Was degrading Asad like this really necessary ?! - Page 2

Originally posted by: Laila2009

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The fact Gul Khan did this really disappoints me. Coming from a woman this is such a let down. And the cheering on an excitement of the women here to see this as something of a turn on or making Asad look sexy and tough? 🤢

Originally posted by: ABBY92

Firstly, I totally agree with your post, Rafi. Having Asad hit Zoya kind off ruined his character for me today !! The one thing I truly believe in real life is that when a guy hits you, no matter what the reason is, you walk out the door !!

So, to see Asad, a man who has such high principles and hold women in high regard cause of his mother, hit Zoya was a little off his character for me and it did make me go WTH ASAD ??!! When I heard Zoya say Mr.Khan, I expected him to punch the wall, any THING to show her that she's the last person he wants to talk to right now but I did not expect him to actually hit her, and that too so hard that she stumbles upon the medical trolley and cut herself. A guy should NEVER EVER hit a girl, no matter what the reason may be !!

Though I find that this act degraded Asad's character a little, I also have to say that I can't help but see a little logic into why the writers may have written this scene. We all know that Asad gets mad at Zoya quite a lot, most of the time it ends with him just saying hurtful things to her, other more severe times have called upon the punching bag or his poor phone being broken to pieces.

But this time, it wasn't just Zoya alone. It was the fact that he trusted her once and she broke it by hiding Mariam in the house. Then he gives her another chance by making sure that she sends Mariam away and right now, in his mind, she has broken his trust twice by still keeping Mariam in the house. Though we know Zoya did what he wanted and it was Dilshad who brought Mariam back, Asad is still in the impression that this all started and ended cause of Zoya. Add all this to the fact that the person closest to his heart, his Ami is fighting for dear life, no man can think rationally right now, especially a person who is as hot tempered as Asad Ahmed Khan.

So, in a way, Asad's blow out of hitting Zoya is understandable cause degrading as the act may be, the causes that lead to the act are things that are suppose to bring an extreme reaction out of Asad. Still, I maintain that the extreme reaction could have also been punching the wall or anything else than hitting Zoya. That was just not done and I hope the creatives keep that in mind the next time they want Asad to blow up in front of Zoya cause I would NEVER EVER want to see Asad or any guy in any show hit Zoya or any other girl in other shows !!

When we would never want such things to happen in real life, we also should not let it happen in shows too, even though they may be fictional cause it leaves a bad impression at the end of the day !!

Originally posted by: RandomSquared

I totally agree. Why did they have to show this. We can go into countless debates over why this happened, and yes in many ways Asad's action (the action alone) is understandable.

But that isnt the point. The point is why must they take a man who may be old fashioned but is still supposed to be a gentleman, a protector and a good guy and suddenly shatter all of that. And I would understand his literally taking Zoya's bags and kicking her out of the house, or cursing the f*** out of her but why did he have to do the one thing that he can never redeem himself from?

Because no matter what anyone says and no matter what the situation...a MAN never hits a girl.

Originally posted by: coolfire

Wow, I am actually shocked (and kind of worried) for people on this forum who are defending Asad's actions and even justifying the violence. And to think that most of the members on I-F are women! I just hope no one thinks that such abusive behavior or violence could turn into romance in real life.

I mean, I love KSG as any other fan, but this is the character he's portraying we're talking about-- who just lost any redeeming quality. I agree, it was unnecessary to degrade Asad's character to this level. Going by this, I wonder if redemption and even guilt is in order for our HERO.

Originally posted by: ..Kirann..

Agreed. He could've done anything but slap her. Kick her out, yell at her, punch the wall, anything but never ever hit a woman no matter what. I always thought Asad is a a gentleman and he held high regard for women but today he proved me wrong. I don't know if I'll be ever able to call him gentle man again. NO sorry or redemption can redeem this slap. I just can't digest that slap.

I try not to watch such emotional episodes when they air with KSG. This man is such a brilliant actor that he makes me cry, feel his pain every single time. He makes it look so damn real. Hats off KSG. But anyways, that's not the point of my post. Slap was so not needed and nothing can redeem this action by Asad. I don't know if I'd want Zoya to fall in love iwth a man who slapped her!

Originally posted by: hkl75

I dont follow this show... no idea in what circumstances he slapped but as a general view, a man, no matter how hard situation is not to raise his hands on a woman. ya tou solid prove ho k agli bandi deserve it. pr suni sunayi baat, which is presumption, thappad marna bada indecent kaam hai...