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Posted: 12 years ago
#41

Originally posted by: smily21

I TOTALLY AGREE WITH YOU...

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MOREOVER IF WE CONSIDEREXACTISLAMIC WAY NIKAH AND VALIMA SHOULD BE DONE IN

AVERY SIMPLE MANNER...




Thank you! 😊
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Posted: 12 years ago
#42

Originally posted by: Fimmy

Hello frnds! I am here for sharing my views... I don't want to hurt anyone... Just want to share my views and opinion...

Many of us are upset because of gul showing some functions which don't happen in Muslim marriages... Well what I want to say is according to Quran Muslims have only 2 functions...nikah and walima... No other functions are there in Muslim marriages...

But in today's world most of the Muslims celebrate more functions in marriage ceremonies... Talking about my family and relatives we have bagdan at first...after that engagement, haldi, mehendi, pan chini, sangeet, thubro, nikah , walima and after walima mu dikhai ( which was shown as rasm e saugat in qh)... And about rasm e bahara...we don't celebrate any function like this but in haldi rasm we adore the bride with flower ornaments... Without nikah and walima None of this functions are mentioned in Islam... Though we celebrate this...and here these functions are very common...we celebrate this functions only for enjoyment and for beautiful memories...we celebrate this functions for making the occasion more special not only for bride and groom but also for the families and relatives...
So I don't think there is any problem if gul show some new function...after all it's for fun only... And yes I agree bride wearing jeans on wedding function looks odd! But at the end of the day it's just a show! And Zoya was suppose to wear Saree! But murgi masi ki meherbani that Zoya wore jeans and kurti made by that Saree!


I know most of you will not agree with me and want to throw chappal on me...but it's just my opinion! U have full right to disagree!
And I am sorry if have hurt anyone's feelings! Hurting anyone is not at all my intention! I just wanted to share my view with all! That's it! 😊





hey! no worries! I totally agree with your post and you are correct! :)
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Posted: 12 years ago
#43

Originally posted by: Fimmy




Thanks! 😊
U knw when it comes to religion...it becomes very sensitive matter! That's why I never ever commented on any post regarding it! But today I was really very disappointed... That's why I made this post! I know many people will not understand what I want to convey...but it's ok...coz I knw how sensitive this religion thing is! But I really wish atleast some will understand my pov and think over it! 😊

hey i can understand what are u trying to say and its true tht in this world now many muslims dont follow the sunna or quran in any manner and so in weddings they do mehndi mayo etc and songs in it dancing and i always feel sad bout this but it dont show the beauty of our religion the beauty of our religion is simplicity but no one follows it and there are less who do really follow the quran and sunnah and even if we dont do all the other rituals it still remains the memorable days tht all family is togather doing masti and stuff but as i said that not many muslims follow it and they do convey a not so good message to other non muslims .so i guess after all its a serial and if gul is doing this then we cant complain but i hope she shows more good things which is in our religion i hope i didnt hurt anyone 😊 btw i never ever heard the functions jashn e bahar or jashne saughat 😆 at least we r getting mitwass😳
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Posted: 12 years ago
#44
Every TV shows mai dikhane vaali sub ceremonies real mai nahi hoti. Cv's always TRP ko high rakhane ke liye dusare show se naya or more drama dikhate hai .That's good for us,more n more Mittavaa 😉



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Posted: 12 years ago
#45
more rasme= more mitwas...
more mitwas = more asya
more asya = more ☺️...*ahem ahem*
chal lost now in asya land...
zoya with that flower garland was just looking like...





fulwali🤣


kidding ...she is looking beautiful fulwali😆
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Posted: 12 years ago
#46

COMPLETELLYYY AGREEE WID U fimmmy!!😃

luvv u !!! muaaah!!!🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗
vry sensible post !!!👏👏👏
obviously yaar it shldnt bothr us aftr ol its jst a show!!
its nt bout only muslim cultr !! d directors of d show olwaaays twists n add smthn or d othr frm their !! sooo its vry natural as well as common!! 😊
infaact its 4 our own benefit v vl gt t see mooore of asya scenes!! isn't tht cooll!!?? 😎
who d hell can dare to throw a chappal on u???😲 haaath to laga k dikhaaye!! tod ke haaath ka SALAD bana dungi!!! 😡 😆 😆 😆
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Posted: 12 years ago
#47

Originally posted by: virman16


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<div>hey i can understand what are u trying to say and its true tht in this world now many muslims dont follow the sunna or quran in any manner and so in weddings they do mehndi mayo etc and songs in it dancing and i always feel sad bout this but it dont show the beauty of our religion the beauty of our religion is simplicity but no one follows it and there are less who do really follow the quran and sunnah and even if we dont do all the other rituals it still remains the memorable days tht all family is togather doing masti and stuff but as i said that not many muslims follow it and they do convey a not so good message to other non muslims .so i guess after all its a serial and if gul is doing this then we cant complain but i hope she shows more good things which is in our religion i hope i didnt hurt anyone 😊btw i never ever heard the functions jashn e bahar or jashne saughat 😆at least we r getting mitwass😳




Ummm don't mind but I disagree on one fact! U said many Muslims do not follow Quran or sunnah in any manner! I believe many don't follow it completely but I don't think they ignore it completely... I mean I am also Muslim...but am not able to follow every instruction of Islam...for example I read in co-education college...which is not allowed in Islam...but I do follow many more things instructed in Islam! 😊
And about the functions...if it's not breaking any rule of Islam I don't think it's wrong to celebrate! Well it's my personal opinion! I hope I haven't hurt u 😳
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: Lionessxo





hey! no worries! I totally agree with your post and you are correct! :)




Thanks 🤗
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Posted: 12 years ago
#49

Originally posted by: Sana70

Every TV shows mai dikhane vaali sub ceremonies real mai nahi hoti. Cv's always TRP ko high rakhane ke liye dusare show se naya or more drama dikhate hai .That's good for us,more n more Mittavaa 😉







Exactly! 😉
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Posted: 12 years ago
#50
best line of the day - murgi masi ki meharbani, i loved it! lol
oh and completely agree with what you said!

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