Wats wid bashing asad???

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StonerGirL

@StonerGirL

Voyager

Posted: 12 years ago

can ppl explain...WHY there blaming asad here???

YES i agree...he has frustrated EVERYBDY with his constant trust on tannu...(here i blame cvs bcuz asad is not so stupid...REGARDDLESS...if its his friend or not) u dnt trust ppl so blindly when they OPENLY give u chances to doubt them...and tannu has...MANY TIMES...she has lied over and over...so for me it was a fail on the writers part...i mean if my own fmaily member i grew up with...acts fishy...i wudnt bother trusting them EVER...and here??? if tannu hadnt given him a chance to doubt tht wud be a different story...but at this point. 😕

BUT!

wht happened with him today...😭😭😭

since the frst epi of the show...it was made clear tht asads biggest fear in life...is to do wht his dad did to his mom...he RAN away frm luv like it was his job...he has lived a VERY painful life...one with close to NO happiness (and nobdy deserves this) and for him...to have fallen in luv...overcome his fears...open up...just start living..only to have this happened to him is totalllyyy unfair...and CRUEL...he was soo soo soo happy...and billi 😡 poor guy...he really is the true bechara in the show...

and i dnt know why ppl r crying more for zoya...when CLEARLY asad has lost more here...

1. his fear became true...HE HURT zoya...he ran away frm her all the time due to tht fear and...the min he actually started walking towards her..happily...his fear came true

2. posssibly the only happiest day of his life...where he was GENUINLY happy...has turned into a living nightmare

3. zoya walked in onto him...he lost his love

4. he was sexually assaulted

5. he gets slapped

6. his fam left him alone.

7. DILSHAADS WORDS.

asad is going thru mental HELL right now...and ppl r bashing him?? he ddnt ask for this...its literally the purity in his soul due to which he ran after tannu w/o applying logic clearly...(calling smbdy)

he was raped for gods sake...if zoya was raped or ANY OTHER GIRL...u guyz wudve bashed asad left n right if he turned zoya down...and yet ur supporting zoya? double standards? this is why feminism is destroying the world (not directing it @ ppl on the forum jus my general hatred towards feminists)

here zoya walked in on him...yes the situation did look compromising anybdy wud loose their mind...

but then again...isnt zoya to blame a lil...

1) she knew tannu was upto smthing she ddnt do NOTHING abt it

2) she "knows" asad luvs her..and claims he wudnt cheat on her...yet she believes wht she saw?? isnt this the same asad...u spent a night wid in mangalpur...u spent like 48 hours handcuffed too...u lived with for like MONTHS now...for gods sake he spent a drunk night with u...yet ddnt TOUCH u in all this time...shudnt she know better? shudnt dilshad know better? i actually was expecting dilshaad to be the one saying...ASAD wud NEVER do tht...and discussion ends right there... FOR CRYING out loud...this man doesnt look up at a woman...and u think hes gonna sleep with one???

im sorry for ppl who r excited abt wht dilshaad is saying...or crying for zoya...

for me this is BIGTIME CHARACTER FAILURE for dilshaad...and zoya...asad i cant cmmnt on until i see wht his take is on this...and the cvs reeealllyyy need to wake up...and throw tannu out...if todays episode isnt a wake up call for them...i dunno WHT IS!

imma watch the next few episodes for asad only.

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kabhimitwaasya

@kabhimitwaasya

Navigator

+ 3

Posted: 12 years ago

I agree...he is NOT AT FAULT!!!!
I want him to reason out this time n he needs a reason to follow Zoya so i think hw will prove that he is innocent

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-RohitMaxwell-

@-RohitMaxwell-

Trailblazer

+ 5

Posted: 12 years ago

i think its natural reaction... none wants to bash Asad intentionally... he's halfly to be blamed as Tanveer... so i find it extremely natural human reaction... sorry if i hurt anyone... but most of us extremely hurt... that never means we'll take it too easy... we need to do something to come out of depression and to come out of frustration... even by bashing Asad who just got raped for which he's responsible too...

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Kanika

@kankabhor

Sparkler

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Posted: 12 years ago

I dont know anything else, I only know one thing Asad got raped by his best friend and he does not deserve this AT ALL.. Yes I am feeling bad for Zoya because she was betrayed but here i am seriously feeling more bad for Asad because he is a rape victim, he will feel guilt for entire life..

I am with Asad..

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Tanvi

@KulfiBai

Rocker

+ 2

Posted: 12 years ago

No way in HELL does Asad deserve what's happened to him - but I'll be lying if I don't say he had it coming his way. The poor guy had made so much progress though, he had started changing a little for the better, for Zoya, and now this BITCH RUINED EVERYTHING 😡

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Jazlyn Lodhi

@Nutella.

Rocker

Posted: 12 years ago

I don't think there's any point comparing Zoya and Asad's pain. They are both going through hell. What completely baffles me at the moment though are the claims that Asad deserved what he got. I understand that he has been a complete doofus lately by not trusting Zoya, but no one deserves to be sexually assaulted by their so called best friend. He was, for heavens sake, drugged & then made to believe that he was making love to Zoya. It was disgusting and immoral to say the least.

Just a scenario to put things in perspective. Zoya wants to go to some sketchy place and Asad warns her. She doesn't pay any heed to his warnings and goes ahead anyways. She's wearing jeans and a top (the oh-so provocative attire) and, thus, gets raped. Asad blames her and deserts her because she didn't listen to him and she's tainted. Now, to all the Asad bashers, what would your reaction be? That Zoya deserved it? The fact that it was a man who got raped does not lessen the enormity of the crime. I though the general mentality had progressed enough that we would avoid double standards. But, alas...

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Jazlyn Lodhi

@Nutella.

Rocker

Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: -Yaariyan-
<font color="#0033FF">i think its natural reaction... none wants to bash Asad intentionally... he's halfly to be blamed as Tanveer... so i find it extremely natural human reaction... sorry if i hurt anyone... but most of us extremely hurt... that never means we'll take it too easy... we need to do something to come out of depression and to come out of frustration... even by bashing Asad who just got raped for which he's responsible too...</font>

I agree! It has been scientifically explored. Some people are really naive enough, and naturally so, to believe in the Just World Phenomenon. Bad things happen to bad people, and good things happen to good people. I am not evil, but I would love to pop these people's little bubbles...

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cool_sri

@cool_sri

Dazzler

+ 2

Posted: 12 years ago

AGREE...ASAD DONT DESERVE THIS..POOR GUY...😭

I KNOW ZOYA & DILSHAAD SHOULD TRUST HIM...BUT RIGHT NOW IN THE SPUR OF THE MOMENT THEY WILL NOT BUT LATER THEY WILL DO...🤔

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-khaleesi-

@-khaleesi-

Rocker

Posted: 12 years ago

I agree with your every word TM. 👍🏼

The man just lost everything he had including his dignity. 😭 The two people he loves the most in the world hate him now and he himself thinks that he has hurt them. But he hasn't. 🥺 He has been wronged in the worst way possible. Cut him some slack people. He definitely does NOT deserve this. He does not deserve this big a punishment for trusting the witch he considered his best friend.

He is gonna wake up oblivious to the fact that all his dreams have shattered and his world would never be the same. 😭 😭

But I don't blame Zoya or Dilshad either because the reason that they trusted him so damn much is the reason why they are so shattered. What Zoya has witnessed on her wedding day and what was apparent would obviously make her loose her sanity for she proudly had said to Tanveer that Asad would never break her trust and she did not expect this from him.

Edited by fairy2013 - 12 years ago

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Wats wid bashing asad???

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