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Posted: 12 years ago
#31

Originally posted by: Su_Somerholic

Justifying his slap? That's a minor issue now.

Last night I read this comment by a girl who said that she'd loved to be slapped by her 'love' and face the brunt of his anger. 😲
I was shocked outta my wits after reading that comment.

Problem is some have started considering all the 'pushing n pulling, grabbing arms, pinning against wall, and now slapping', passionate.
Some rejoice because this kinda ''intensity'' will lead to more lovey-dovey moments between the couple later in the show. 🤢

Not gonna name the show, but there's this another show where the guy APPARENTLY went all nice to the girl, SLEPT with her only to take revenge for something that transpired between the two earlier. And here also fans are rejoicing for it'll bring back the intensity of show. A girl is cheated like that, and they are rejoicing it. 🤢



@bold see this is the big problem all this abuse is taken as passion and romance
youth are badly mislead and are influenced by such things where it is abusive
they are fantasizing such real problems which is not a joke
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regarding the other show they call that union of souls and nothing wrong

god these so called progressive modern age tv shows are polluting
young minds and are held in illusions
which is ultimately corrupting young minds
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: Su_Somerholic


Actually to think of it, when novels like 50 shades become bestsellers which is all about the man dominating woman, it's not very surprising that some are enjoying all this as well.
People actually have developed this queer fascination for these man-dominating-woman stories.


50 shades of grey is where male dominance is consented by the woman - it is not where the woman is saying no and he is dominating over her...my friend wrote stuff like this - as long as there is no physical violence involved - not consented, then it is not viewed in the same light - it is all mutual, for fun and the woman is getting pleasure out of it with someone she wants. Big difference.
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Posted: 12 years ago
#33

Originally posted by: nebuna



@bold see this is the big problem all this abuse is taken as passion and romance
youth are badly mislead and are influenced by such things where it is abusive
they are fantasizing such real problems which is not a joke
@underline
regarding the other show they call that union of souls and nothing wrong

god these so called progressive modern age tv shows are polluting
young minds and are held in illusions
which is ultimately corrupting young minds

Totally agree and very irresponsible on the part of the production house. But from others i have learned that they do not care and will do anything for TRPs.
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Posted: 12 years ago
#34

Originally posted by: Laila2009

Totally agree and very irresponsible on the part of the production house. But from others i have learned that they do not care and will do anything for TRPs.



somewhere i really want the teens parents to take charge and stop watching
this content
the PH is run by women and in the name of entertainment shit is thrown
though it is a business venture i really hope PH care at least a bit for the society
these shows do have an impact on these teens
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Posted: 12 years ago
#35

Originally posted by: Laila2009


50 shades of grey is where male dominance is consented by the woman - it is not where the woman is saying no and he is dominating over her...my friend wrote stuff like this - as long as there is no physical violence involved - not consented, then it is not viewed in the same light - it is all mutual, for fun and the woman is getting pleasure out of it with someone she wants. Big difference.


I understand what you're saying. But it primarily does focus on male dominance. It includes the guy telling her what to eat, what to wear, when to sleep,when to wake up, etc...he completely controls her life, and she, to an extent, likes it.
Because of that many have started fantasizing lives where the guy is in full control of the relationship.
I'm not referring to the pleasure part of it.

Hope that made sense! 😛
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Posted: 12 years ago
#36

Originally posted by: abhiyakreya


I totally agree with you.

I just dont understand why people on this forum are not seeing it from Asad's POV?!

Why can't they understand that he will be shattered if he lost his ammi and for him, its like ' he told zoya to send mariyam and she told a lie to him that she had made mariyam left his house ' which we all know is not true.

I agree with you.
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Posted: 12 years ago
#37

Originally posted by: Su_Somerholic


I understand what you're saying. But it primarily does focus on male dominance. It includes the guy telling her what to eat, what to wear, when to sleep,when to wake up, etc...he completely controls her life, and she, to an extent, likes it.
Because of that many have started fantasizing lives where the guy is in full control of the relationship.
I'm not referring to the pleasure part of it.

Hope that made sense! 😛


Consent is the key word - and it is mutual agreement - the woman enters into it and WANTS it. She has control in that she can leave this arrangement whenever she wants..that is why it was a hit even in the west. The enslavement was her choice.
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Posted: 12 years ago
#38
The guy who started this post TheBoss, I have seen his very obscene posts on PV regarding Kratika. Now after reading them do you really want to go ahead with his posts, your choice...
Just search "TheBoss" Punar Vivah on google and check each and every IF link..
Will tell you all about poster..
I hate the outsiders who are spoiling this forum for no reason, why not go check your favorite serial and analyze the hittings and violence around children there...
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Posted: 12 years ago
#39

Originally posted by: _vineeta_

The guy who started this post TheBoss, I have seen his very obscene posts on PV regarding Kratika. Now after reading them do you really want to go ahead with his posts, your choice...

Just search "TheBoss" Punar Vivah on google and check each and every IF link..
Will tell you all about poster..
I hate the outsiders who are spoiling this forum for no reason, why not go check your favorite serial and analyze the hittings and violence around children there...


Well that is strange that his person would actually put forward a very good post that lead into a very interesting number of posts. I don't see him or her as spoiling this forum here unless you support and justify the abuse seen on the show. Then yes, this thread did indeed ruin it for you.
Edited by Laila2009 - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
#40

Originally posted by: Laila2009


Well that is strange that his person would actually put forward a very good post that lead into a very interesting number of posts. I don't see him or her as spoiling this forum here unless you support and justify the abuse seen on the show. Then yes, this thread did indeed ruin it for you.

Here are few, you can do your own research..

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