Originally posted by: VictoriaHot
...Haan, toh ji arz kiya hai...
Ki ye jo ek chaante ka safar hai,
Lagta hai Asad aur Zoya ka safar abb tough se tougher hai.
Today's episode should be renamed -Thappad ki Goonj.🤔😆
Before i start my post, i want to make one thing VERY CLEAR. I cannot choose my favourite character between Asad and Zoe. I love both of them equally and I see both of them objectively, putting myself in their shoes and i do not judge people under any circumstance. I prefer seeing where the person is coming from and what triggered the action and reaction.
Asad was not angry today. That would be an understatement. He was FINISHED and perhaps even he doesn't know how he stood there on his own feet , without collapsing as the most important person in his life lay in the ICU, hanging between life and death. Its tough to even put into words the mental and emotional condition of a person who is about to lose everything in a matter of time.
And what did Asad remember ? Zoe-Maryam-Ammie. Unaware of the truth and his mother's compassionate act, he only understood that he could lose his mother because of Zoe's lie. All the anger, chaos, trauma, devastation and terror got directed towards Zoe.
And Zoe? Is she guilty for Dilshie's condition? Logically, no. But in sentiment , she is. And she felt that deep down. She knew Asad was furious-is-an-understatement-dude with her , yet she went to him, to apologize, to say something that would take the load off her chest and make him feel better.
Emotional fury meets guilty remorse . Often, the other person doesn't need your 'sorry'. The person needs to either scream out loud or break something to release the lava inside. That is what happened with Asad and Zoe today. Zoe came to Asad at the wrong time and straight into the line of fire.
WHAM. Came the slap. Not from a 'man' to a 'woman'. It came from a troubled broken soul to its 'supposed' villain/vamp. It shook Zoe while it did nothing to bring down Asad's cloudburst. A slap for a wrong reason , from a shattered heart to a not-guilty heart.
But that does not make it right.
I maybe in minority and frankly, i don't give a camel's toe about it. But for me, violence of any kind - against a woman, against a man, against an animal are all the same. I don't think a man's pain and agony is any different from a woman's and for me, they sit equally on the balance of feelings. A man slapping a woman is just as hurtful as a woman slapping a man.
Violence of any kind or any order , is not justified .Ever. But not everything in life is black and white , there are grey twilight areas as well. Asad's slap to Zoe is not justified under any circumstance but its seed and where it has come from is understandable from every single angle.
One slap , one normal human reaction from Asad does not change the way i look at him, nor does it undo all the good that he has done. He was, he is, and he always will be a mixed bag with a flawless heart to me. Just like Zoe.
I don't know about others but if that one person around whom my whole life is woven was battling with life and death because of one 'supposed' person, i wouldn't leave the person with that one slap. I would beat the living daylights out of the person - irrespective of his/her gender and irrespective of my gender.
I hope you never have to face that in real life but when it actually comes down to it, it's not that easy. You come to terms with it. Hitting another person won't bring your dying loved one back.
I don't look at the Asad-Zoe situation as a woman, i look at it as a human-being who can fall now and then, but always correct the wrong upon realization.The heart has no gender BTW. It aches the same in everyone.
Anyway. Karan, Surbhi and Tamaatar were too good today.
P.S- I have been reading a lot of ' under no circumstance should a man hit a woman' on this forum . Well, likewise, ' under no circumstance should a woman hit a man'. But the million dollar question is - how do you predict the viscosity of a 'circumstance' and what it will do to you?
I completely agree but with a rider, if either is doing it in anger or frustration. But if a woman were to slap a man in self defence, that would be ok I hope.
Oh, well. 😆
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