Yes to a slap and No to a mini skirt? Hypocrisy! - Page 6

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Posted: 12 years ago
#51

Originally posted by: immigreat54


Just 1 question, did any1 I mean any1 in this forum write that slap was a good thing or did not curse Asad for that act?
Stupid emotional post. Plz think before posting anything

please refrain from posting if you don't have the decency to be cordial.
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Posted: 12 years ago
#52

Originally posted by: Rupunzale

thanks. Religion shouldn't be dragged into this at all...it's very unfortunate.


ur right maybe religon should not be dragged but it will be dragged since its an issue in the show
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Posted: 12 years ago
#53

Originally posted by: BellaK

Great post. Agree with u 100%. I dnt understand y the big buzz all abt she is wearing a skirt big deal. Respect eachother the way they r if u change for some1 how can u be sure that person really loves u I mean real u not a change version.

Mutual respect is very important in any relationship and unfortunately Asad doesn't respect Zoya and is exceptionally judgemental.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Another issue I have is why is a mini skirt a sign of a progressive Zoya? A modern educated woman is NOT reflected on in her micro mini skirt but her ability to stand up and speak out against a slap. When it comes to the slap Zoya has definitely not been raised in New York and if she has it is within a very conseravtive, orthodox and patriarchal soceity where she does not have any idea how to speak up for herself.
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Posted: 12 years ago
#55

Originally posted by: ---Nisha---

I haven't watched QH for a couple of epis now and plan on not watching it unless I hear of repenting going on where Asad cries tears of blood. This is news for me...mini skirt.

I don't know why you are surprised. This forum is full of hypocritical people who live and breathe their judgmental religious BS just like Asad. Sometimes I swear I simply cannot stand religious people. They are so hypocritical that it's hard to talk to them without wanting to deck them. Maybe it's because I am not religious that's why. I don't know. But this isn't all religious people. Most are reasonable people. Most pick and choose the aspects of religion that they like and that are congruent with their morals, which is good. That's exactly how it should be. You cannot take a 2000 year old book and treat it as if everything in that book is actually real. When people do take the book too seriously that's when we have problems like female oppression and female genocide. And even if you take that book very seriously, you treat it as if its real then fine. Just don't impose your views on other people.
This is the 21st century folks. In this day and in this new age, wearing skirts is normal and no one has the right to say anything if someone is wearing one. If you don't like it then fine be a grown up and suck it up. I find it strange when I see Jewish, Muslim, Hindu, Catholic (the pope anyone) men and women attired in religious clothing but do I say anything to them? Do I stop them wearing their outfits that look weird to me? No. Because this is the way of our world. Live and let live. If someone wants to call themselves a Muslim and they want to drink, smoke, have premarital sex ,wear mini skirts...well that is their business. Other Muslims should butt out because no one has the right to tell another person how to live their life.
Sometimes I feel like no matter how many centuries will pass, we human kind will remain where we are...knees deep in ignorance and stupidity.
P.S. Rapunzale- Zoya may have been raised in America but whenever I see her...I can scarcely believe she is American. She doesn't seem like a progressive to me either. Just my opinion though.

I cannot agree more...I consider myself spiritual...I follow the same rule as yours ...live and let live...everyone has a place in this world.

Honestly, I don't find Zoya progressive at all...at this moment I don't even recognize the Zoya for whom I initially started watching the show...if she would have been a progressive woman she would have walked out of the khan house the moment Asad had insulted her for the first time. It's a shame.
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Posted: 12 years ago
#56

Originally posted by: Laila2009

Another issue I have is why is a mini skirt a sign of a progressive Zoya? A modern educated woman is reflected on in her micro mini skirt but her ability to stand up and speak out against a slap. When it comes to the slap Zoya has definitely not been raised in New York and if she has it is within a very conseravtive, orthodox and patriarchal soceity where she does not have any idea how to speak up for herself.

I completely agree...dressing in a way shouldn't be showing the character of a woman but the way she stands up for herself...Zoya did grew up in a progressive New York but she is not necessarily progressive at all...forget about the slap...she would have been really considered progressive if she would have walked out of the khan house the first time Asad insulted her.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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I am a muslim, and I can tell you that our religion does not condone hitting women. That's pretty much worse than wearing a mini skirt. I am modern myself and do wear skirts shorts etc. I think it all comes down to the fact that this is a serial/drama, things will be made to seem "okay" and "not okay" based on the creative moods and what they want to write. As such, we shouldn't really relate it to reality. Although since tv shows have such a grave influence on people's perceptions, I think the cvs need to be a bit more sensitive as to what they show.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: starsanjana

i do not disagree...but whether american or indian...islam remains the same and i think that non muslim viewers will get the wrong interpretation of muslims..becoz muslims are noticed by their dress .and miniskirt should be worn after the marriage for the husband not before...i am sorry if i hurt anyone by my comment ..jus my pov


why is this only quoting??
Edited by starsanjana - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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soory worng quote
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: Rupunzale

I completely agree...dressing in a way shouldn't be showing the character of a woman but the way she stands up for herself...Zoya did grew up in a progressive New York but she is not necessarily progressive at all...forget about the slap...she would have been really considered progressive if she would have walked out of the khan house the first time Asad insulted her.


Thank you for catching the gist of my post as it is meant to say that liberalism and education is not reflected in how you dress but what you do and Zoya does not have it. As for who you are, if you do respect yourself, you dress in a way that emulates it. I do not feel that this dress emulates a self-respect if worn in public. It is not about skin exposure but more the style of the skirt and the length. I guess this skirt is a reflection of Zoya's low self esteem 😆😉
Edited by Laila2009 - 12 years ago

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