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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: notagain



Nicely done Starsinmyeyes. It's so nice to see graciousness on IF.

We all are free to have our own opinions, it's a free world, specially when one is an anonymous entity online. Very few have the grace and dignity that carries over from how you behave with your family and friends in real life over to vast online maze of unlimited freedoms. And specially on IF. It's refreshing to see some folks still manage to do it with such poise.

The TM stated her opinion and her thoughts in good faith, it's easy to twist it into something else, or make a misinterpretation. People have a right to disagree with TM's opinion, at least they can do that with courtesy .



thanks so much..really appreciate it
Problem.C thumbnail
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Posted: 12 years ago
am awaiting a reply from TM
i'd like to knw if i misinterpret her meaning
or was it clearly stated
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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: nupsie

That was for me babes, see wat I wrote😆
and my siggy is enough reply to such comments😆
Preaching but not practising is the new Mantra of a certain group here🥱
@bold: Mutual feelings😳


"respect is earned"?! True that but what is the message trying to be conveyed exactly? That no, the TM will not respect you cause it has to be earned?! So who exactly here is gonna judge the members to see if they deserve the respect, well I don't know is there some kind of a panel here for that as well? Sigh. Support shouldn't be for the heck of it. The points in favour should be genuine, if at all.
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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: notagain



Nicely done Starsinmyeyes. It's so nice to see graciousness on IF.

We all are free to have our own opinions, it's a free world, specially when one is an anonymous entity online. Very few have the grace and dignity that carries over from how you behave with your family and friends in real life over to vast online maze of unlimited freedoms. And specially on IF. It's refreshing to see some folks still manage to do it with such poise.

The TM stated her opinion and her thoughts in good faith, it's easy to twist it into something else, or make a misinterpretation. People have a right to disagree with TM's opinion, at least they can do that with courtesy .



The TM called the entire audience base obtuse and insensitive and possibly deranged and other colorful words.

There isn't a good way to look at it. I tried.

It's offensive and mean spirited.

I expected better VH. There's a more mature way to do this but you resorted to taunt. Uncool.
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Posted: 12 years ago
@Problem Child, RC. Nupsie, Humptoo, Going green and others.

The whole point of my post was - "If you think that this project is a one man/one woman show and you undermine or conveniently side track// put down the work that others have done for the same, you are showing disrespect for the team. There is no problem in watching the show for Karan and Surbhi but there is a problem with attaching an 'only' as a prefix or tolerating the show for them. To think that these stars have done a service / charity to Gul and QH by being a part of the project , that is the problem."

Beyond what is stated above, if you interpreted anything else, then, that is how your perceive it or maybe i need to re-check my command over the English language.

I had an opinion and a reaction. I stated it. I will always choose the team over fandoms because i respect what they do round the clock. If anyone of you finds it offensive , then, its your take and your choice. I cannot sugarcoat or take back what i said.

I meant everything i said and you are free to think what you like.

And ya, RC, i don't mind disagreements at all. Someone has to be on the opposite side and its not like there is a fatwa against disagreeing with me. I am not a dictatorship.

I stand by what i said, irrespective of what the readers did/did not interpret.
Edited by MoronsKiMallika - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
Ok i guess there is some sort of a debate going on here😆 I think there is a difference between saying' i watch the show for KSG or SJ' and then when you say 'KSG or SJ is solely responsible for the show's success'..I guess the TM is talking about the second variety😆 Watching a show solely for someone is every fan's prerogative..I don think thats disrespecting the cast or crew..But saying that a particular actor/actress did a huge favor by acting in the show and discrediting the hardwork of the rest of the cast and crew is not done..I guess thats what the TM is trying to say..
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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: rogerrocks

Ok i guess there is some sort of a debate going on here😆 I think there is a difference between saying' i watch the show for KSG or SJ' and then when you say KSG or SJ is solely responsible for the show's success'..I guess the TM is talking about the second variety😆 Watching a show solely for someone is every fan's prerogative..I don think thats disrespecting the cast or crew..But saying that a particular actor/actress did a huge favor by acting in the show and discrediting the hardwork of the rest of the cast and crew is not done..I guess thats what the TM is trying to say i guess..


TM?😲

You called me TM?🤔

I thought you were my friend.... I would never call you TM. 🥱

Anyway, yes. That is what am trying to say but I guess I need to revisit my English classes 'coz that is not what most people understood. 😆
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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: MoronsKiMallika


TM?😲

You called me TM?🤔

I thought you were my friend.... I would never call you TM. 🥱

Anyway, yes. That is what am trying to say but I guess I need to revisit my English classes 'coz that is not what most people understood. 😆

Haha no..There was a heated debate going on..I thought its best to convey the point in the most formal way possible😆 I should sound impartial and convincing know😆 The problem is the post was made in the context of the two other posts made yesterday and now it kinda looks out of context without them😆 I actually understand both sides of the argument..There is just a huge miscommunication i guess😆
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Posted: 12 years ago
Hello (: Actually I didn't post anything beyond my own reply to your main post, so I don't really know why there's an @ at me haha but anyway, let me just clarify then.

I do get what you were trying to say, in fact if I copy-paste from my original reply, I did end off saying this: if there are people who insist that the show is running ONLY because of Karan or Surbhi or even their chemistry for that matter, then yes that's a totally wrong assumption, because every show is bigger than their actor. I suppose that's what you're trying to bring across here

So yes I do understand perfectly the point you were trying to make. But I think maybe the misinterpretation was because of your line from your main post: Everytime , you say insensitive things like - Oh, am just watching it for him

Because there are people who may be watching the show just for KSG, and there's nothing insensitive about mentioning that. It's just personal choice. Everyone has different reasons for watching the show, doesn't really mean they're giving all the credit solely to that person.

So I think maybe that's why a debate started here. Mere choice of words I guess (:
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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: rogerrocks

Haha no..There was a heated debate going on..I thought its best to convey the point in the most formal way possible😆 I should sound impartial and convincing know😆 The problem is the post was made in the context of the two other posts made yesterday and now it kinda looks out of context without them😆 I actually understand both sides of the argument..There is just a huge miscommunication i guess😆


Hainn? I will call you Roggerrocks from now on.😆...i think i was very clear with what i said and the ones who read those two superdumb posts will understand what i meant. If someone misunderstood or misinterpreted it , i do not have the energy to explain the whole rut again. Phew!🥱

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