the hardships she has face in practical life - remember Dilshad had said to Asad it is about time Najma learns to deal with these sticky situations right after Zoya had thrown ink on the bullies for Asad has protected and shelted her from realities of life - all she has seen is love at home despite Rashid not being there. Even as audience we can see the contrast in SM house and KV - KV is full of love and the other one is full of catty behavior among the elders - I am sure no matter how close the kids at SM are - often Humeria must have left the odd one out due to her mother when the 3 sibling would stand together. So what happens if Najma is married in a joint family? No matter how loving the husband is it will be a major adjustment.

btw: i think Farhan will be either a cousin brother ( son of the other lady who is always with Hassina bi's) or hassina bi is actually a chori hui women (as thats what she called Dilshad) and Farhan is a step brother.

PS. My nani and dadi became the best of friends after my parents got married - i would love Dilshad to have that kind of relationship with Najma's mother in law - that is never showed on hindi serials😭 - my nani dadi use to go to doctors together, go shopping and even get their hair dyed together - it would be nice to see that prorated on hindi serials)
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: CanadianChik

I think we are in for a cute track for Najma - She has always seen her mother sad because of what her father did and then she saw what Asad went through without Zoya - therefore I think she will be scared to fall in love and will give Farhan a hard time before she agrees - also Dilshad and Rashid fell in love then got married and same goes for Asad and Zoya so maybe she goes not want an arranged marriage but to find her own life partner but because Asad and Dilshad have protected her so much she never had a chance to do so befor.


How i wish this becomes true That would be a really lovely track!!
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Truly said Sangeeta.. I completely agree... I don't think Najma will end up being in love with Imraan (finger's crossed)...
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: kiran6577

Dilshaad had once said that kids have to pay for parent's deeds?


shireen pay for her deeds or not i don't care. but why BADI BI pay for whose deeds?🤣

she shud've killed raziya wen she had the chance..she didnt &so mny ppl suffering coz of dat..karma!!😆
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Posted: 12 years ago
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good post :)

but what about zoya? will she have to pay for siddique's deeds?
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: poorvab

good post :)


but what about zoya? will she have to pay for siddique's deeds?


she has already paid for it all her childhood.and will probably pay again when Ghafoor's truth is revealed...

BTW, my post is based on Dilshaad's statement and it's not my personal belief. Personally, I feel everyone has to deal with their own karma
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Exactly Di.
Why would the children of a woman like Dilshaad suffer? She always wishes the best for everyone. Asad even said to Tanveer: meri ammi mujhe dushmani mein bhi sharafat seekha hai (something like this, sorry if it is not correct).
This woman holds no grudges against anyone. Her kids deserve only and the very best. Let's not make any speculations about Najma's love interest. Just in case, it turns out to be Imran, I am quite sure it will all turn out to be good at the end.

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