how many of us can relate to asad?

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Posted: 12 years ago
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guys, this is a serious question and i would love to read some of your answers. "how many of us can relate to mr.khan? if we were in his shoes, what would we have done? honestly!" some of us may judge asad for bottling up his feelings all this while and for ignoring zoya. but think about it, wouldn't we have done the same?

for me, if i believed that somebody was the wrong person for me, i would have tried time and again to kill those feelings. i would have never taken it further. what would u have done? would u just go with the flow or stick to your principles like our mr.khan?

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Posted: 12 years ago
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I agree with you totally- Asad is true to his character- he cannot change overnight can he- he is gradually beginning to tolerate her nonstop chatter and her quirky way of thinking without loosing his cool- actually seeks her support when in doubt- you can't have it all in one episode- then we would just be seeing a tele movie!!!!
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Posted: 12 years ago
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i know. i was so sad when she said Zoya was a misfit and wasnt the perfect match for him. But honestly I can totally relate.

I dont about others but I can understand Asad. Liking someone, really being attached to someone and wanting to be with that person. But deep down you feel that this isn't "ideal" for you. This isn't what you thought you wanted all your life. And so, you hide those feelings, and you pretend to not care for that person. And most of the time, after a certain point you guys move on in life. But of course this is a TV show and Asad and Zoya are made for each other so they will find a way. But Asad's feelings are actually very understandable. Sometimes you cant help how you feel, but sometimes you do try to hide it

What I didn't like was when he said she wont be good for anyone. I wish he said something more along the lines of I wish you were right for me but your not and just ended it there.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Staceyfellow
It would depend on the situation, nothing is right or wrong especially in regards to humans per se , there are different perspectives, different priorities based on which humans make their choices.

Coming to Asad Zoya kind of situation, I do not find anything wrong in Zoya, she is just different but has all qualities of becoming a good wife, if she has some issues, they are superficial,nothing that can not be worked at given time,no life threatening issues as such, so regards to this situation Asad is free to make his own choice

Personally I would marry the man / woman I love and work on a compromise to suit both parties because marriage is a 2 way street and some sacrifices are worth it in the end.

Asad should think this through again in my opinion without any angles.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: RandomSquared

i know. i was so sad when she said Zoya was a misfit and wasnt the perfect match for him. But honestly I can totally relate.


I dont about others but I can understand Asad. Liking someone, really being attached to someone and wanting to be with that person. But deep down you feel that thisisn't"ideal" for you. Thisisn'twhat you thought you wanted all your life. And so, you hide those feelings, and you pretend to not care for that person. And most of the time, after a certain point you guys move on in life. But of course this is a TV show and Asad and Zoya are made for each other so they will find a way. But Asad's feelings are actually very understandable. Sometimes you cant help how you feel, but sometimes you do try to hide it

What Ididn'tlike was when he said she wont be good for anyone. I wish he said something more along the lines of I wish you were right for me but your not and just ended it there.




yeah, that's true. i wish he said something along those lines. it would have been more understandable. i think i would have cried if he had said that though 😭 it would have been sooo sad! 😭 😭 😭
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: ritukaprithvi

Staceyfellow

It would depend on the situation, nothing is right or wrong especially in regards to humans per se , there are different perspectives, different priorities based on which humans make their choices.

Coming to Asad Zoya kind of situation, I do not find anything wrong in Zoya, she is just different but has all qualities of becoming a good wife, if she has some issues, they are superficial,nothing that can not be worked at given time,no life threatening issues as such, so regards to this situation Asad is free to make his own choice

Personally I would marry the man / woman I love and work on a compromise to suit both parties because marriage is a 2 way street and some sacrifices are worth it in the end.

Asad should think this through again in my opinion without any angles.



of course i know there isn't anything wrong with zoya! zoya is awesome. what do u think is his real problem with her though? i think this has all stemmed from her dress wear 😕
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Finally someone who thinks like me... Get into Asads shoes and feel hits thinking!
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Well Asad might seem like a brooding mature man who took care of his mom and sis as soon as he could but he's just a boy. I can bet Zoya is his first proper love. To be honest he seems really innocent to me. He lives in a fantasy ideal world and cant handle when things go different to how he's planned. I can understand him and he has a long way to go. If he cant understand that appearances are least bit important then he has a lot of growing up to do.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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The character Asad is very similar to everyone in this world which makes this show more realistic and this is one of he reasons as to why I watch this show
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Posted: 12 years ago
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we as girls can understand what asad is going through .. bcoz if you look at it from our POV.. we all want the perfect guy /prince in our lives who will play the role of a perfect , good husband .. but sometimes the bad boys who make us feel passion and love are our real princes .. but we look for the good boy before we understand that the bad boy is our true love .. and just like that to asad zoya is that rebel/bad girl and he will look for that perfect girl and realise that what he wants is really zoya aka the bad girl who he truly loves

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