Piya Just Back Off!! - Page 7

*sigh*
Piya would SO be my favorite if she wasn't as nosy. 😳

Originally posted by: Amber_1

*sigh*
Piya would SO be my favorite if she wasn't as nosy. 😳

Originally posted by: ka7eela

ok now i get your point

@ bold not all love stories begin with friendship, a blossoming friendship between a couple might lead them to fall in love and their love might be more stronger in term if bonding because they know each other more

However people tend to fall in love, even without knowing a person! thats why many people get heart broken and fall out of love once they get to know that person well and know his true colors!

i believe knowing someone well and accepting him the way he/she is what makes the bond of love much stronger, and its what called unconditional love,

however its not the reason to fall in love!

falling in love can not be explained most of the time, because it might happen any time and you might fall for a person you have just met and you might fall for the wrong guy!, who might not have any qualities of your dream boy!

and this applies to Piya's case too, so she doesn't know him well, you are right, but she has seen his good side and she loves what she has seen of him so far,

and she still she has fallen for him despite him having some secrets as she suspects! because as i said knowing a person isn't the reason to fall in love, but it sure makes you either feel much stronger for them once you know them well and accept them or make you hate them later on if you started to hate their guts!

so tomorrow when she gets to know him well she either might fall out of love or maybe she feels much stronger for him if she accepted him for what he is

anyhow if you still didnt get what i am trying to say lets agree to disagree ..its all cool😊

Originally posted by: krystal_watz

Sure, i get what you mean too.

But @red:

Well then, its not really "love" is it? I think you are branding the initial attraction or sparks between two people as "Love". Not all stories start with friendship, yes, but when they feel affinity towards each other, that is "crush" and not love. Later, in course of time, this develops into love, as the two people get to become close and be friends. Or, it dissolves away with time, if those two people are not compatible. But only attraction cannot be love. The word "love" denotes depth, understanding, compatibility etc and unless you have developed all of these through knowing a person, its not proper "Love" in the correct sense.

Thank you.😃

^^ We can, im not talking about "reasons". What im getting at is, that we cannot fall in love in abstract, there must be some internal qualities of someone that attracts me emotionally to them. It grows with time, but there must be some emotional depth, to BEGIN WITH. Otherwise, whats the difference between "Love" and "Crush"? Tell that to me.😆

Originally posted by: krystal_watz

^^ We can, im not talking about "reasons". What im getting at that we cannot fall in love in abstract, there must be some internal qualities of someone that attracts me emotionally to them. It grows with time, but there must be some emotional depth, to BEGIN WITH. Otherwise, whats the difference between "Love" and "Crush"? Tell that to me.😆

Sure...Piya cares for abhay -which is illogical as she's not had any chance to connect with him at depth, like normal people. Its a supernatural love story, so guess they're making it all mysterious with "unseen abstract bonds". But i maintain that shes not in love with him . She only CARES about him.I like scores of people, but im not in love with anyone, love dosent happen so simply. And also, a point to be noted -Piya felt attracted to Abhay even when she was treated harshly by him, when she knew him just for a few weeks. About Abhay. its the memory which haunts him, we know. But with Piya, its mysterious attraction +care which she's dwelling on, she'll really FALL IN LOVE once she gets to know the real abhay.

I said, she cares about him as her saviour and as a person, AND having a crush at the same time.

Originally posted by: ka7eela

well crush is much different in a crush you don't really care about the person! and you will back off, once he treats you bad, but Piya didn't!

anyhow seems that you and me will never agree on this😆

and now you brought Abhay too..😉

Abhay said in two occasions, piya you and Miathli are becoming one in my heart.. i explained this, it was like he is saying he has the same strong feelings for Piya now as he had them once for Miathli ..and those feelings are of deep love

so there i believe that he has fallen for her too..and that he isn't attracted to her because he way she look, he can tell now the difference

I know this wasn't directed to me but...caring doesn't mean you LOVE someone. Only way you can truly say you're in 'love' is when you KNOW the person...and you accept them with their faults. Right now Piya doesn't know anything about Abhay (other than he's good at heart). She cares for him and she's CURIOUS about him. But then again seeing the way she was about Maya...curiosity is Piya and Piya is curiosity.

Anyhow...don't know about Abhay and wont comment on him, but the way TV shows show love is pretty retarded. 😕
Love is a REALLY big word...you can't fall for someone until you completely know them. What you have before that is infatuation and attraction and in Piya's case...caring.


Oh and how old is Piya supposed to be? She's shown a teenager, right?

Originally posted by: Amber_1

I know this wasn't directed to me but...caring doesn't mean you LOVE someone. Only way you can truly say you're in 'love' is when you KNOW the person...and you accept them with their faults. Right now Piya doesn't know anything about Abhay (other than he's good at heart). She cares for him and she's CURIOUS about him. But then again seeing the way she was about Maya...curiosity is Piya and Piya is curiosity.

Anyhow...don't know about Abhay and wont comment on him, but the way TV shows show love is pretty retarded. 😕
Love is a REALLY big word...you can't fall for someone until you completely know them. What you have before that is infatuation and attraction and in Piya's case...caring.


Oh and how old is Piya supposed to be? She's shown a teenager, right?

Originally posted by: ka7eela

Amber😛

@red, caring doesn't define love true! actually not any one affection defines love on its own, cause love is a combination of many things including caring!

@bold well not even knowing somone makes you fall in love with them does it?..i mean otherwise we would have fallen for any of our freinds or class mates that we know very well!😕

why do we fall for a certain person and not to every tom dick and harry!

although knowing someone well when you fall in love with them and accepting him with all his flaws makes love stronger and this is what we call unconditional love

sometimes after knowing them you might start to fall out of love because you cant accept him and hate his guts

this falling process is unexplainable!, you cant say because i knew him well i fall in love with him!! can you!

about Piya knowing only his good heart what is more appealing then someone having a good heart and who is heroic in his behavior! i think this is more appealing then knowing what type of music he listens to, or his political views or which star he belongs to😆 or...etc

my point is there is no special reason for falling in love! it just happens, maybe in few moments or maybe it takes days or maybe a life time! and you cant dismiss it as an attraction or crush!

as there is a huge difference, when you love someone there will be a connection between you two, you feel he is the most important person in your life, his sadness and happiness matters to you, you dream of him as your partner for life time , you might risk it all for him

love is more powerful it has the attraction aspect in it but still its stronger feeling

@brown, i knew somone will bring this up!😆

being 17 doesn't mean your feelings are insignificant or are hormonal driven does it!😆..

there is no age limit to have that special connection with someone, that is what we call love!

i know of a girl who fallen in love when she was 13 and the boy 15, ten years later she got married to him! though 13 is very young

as i was still a little girl when i was 13 playing with my bratz and barbies!😆 but hey not all the people are the same!

ah..I just saw this!

Love is overrated, seriously. Bollywood has blown this one word/feeling out of proportion and now we have these ridiculous notions about it being 'oh so magical' or 'unconditional'.

Love for another human being (other than your parents/siblings) is NEVER unconditional. Piya felt her first 'curiosity' or as you say 'love' when Abhay saved her from falling. Abhay sees HIS first love in her face, if that wasn't the case he would treat her like another Misha/Panchi.

Love for me is a mix of physical attraction + emotional attachment. We're emotionally attached to our friends, when we start finding that 'tension'...that attraction towards them thats when we fall for that one specific friend.

Piya is attached to Kabir, and he's a good guy...but she's attached AND attracted to abhay, which is why all of you believe its love.

I'm not saying she absolutely can NOT be in love, she can be. But there's still a huge question mark on that 'love' that even Abhay has expressed. He believes she can NOT love an animal like him, means he believes she's 'in love' with him without knowing the real him. Which is true, just because we all know the story is about them two and their love, we know she's going to accept him. But what if we didn't know the synopsis? There would be an equal chance of her denying and running back to where she came from. So until she accepts him COMPLETELY, she can't call her infatuation love.

Now him being a certain way doesn't mean he just has some bad habits, he's a completely different THING. For example, I go for a gender change tomorrow and you and I start dating, you think I'm a man and 'fall' for me (😆)...but you'll be falling for the man i APPEAR to be...not with the man who once was a woman. Okay lame example, but you got my point.

Anyhow, I mentioned the age because MOST if not all relationships or feelings at that age are hormonal driven. But then again, its a show. They even showed Kabir (who's 18 himself?) tried PROPOSING piya. 😆

And yeah, I know there's no special reason for falling in love, and many people fall out of love too. But falling for someone you know, who completely changes or you lose charm in your relationship is completely different from falling for someone who appears a certain way and is in reality someone else. Piya and Abhay's 'love' reminds me of these internet 'loves' that almost everyone is falling in these days....you can show yourself to be just about anyone behind a little screen and someone falls for that 'image' of you. Now here the difference is Piya DOES know his qualities, but she does NOT know who he actually is, which you can't deny is a big big factor for 'falling in love'.



DISCLAIMER: Just because I wrote all that gibberish doesn't mean I actually believe in this overrated 'emotion'. :p