Stop Asking Us to Stop!!! - Page 8

Originally posted by: Princezz22

Just came in notice with this.
Lamely justifying everything.
Now this is criticizing the person.
You can criticize e the actors/characters since no one owns them but criticizing the member to have his/her opinion and criticize his/her justification by calling it 'lame' isn't right.

Just now you said its a public forum and one can have his/her opinion and you want your opinion to be respected but should respect other opinions too as respect comes only when you respect.
We all are humans and equal members of this forum so if you want your opinion to be respected other too demands for the same.

Hope I am not sounding rude but the quote 'Lamely justifying' is not right.
Hope you take it in a positive way.😃

Originally posted by: Mahak Sinha

I said the same thing in such topic in which it was said that such people should not criticize the show like this.
Each and everyone has the right to express his/her feelings regarding the show and it's healthy criticism but not use of bad language and harsh comments about them.
But i didn't find something like that on which these topics are being posted, no one blamed harshly any character of the show so in my opinion all of such discussions must be stopped here and all should enjoy the Forum as it is.

Originally posted by: bloodline

I totally agree with the topic-makers. Thank you so much for posting it, it was very much needed.

I also think that everyone has right to post what they feel about the characters...If I hate some character, I have a full right to use the word "HATE"...Some people think 'Hate' is a too harsh word but then isn't 'Love' too strong of a word too??

However, I dont see anyone complaining if someone is drooling over the character saying that "I LOVE him/her so much". People go around throwing the word "love" like any other word but if I use the word "hate", I would be considered a "basher"!

Also, I dont get the entire idea of "you're-hurting-member's-feeling". Seriously??? If you like a character or you're fan of the show...does it mean that ALL of us out there have to be fan, too??

If you are so much in love with the show or character or actor...doesn;t mean everyone else have to be. As much as you have the right to like something, we have the right to dislike, too.

This is an open forum, just like thousands of other forums on the net. Its a forum to discuss the show...its called "PKYEK discussion forum" not "PKYEK Appreciation" or "Blind Followers of PKYEK" forum!

If you follow the show and the characters blindly, good for you. But please don't expect others to do the same. Some members on the forum believe that either you love the show or hate it, there is no in between. However, that is not true!

If I point out a mistake, blooper, or dont like a particular character...it doesnt mean that I'm bashing the show/fans or hurting anyone's feelings!

We respect your point of view. If you are madly in love with the character/actor, we won't make fun of you. But in return, we expect the same thing from you if we don't like something.

If you find a topic that does not support your POV, don't read or don't comment. Of course, you can comment and express your own POV but please don't reply like "you're hurting our feelings" or "you're bashing the show".

If you want to have a discussion, have it peacefully...respecting everyone's opinion.

Originally posted by: ka7eela

hey Mahak i totally agree with you😊

they are fictional characters and we have the right to express our views about them and about the show without anyone accusing us of bashing and asking us to quit or calling us names!

If we are loyal fans of them no one can stop them as we never hurt someone's feelings 😊 😊 😊

Originally posted by: ka7eela

wow i am really disappointed from your reply!

you found my word LAME to be rude and criticizing and improper! i am sure you know the meaning of lame it means weak! and not understandable and i didnt say they were lame! did i? i said the justifications were!

but hey before pointing finger at me go and read your friends posts and their replies , btw i didn't even bother to read them before, as i just read the main topics and not the whole replies

but since you pointed a finger at me i went through the whole posts and not only that! some members edited their topics too so we cant quote them what they wrote

btw i didn't even bother to report cause i am not the kind who does that or who likes to indulge in useless arguments or start stupid fights with real people about stupid fictional characters!

so before you being biased, i will refresh your memory

here is what YOUR friends said about us and about our topics

stupid topics, immature brains, confused members, they should quit watching the show! etc

anyhow thank you for making me realize that people can be prejudiced and biased and that they will see what they want to see for their own friends sake!😊

and btw about respect i have never disrespected any one! its them who started this by opening topics asking us to stop and reporting the matter to the modes and calling us names, so go figure!

My friends?😕😕
I really don't know about whom you are talking.
Either my friend or my enemy the rule applies to all the same.
@Bold : I really wanna know who said that since the rule applies to all the same.

If someone bashes , you also become rude.So whats the difference between you and that basher?No Difference.😛

When someone becomes rude with me I become more polite with them.
As I said , we don't have a dt thus , its upon every individual member to take care of the forum..so if someone bashes you aren't suppose to reply by becoming rude , either ignore or report it.Simple.
😛
And here is talk about respecting other opinions , Lame is considered something inefficient; imperfect.So doesn't this considered as being rude?
One can criticize an actor but not any member.

And about being biased , I really don't know which friends you are referring to , so do clarify about that , but you can ask anyone in the forum whether I was biased or not.

And my intention is not to be in a baseless argument or become rude to anyone whatever I am doing is for forum's benefit.😊

Originally posted by: lighteningbuzz

@Blue: I like Mr. and Mrs. Dobriyal and Misha. I agree with you, Panchi does overract at times. I think she is also a bossy sister........I know she loves Misha but, still at times I feel that she is too bossy and always nagging at Misha about how she isn't like this and so and so. She wants her way with everything. During the play, she wanted everything her way, she was a pretty demanding girlfriend too (if Danish hadn't turned evil in the show), and the way she jumps to conclusions when Piya was supporting Abhay in Maya track.

I would be very annoyed if my sister was like that. I don't know its just cuz, I can't stand someone who is bossy. I need my space for someone to understand me and expect vice versa instead of always telling me what to do or how to dress. Though all siblings do fight and argue but, they need to also appreciate the fact that the other has different interests or likes. She is just bossy at least in my opinion from what I have seen. She's always irritated or annoyed with something like first she was shown to be annoyed with Misha, then she was annoyed during the play at Piya, Abhay, Kabir, Danish, etc. then later on when Maya track happened, she was once again annoyed at Abhay and Piya. Now, she's annoyed with her boss!

I did initially like Panchi's character when the show started when she was first introduced but, then I don't know I guess, I realized there wasn't much potential there and the character didn't have much to it.

She displays too much attitude when talking. Like if she is so irritated by her boss and her job then why don't she just leave it. I know she needs a job right now, but seriously she shows so much attitude to her boss and gets so irritated, is it worth it??😕 It was portrayed that she has a good education, a degree, and her family is financially stable so, can't she find another job? Didn't she say that with her qualifications she can easily find another job?? I know she wants to stand on her own feet but, seriously she can wait and look for another job with patience its not like they're extremely poor that she needs money very badly? I mean why can't she look for a better job instead of taking BS in a job she doesn't even like and gets irritated by her boss and can't even stand him???

I don't know if its cuz, the actress has presented Panchi's character in this way or the character is meant to act in a certain way.

As for the romantic scenes. I am sorry but, were there even any romantic scenes in this show??? All they have shown is him picking her up and 99% of the time they're staring into each other's eyes or they'll show them about to kiss in a few scenes until one of them runs away. 😡 And have you noticed, in the inital scenes when Piya is about to fall during the Romeo-Juliet play, Abhay catches her and if you notice in the camera angle..........Vivian isn't looking directly into her eyes but, looking pass her! 😡 That scene just ruined it for me!

I don't watch or follow RBO but, my sister does as she loves that show but, from a few scenes that I have seen of that show.........they have better romantic scenes than any other indian serial on Star One right now at least in my opinion.

I am certainly hoping that they improve the show's romance, story, character development, and the execution of important scenes! They need major work to do! Like the fangs on Vivian was so fake! It looked like Ekta just went to Halloween store, and picked up a few fangs from the kid's aisle! I mean, Ekta is a multi-millionaire.............dude, you can do better than that!

Originally posted by: ka7eela

about panchi i totally agree! i seriously don't like her character she is very bossy and the way she nags all the times, especially nowadays its getting on my nerves, moreover her acting is not convincing one bit! she overacts!

and its so true like you said why she doesn't quit!😆 she doesnt need that job if i were here i wouldnt stay ever its like she has become his pimp😆 arranging his meetings with random girls 🤢 any respected girl wouldn't work with such a guy! anyways i dont like her period and i would be overjpyed if they end her character like they show her getting married with somone and then she goes and lives somewhere else!😆 kissa khatam!😉

@ bold so true! but hey this is what the show's romance is all about!🥱 thank Giod we don't have duppata's flying😆 or her falling all the time like a ripe fruit into his arms 😆

@ brown seriously😕! i didnt notice! i guess i was drooling over Vivians gaze!😳 i will check it again

@ green i am not watching it so i cant say!

@ purple you are so right i hope they do all that and concentrate on Abhay and Piya more

@ black😆 Halloween store!😆 naaah! kids are more convincing in thier vampire costume and makeup i have seen 😉 you know what! i think she got them as a free toy in a cereal box 😆

those fangs did look fake!🥱

@Navy Blue: Exactly! I don't know why Ekta is extending her role enough to bring in Siddhant!

@Green: LOL yeah who knows! 😆

@Maroon: So true and I agree. But, when they do romantic scenes, I don't see them that involved as I have seen in other couples. Let's just say that if I have seen worse romantic scenes in television then I have also, seen scenes that are way better. I also watch Geet, and I am not saying Geet has better romantic scenes becuz, even though Maan-Geet are married, they still haven't given us consummation night yet. 🤢 But, the way Maan-Geet stare at each with intensity its like they are completely drowned in one another and this compels you to forget the fact that they're actually acting as it looks so real!

Abhay-Piya do have beautiful, intense moments. The only moment that I felt had a lot of intensity was when he saves her from Danish and they both spend the night in his room and she accidentally comes across Maithli's photo in his cupboard. When he hides the photo under his pillow, she tries to snatch it away from him thinking he is sleeping but, he quickly catches her in his arms and they both clash into each other.............I felt that scene was intense and beautifully portrayed than all the rest so far.

Both are good actors but, I just feel that Vivian at times looks like he is too conscious, I have noticed many times where he is staring right pass Sukirti and isn't looking directly into her eyes and it seems as if he is aware of the camera's angle. Sometimes, it looks like he is just reciting his lines instead of getting completely involved in the scene and his character's emotions. They need to get more comfortable with each other as sometimes, he looks like he is afraid to touch her. (I don't know it could be what his character demands of him becuz, he is a vampire) so, I am going to wait till their love story develops more further to make a judgment. Plus, we haven't see that many romantic scenes between them as the drama has been focused on Maya, Danish, Maithili, vampire, etc. Whoever writes the romantic scenes isn't very creative about it, its the same old stuff in every episode, him picking her up, trying to kiss, eye-lock and nothing else.

I just like to watch things where I can get lost in their world and sense the character's emotions where I forget the fact that it isn't reality or that they are acting. I hate watching something where its so obvious that something is fake or they're acting as it ruins the fun for me.

Btw, we are not getting dupattas flying around becuz, thank God! Piya doesn't wear salwaar kameez or sari. If Ekta had picturized Piya, Misha, or any of the girls as a salwaar-kameez girls then surely we would've gotten plenty of dupattas flying around in the faces Abhay, Kabir, Angad, and Shaurya........LOL! 😆😉

Originally posted by: lighteningbuzz

@Navy Blue: Exactly! I don't know why Ekta is extending her role enough to bring in Siddhant! 😕

@Green: LOL yeah who knows! 😆

@Maroon: So true and I agree. But, when they do romantic scenes, I don't see them that involved as I have seen in other couples. Let's just say that if I have seen worse romantic scenes in television then I have also, seen scenes that are way better. I also watch Geet, and I am not saying Geet has better romantic scenes becuz, even though Maan-Geet are married, they still haven't given us consummation night yet. 🤢 But, the way Maan-Geet stare at each with intensity its like they are completely drowned in one another and this compels you to forget the fact that they're actually acting as it looks so real!

Abhay-Piya do have beautiful, intense moments. The only moment that I felt had a lot of intensity was when he saves her from Danish and they both spend the night in his room and she accidentally comes across Maithli's photo in his cupboard. When he hides the photo under his pillow, she tries to snatch it away from him thinking he is sleeping but, he quickly catches her in his arms and they both clash into each other.............I felt that scene was intense and beautifully portrayed than all the rest so far.

Both are good actors but, I just feel that Vivian at times looks like he is too conscious, I have noticed many times where he is staring right pass Sukirti and isn't looking directly into her eyes and it seems as if he is aware of the camera's angle. Sometimes, it looks like he is just reciting his lines instead of getting completely involved in the scene and his character's emotions. They need to get more comfortable with each other as sometimes, he looks like he is afraid to touch her. (I don't know it could be what his character demands of him becuz, he is a vampire) so, I am going to wait till their love story develops more further to make a judgment. Plus, we haven't see that many romantic scenes between them as the drama has been focused on Maya, Danish, Maithili, vampire, etc. Whoever writes the romantic scenes isn't very creative about it, its the same old stuff in every episode, him picking her up, trying to kiss, eye-lock and nothing else. 😕

I just like to watch things where I can get lost in their world and sense the character's emotions where I forget the fact that it isn't reality or that they are acting. I hate watching something where its so obvious that something is fake or they're acting as it ruins the fun for me. 😕

Btw, we are not getting dupattas flying around becuz, thank God! Piya doesn't wear salwaar kameez or sari. If Ekta had picturized Piya, Misha, or any of the girls as a salwaar-kameez girls then surely we would've gotten plenty of dupattas flying around in the faces Abhay, Kabir, Angad, and Shaurya........LOL! 😆😉

Originally posted by: ka7eela

@ brown i know where you coming from about the romantic scenes! yeah i agree that scne in the bed room was very intense and i loved it , but there many that i loved too like their first dance scene on Kuch khass hai, it was very intense, he was harsh and she was nervous and awkward but both were looking at each other with intensity like they were drowned in each others gaze but what spoiled it was the camera shifting on others😕 so i made a mix on it with clips for SBS too and it looked fab!😉

there is also the scene where he apologized to her in the class it was well shot and both were amazing and there are many more, though i agree sometimes both look indifferently to each other and about Abhay maybe because since he doesn't want to admit his feelings yet to her sometimes he is shown to be feeling uncomfortable touching her!

what i would like to see that even when they are around people they should gaze each other cause they are deeply in love there were many scenes that could have been done better! if they showed that both were into each other but oh well! now with theses so many extras it will be such a drag till we get to see a proper scene between Abhay and Piya as seems there is a new twist!

i hope like you said once they admit their feelings and their love story begins we get to see more intense scenes and Abhay feeling more comfortable with Piya and with expressing his feelings towards her

about maan and geet sorry but i dont like their romance, i feel maan's gaze is the same whether he is angry or romantic😳 he has this intense huge eyes that look same all the time! and geet although being extremely beautiful, has the same expressions all the time, they both just don't click with me nor convince me ,thats why after watching few episodes i stopped watching!( sorry no offence meant) btw they also showed dupatta flying😆

@ red thank God for that😆 i am so fed up with it! seriously!

Sorry I hadn't seen your reply to this post until I came across it today. 😆 Sorry for replying back late. And about Abhiya yeah, I agree with you though I am really looking forward to some good intense scenes between them without any distractions. About Geet-Maan its ok. Everyone has things that attract them or things that don't. So, I respect your opinion and all's well. 😉