I am seriously VERY VERY irritated TO THE CORE - Page 4

Originally posted by: mish18

Piya was suffering and this suffering was just not because she was missing her family. But mainly coz she couldn't be there with them in the time of need. And she very well understands y? So she is mainly on a crossroad. She cannot choose coz she cannot let her family suffer alone and she also cannot lead Abhay to danger. So she is in an indecisive state and that is what is causing all the sadness and pain. And she does not want Abhay to suffer with her. So she was escaping him. She doesn't want Abhay to read her pain and make him sad too. It is all because of love and concern for him. But ofcourse Abhay can see the pain, the sadness and the suffering. He cannot do anything but try and take her mind away by doing small little things for her. Which ofcourse was super adorable.😍

Okay Mish the point is well put forward! Pia's concern for her family is evident and its acceptable! There is no two questions about it and it is the right thing to do.

But tell me one thing -- how do you explain the same thing when Abhay turned into a human and wanted to meet Chandeena for the last time -- Pia stopped him!? She did try more than once -- its just that Abhay dint listen to her and he went ahead still! So was Pia justified there!?

Next She went to Misha and she realized Panchi is dead -- she decided that she would cancel her plans with Abhay for her family -- That is justified -- but then when Abhay did try to do the same thing why the heck she tried to stop him!?

Third -- she cares for her family agreed. She is on crossroads agreed. She cant decide agreed. But as a girl has she lost all her powers to THINK!??? Hasnt she heard of a phone!? She has assumed that Misha wont tell her anything -- yes maybe she wont! She can try Kabir -- Maybe he wont either -- but what the hell is her harm in trying and TAKING CONTROL!!!???

She maybe does not want Abhay hurt and upset because of her -- true that -- but by sulking and being irritated -- ignoring the matter she is making him ever more worried. He is full of guilt now that because of him she cant go and meet her family -- So she does not want to worry him but she she wants him to live in a guilt which is even worse!! He is trying hard atleast participate properly!

Or if you cant take the matters in your own hand and discuss it out with your partner -- otherwise what is the difference b/w this supposed epic couple and others?!

And in the last scene when Abhay was suffering the pain of turning into human...he did the same by asking Piya to go from there. Coz he knew seeing him suffer Piya will suffer too.

Yes he did -- but Pia nor Abhay could do anything about it! None of it can be stopped but with what Pia is doing there is a solution and being in the 21st century I think there are more options available to get in touch with your sister rather than sit and keep sulking and spoil the atmosphere of the home!

Originally posted by: flora111

But Ananya didnt Piya say yestrday tht she wanted to call Misha, bt ws jst waiting till nw fr her to call first and tell her evrythng..anywy nw she has decided to call Misha..

Today's epi was little dull compared to the last 2 but still I think the painting scene was very cute & even the cake feeding scene was sweet.. its quite natural the way piya is concerned for misha, remembering panchi .. this all won't go like that. Hope Misha's engagement is put off so that piya is relieved but with Jeh it seems that they are again going to show more abhiya trouble than the romance & we at this rime want more romantic abhiya.

Originally posted by: @nup@m@

She did Flora ! Inst that lame though!?

I mean I have a sister -- I know if she was in a problem I would call her first rather than waiting for her to call me and cry -- because sisters dont call the other one to worry them! I know that because I love my sis more than anything else and we both do this.

Pia needed Abhay to tell her to call -- where was her brain to do so as soon as she heard the news!? That's what I am asking!?

Originally posted by: flora111

She wanted to call Misha as soon as she came to knw bt maybe she thought that she shud wait fr sometime, as it wud b better if she wud herself call Piya and tell her abt her troubles..she wud hav anywy called her whether Abhay told her or nt (thats wht I feel 😊)

Nups. Long time.🤗

Originally posted by: mish18

Nups. Long time.🤗

..🤗🤗 Kinda come rarely to the forum know -- only in the afternoons ! 😛

Well Yes and No. She was justified coz she din't want to put Abhay in danger again. N no coz it was about his family. N good that you made this point. It makes Piya's point easy to explain. Piya is in the same situation as Abhay was. So when Abhay was right then how could be Piya wrong now? Same situation right?

But wasnt that selfish!? I mean tumhari family family but Abhay ki family danger. Instead she should have gone to help Abhay with Chandeena instead of calling Chandeena "Darinda" 😡 Pia is now in the same situation -- she already spoiled it by saying no for Chandeena -- so how do you expect me support her situation now -- If her situation had come pehle -- I would have understood -- but not now!

Why is it that her family should be of importance ALWAYS!???

I don't know if I got your point correctly or not. But if you mean about him going to Chandeena to help them, then she was trying to stop him coz that would put his life in danger again. Her cancelling the plans wouldn't be dangerous to anyone (which ofcourse she would have never done...she was silly to even say that).

Abhay would have been in danger -- agreed. So now he should forget his family of 200 years because he will be in danger? And Pia -- she should forget Chandeena -- who supported her when her own family cares two hoots about her.

Yes maybe her canceling plans would not have harmed anyone -- barring Abhay -- because we all know if Pia would not have left then how would Abhay have!? I know that -- u know that -- all know that 😛 -- So in that sense she does not care if she leaves Abhay and puts him in danger for her family!? That's OUTRIGHT Selfish!

Hahaha...ofcourse talking always helps. But then as Abhay tried to explain it to her and as she herself said she would call Misha I guess she'll do it now. But Nups it is not always about knowing what the problem is. By talking to Misha/Kabir she might or might not knw the reason behind all this. But that doesn't help you in not worrying. N not feeling guilty about not being able to be there and help your family in time of need.

Read my reply to flora and u will know what I mean about her trying to call Misha on her own w/o Abhay having to suggested it. She is worrying I have no issues with that -- but she has not tried anything to act like this. She should have in the first instant called Misha -- I am amazed by the fact that Abhay had to suggest it. I have a sis and in the name of sis -- she is the worse portrayal I have seen.

First do something about it and if you exhaust every possible options then go and sulk -- but w/o doing anything sulking -- Pathetic to even show that we girls are brainless!

Agree with you that its worse to live in guilt. N that is what is Piya's state right now. She herself is in guilt of not being able to help Misha and I guess which is one of the reasons of her being all sad. Its not easy to live with guilt. N saying that she should be happy and participate in what Abhay is trying to do is easy. But we know its easier said than done. Its difficult to be happy when something is bothering you inside.

She is in guilt I understand that -- but WTH is she doing for it!? Except sulking and making Abhay guilty! First do something and then feel the guilt! Abhay has done everything and he has a valid reason for not going back -- he is still made to feel guilty! If you are not happy TAKE CONTROL!! Dont SULK!! Thats the most irritating thing to do!

Right that Piya couldn't take away the pain. But she could have atleast been there with him but he did not let her do that too.

Because that is ABHAY! Abhay Human or no human he will never hurt Pia -- He knows she is upset and this will make it even more worse for her -- he understands that -- Pia does not. If its hurting her so much -- She should just leave Abhay and go and handle it herself. Damn -- jab Jeh se ladna tha Abhay ki entry se pehle tab toh lady Dabang ban ke ghoon rahi thi now she cant even do a bit for Misha!?

N Nups its not about in what century you live and how many modes of communication of you have. Nothing can stop your concern for your loved ones. You can hide it but cannot forget it. And Abhay knows Piya enough to see through her smiles and silence.

It is about the centuries -- the love and concern remains the same over the years but the way u handle it changes with time -- Like I said upar when It came to Jeh/T Pia was fighting -- taking control but why cant she do the same with Abhay for Misha!?

And she is not hiding it -- she is not talking -- she is not taking control -- she is just sulking! That's irritating. Ye toh har show mein hota hai -- so whats special about Abhiya!? Nothing! Abhay can see the pain that Pia is going through -- but why cant Pia see the guilt that she is putting Abhay through!?

You know we love Abhay so much that seeing him in pain makes us either blame others or not see the situation rationally. Not our fault...Ladka hai hi aisa😡😍

Mish -- I am seeing the situation rationally from my side -- I am totally for the fact that Pia is concerned for Misha -- she is on crossroads, indecisive and all that -- but she needs to understand that she cant have the best of both the worlds.

If Abhay comes to know Chandeena he will ACT -- he will leave to help Chandeena whatever Pia tell him -- He will not let her got thru the guilt and nor will he do so -- But Pia will REACT and NOT ACT -- she will Sulk -- she will hurt herself in the process -- hurt Abhay --- take the guilt and leave him with the guilt.

For all I know I prefer to Act rather than React -- Thats rational decision for me at least!😉