Is Dilshad softening towards Rashid...then why?

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Posted: 12 years ago
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We all know Dilshad did forgive Rashid for everything...for deserting her and her children...for betraying her trust. Forgiveness is a great quality and Dilshad is admirable in doing that...but saying that is it acceptable to see a man like Rashid getting his way... He did desert her for money...he was a selfish man who turned away from his responsibilities as a husband and a father.

It clearly seems that Dilshad hasn't been able to move on post forgiving...Instead she has softened towards him. Honestly, it's bothering me as a woman to see a selfish man getting away with his actions...it's clearly understandable that Rashid hasn't supported Dilshad financially either...has there been alimony and child support. Till now every dialogue or conversation between Rashid and Dildhad hasn't given any indication proving otherwise.

I am not to happy to see Dildhad softening towards Rashid ... Will she allow him to enter in her life again? I don't know...as a woman I would prefer to see such a man far away from me and my kids. Rashid simply doesn't deserve Dilshad...

But saying that I do believe that we are very close to see relationship dynamics change in QH very soon...be it Dilshad...Rashid...Shireen , Asad and Zoya...what I am really interested to see how Asad comes to term with Dilshad's acceptance of Rashid.

Ps...I wanted to add Asad's little monologue...about him teaching Ayaan to walk...it seems that for a time they were all living together as a big happy family...I hope they give us flashbacks because it getting really confusing.

What do you think guys?

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Whatever it is they were and i believe still are in love. So becus of him fainting and being unwell the caring side of her would've wanted to ask bout his health. And I think She still loves him but is also hurt by the thing he did so its quite complicated.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Hi Priyanka deary...been waiting for your post eagerly.Seeing Dilshaad softening like that towards Rashid really didnt work for me and the whole phone convo with rashid and Shireen being present there I found really bothersome and couldn't help but ask myself that shouldn't Dilshaad have felt bothered and awkward that Rashid was letiing her know that he was ok with his wife there right next to him.I mean come on!Does this man have a conscience or what?Is he able to stay true to anyone?I dnt wanna see Dishaad soften so soon like that ...forgiving one for breaking your heart like that is one thing and that's not an easy thing to do but to let them affcet you like that is after 17 years of angst and pain...no I'm just not feeling it.I wnat Dilshaad's character to maintain this dignity and grace and not take a sudden u turn...puhleeeaze Miss Gul...hope your listening!As for Asad's monolouge of his childhood with Aayan is one I am very curious to know of but how can they have lived together when Rashid walked out on them 17 yrs ago and It has already been stated that he left when he chose to marry Shireen...all this is getting very confusing,hoing there is some light shed soon.Great post as usual Priyanka...🤗
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Posted: 12 years ago
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I know that both are still in love but I am hoping against hope that she wouldn't go back to him. It is quite confusing...I have often wondered about Asad saying he taught Ayaan to walk. I guess in due time all will be revealed.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Great post Pri! My thoughts below:

Originally posted by: Rupunzale

We all know Dilshad did forgive Rashid for everything...for deserting her and her children...for betraying her trust. Forgiveness is a great quality and Dilshad is admirable in doing that...but saying that is it acceptable to see a man like Rashid getting his way... He did desert her for money...he was a selfish man who turned away from his responsibilities as a husband and a father.


It clearly seems that Dilshad hasn't been able to move on post forgiving...Instead she has softened towards him. Honestly, it's bothering me as a woman to see a selfish man getting away with his actions...it's clearly understandable that Rashid hasn't supported Dilshad financially either...has there been alimony and child support. Till now every dialogue or conversation between Rashid and Dildhad hasn't given any indication proving otherwise.

I am not to happy to see Dildhad softening towards Rashid ... Will she allow him to enter in her life again? I don't know...as a woman I would prefer to see such a man far away from me and my kids. Rashid simply doesn't deserve Dilshad...

It is unfortunate but that's where I feel the story is headed... It's not acceptable but the reality is that it happens everyday... Women take unfaithful men back, men who have deserted them... W live in a patriarchal society and that's just how it is... Though it's not right.

The only way I can accept them getting together is if there was a huge misunderstanding that led to the two families separating. After all, there was a time when Asad and Ayaan lived under the same roof... And I'm guessing their moms were okay with each other.

I have a sneaking feeling that Razia and hubby might have something to do with this. Lets se bow it unfolds... The only thing I'd not want is for Dilshad to reach out to Rashid behind Shireen's back. Her character seems strong and noble... Unlike Rashid and Shireen who are both fallible.

But saying that I do believe that we are very close to see relationship dynamics change in QH very soon...be it Dilshad...Rashid...Shireen , Asad and Zoya...what I am really interested to see how Asad comes to term with Dilshad's acceptance of Rashid.

Yup, totally agree.


Ps...I wanted to add Asad's little monologue...about him teaching Ayaan to walk...it seems that for a time they were all living together as a big happy family...I hope they give us flashbacks because it getting really confusing.

What do you think guys?


Think I answered this in the earlier paragraph... But yes, more monologues and flashbacks would be awesome, until then let's speculate! 😊
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Posted: 12 years ago
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I dont like where Dilshad is heading AT ALL...The phone call scene gave me a bad vibe and I felt bad for Shirin...I think I am leaning more and more on Shirin's side...I still dont know what happened and how Shirin separated them..but what Dilshad is doing now and that jerk Rashid are annoying me...I cannt TOLERATE cheating and two timing ..NEVER NEVER..
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Posted: 12 years ago
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I'm sorry to say this about the elegant, classy and my favorite Dilshaad but...if she continues her phone calls or continues to even passively encourage Rashid, she will almost become the 'other woman'. I hope she keeps her dignity.

As far as Rashid is concerned, I don't have any expectations from him at all. The less said the better. I'll stop at calling him a spineless man who doesn't even show much guilt at the flip-flopping he is up to.
Edited by princessjojo - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Both of them are in love from what i see, but yeah, Rashid did leave her for his needs that were selfish. I do believe in second chances, but only if they deserve it.
Right now... I do not like how Shiren is treated by Rashid
I feel bad for her
Two timing is a DEF NO

Like everyone is saying, I do too want Dilshad to keep her dignity and stay graceful
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Posted: 12 years ago
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yeah agreed .. i need to see those flashbacks.. how this two came to like each other .. the step brothers..

dilshad has a typical woman heart vulnerable and prone to soft talks and all..

This will lead to many more dramatic and emotional elements of this serial.. so lets c ..
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Posted: 12 years ago
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same i was confused bout the teaching him t o walk thing too because like arent they step brothers or are they brothers :S lol lost

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