I completely understand that everyone has the right to make their own choice. I grew up with 3 older brothers like Asad. Lol. I had an arranged marriage and it was my brother who chose my husband but my parents and brothers made sure that the final decision was mine and that I was happy. Islam gives girls the right to choose their life partners. Who are mere mortals to force a girl when God has himself given this right to women. I hope I made sense.