Asad doesn't deserve Zoya!!! - Page 4

I actually wanna smash the cvs head for this bs misunderstanding and wht not there showin...it CANNOT be real..i mean at this stage they cannot show this btw their relation...

I am sick and tired of Asad...honestly and I think he should better shut up abt rishtey and whatever, coz he's the one who chickens out when he has to open his mouth and looks for Zoya to help him out and afterwards start blaming her for 😡 😡. Maybe it is better if Zoya tells Dilshaad that her dear son doesn't want to get married and is just playing a natak and finish this matter for once and for all
The problem is Zoya is the one who keeps giving him these opportunities to hurt and humiliate her and if she keeps forgiving and forgetting so easily every time, Asad will never realize and he will learn to have respect for her
If he still considers her a misfit, he is free to marry anyone he thinks is fit for him and open his mouth to tell his ammi the truth...in this way he can go on with his life and let Zoya go on with her life

I just cannot believe that Zoya has changed from such a independent girl into some love sick puppy who wants this rishta no matter what...I mean falling in love is great, but not at the cost of your self respect ..., someone hurting you over and over and you keep tolerating that shit 😡
And Zoya should also learn to mind her own damn business for goodness sake...Tanveer is Asad's Tehzeeb ki dukaan, let him handle her, why was it necessary to take her blood just like that????
Zoya never learns her damn lesson also...she keeps doing this type of stupidity over and over...am also fed up of Zoya's behaviour sometimes

And despite his hurtful words, she's gonna dream abt him 😲 😲...what the hell 😡
What I want now is that Zoya stays in her limits and leave Tanveer for Asad to handle...I just want to see his damn face when Tanveer's truth comes in front of him...than I want him to open his big mouth and talk abt Tehzeeb and Tameez and than Zoya should just tell him to go to hell

And Asad loves Zoya is no excuse, coz love without trust is bullshit and someone who keeps thinking that the one he supposedly loves is still a misfit for him, should better marry someone who he thinks it fit for him...😡

Originally posted by: 1234philli23

lolzzz chill😆😆...still he loves her

Originally posted by: starsinmyeyes

Love without trust is hollow dear...if he distrusts her...those eyelocks won't be enough to keep them together...just my opinion

but tht is what they have to learn ultimately!to trust eachother and face their demons!

He doesn't even trust her! Is she a kid dat she vl take a chicken's blood??

Originally posted by: Jayne

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You know, it is not so much that Mr. Khan is saying all this rubbish; it's the fact that he is running scared.

He has acknowledged that he is attracted to her and knows he is falling in love, yet, when the superficial arguments about her values, culture etc., are put to rest; he has slowly revealed that he is more afraid of himself; i.e., treating her in the same abominable manner that his father has treated his mother.

That, I believe, forms the basis for him continuing to taunt her about her perceived failings; especially on subjects he knows hurt her deeply.
I think he is hoping she'll call it off.

Of course, he'll still not let her go, but that is another matter entirely.😉

However, such verbal abuse (and physical abuse - no excuses accepted) are not the hallmark of true love.
If he truly loves her, he either ought to acknowledge it openly and trust her, or else, let her go.

Jayne

ahhh ... how i wish that was the case ... but do you honestly think that this PH or for that matter any PH currently on indian tv has the emotional intelligence to go down this track ?

a man tortured by his past, a girl who is all warmth and sunlight, feeling that he does not deserve her, so he pushes her away ... it would have been a fantastic storyline ... but i am afraid that on TV, we stop at the tortured hero part and skip right ahead to magnificent jerk part. Every scene that Asad humiliates and puts down Zoya, he actually means it, he actually finds her lacking.

He truly believes the rubbish he espouses. he needs validation in form of proofs or defense from mommy to regret his words. except the next time something goes wrong, he gives the example of the previous mess conveniently forgetting that he had admitted he was wrong. Today he threw the mariam track in her face, conveniently forgetting that she helped his cousin escape marriage with her rapist. He threw Ayaan's ceremony in her face, forgetting that she went for him.

I dont think there is any deep meaning to it. He is simply a jerk. Considering that he was raised by a single mother logically he should be very respectful to all women but instead he is a chauvinistic pig. bec apparently they are very hot *head desk*

Asad is an Ass an world class male jackass, he is judgemental and rude. you know i was angry about a separation but you know what, this fool needs to loose Zoya, not to that idiot ayan but she should go back to the us with out him knowing and leave him a dear john letter.

I've pointed out in many of my posts that Asad always contradicts himself.

Even when it comes to religion, which he believes he follows so perfectly, he is wrong on many occasions. Yes I know it's only a show, but if you're going to portray a character as a devout Muslim then stick to it. He breaks so many rules.
a) You're not meant to shout at people, I know people do, but Islam says you should make people understand your point of view peacefully.
b) He insults Zoya all the time, you're meant to show women respect.
c) You're not meant to associate yourself with women, but he being a devout Muslim has a childhood friend who is female, who he hugs and holds her hand etc, where's the tehzeeb in that?😆
d) He thinks he's God, and tells Zoya what she does and does not deserve, and he lacks humanity at points.
e) He even tried to stop Zoya from attending an Islamic function because of her clothes, but who the hell gave him that right?
There's more but I can't think of it right now..

Not all Muslims are perfect but Asad likes to believe he is and lets people know of it, then why doesn't he follow his own rules? He is a hypocrite, and in my eyes Zoya is a better person and Muslim than him, as at least she doesn't make others feel like crap, and she doesn't think she's all it unlike him. She tries to be a good human being, and that's what any good Muslim should do, they shouldn't be arrogant like him.

And valuing relationships? What does he know about that? He is betraying his mum, and he is messing with Zoya's feeling, one minute he gets close to her, then he ditches her, and then he insults her, and he doesn't even apologise for it.

Asad is being too unreasonable and rude to Zoya.