Piya Just Back Off!! - Page 6

Originally posted by: krystal_watz

^^Well, err...the things you mentioned above, are most...DEFINITELY REEKING of obsession. Btw, if it is shown as love, it'd be weird downright, dont you think? How can one fall in love sooo soon? Then, i can fall in love with a new dude every day if he saves me a few times and talks in one-liners with me. Love is deeper than just handsome looks and eyelocks. 😆

Originally posted by: krystal_watz

Its not about "dating or dining". Love means a emotional connection, companionship, which stems from knowing each other. And no, you dont fall in "love" with people just because they saved you. You love someone for who they are, the people they are, which is possible only through long-term friendship. Piya dosent know the person behind Abhay, so she cannot love him. Love dosent happen in two days,sorry.

Originally posted by: ka7eela

its not two days DUH! they have known each other for 4 month now!! and what about the caring side! they care for each other and think about each other, she feels something is different about him yet she still cant keep her self away from him!

ok lets agree to disagree! to each their own😊

Originally posted by: krystal_watz

It is, in the show.😆

Judging by a soap-serial scale, 4 months would be equivalent to two months. Or even less!😛

That is too short a time to fall in love, i think.

@bold underlined: Thats what we call infatuation? When we get attracted to someone without any emotional depth? Thats what I know, at least.

Originally posted by: ka7eela

@ blue, really! in the show it has already passed 4 months! Mayas check was dated Nov and her getting beaten up was DEC so said Misha and not to forget before Mayas entry! and all that followed ever since so yeah it has been more then that😛

anyhow i never knew that is a time limit for people to fall in love😆

again i say people can fall in love any time any where, its not like they say ok its passed two month of our relationship or one year or whatever so now we have to fall in love is it?😕

as i said before for some it takes only few days and for some it takes a life time to realize their true feelings!

in Piyas case the girl cares allot about him ( she ran looking fo him in boys locker room to check upon him if he was hurt),

she trusts him with her life ( she goes with him anywhere he says even jungle) and with her honor ( she spent a night with him in his room) i still cant get it how you fail to see her love!! what more depth and connection do you need!!

its because all of this i am baffled! how could she try to hurt him now by exposing him in front of all, she should trust him as she did before with her life and honor

any how regrading the thing you said about love is companionship well some couple live together for eternity and still there is no love between them

i still say there is no time limit for people to fall in love and people are different for some it takes a little while for others it might take longer so lets keep it this way,you have your own BOV and i my own!😊

Originally posted by: lighteningbuzz

Kaheela,

I completely agree with you on this. There's no time limit for people to fall in love...........it all depends on people on how true their feelings are towards each other. Like you said, some live a lifetime together but, never fall in love and for some its a span of a second they fall in love.........and their relationship lasts forever. I also, agree with you that Piya does love Abhay but, I think sometimes we, girls tend to act a bit without thinking. I mean I think we have all done that at one point of our lives where we probably misjudged someone without thinking.

And in the situation she is in, its also complicated as Abhay doesn't open up to her that much so, its like left to her to find out and its seems like she is determined to know the truth so, she wants to find out herself in whatever way she can.

@krystal_watz,

I think it depends from person to person but, I have seen couples fall in love in a short span like I knew this girl in high school, who got married to this guy after knowing him for only 3 months......its been 6 years since, and they are still married. It all varies down to how truly they feel for each other and love is mysterious emotion that has no limits or rules. If your heart is true and your willing to work on your relationship, than it will work no matter what the time span. Then I knew this woman who knew her boyfriend for 8 years (you would think that they know each other pretty well) but, they didn't even last 2 years after marriage.

And about a guy saving a girl everytime..........I don't think she loves him becuz, he saved her, she felt this attraction towards him from the first day. Something that sets him apart from others. Though its another story that he saves her everytime which explains that he feels something for her which is why he risks his own life in order to save her in every danger wherever she is. His need to protect her even though jeopardizing his own life demonstrates to her how much he truly cares for her and that she means something to him for him to do so much for her. Which probably explains why she looks at him with intensity everytime he saves her. I don't know how many guys will risk their lives for the one they love. I think in this sense, it increases her sense of respect and love for Abhay more through his chivalrous acts.

Originally posted by: krystal_watz

@ Kaheela:

It is apparent that i was unable to get my point through. What i was suggesting was, that emotional intimacy is the precursor to love, and the manner in which Piya is shown to be "falling" for Abhay is absurd, since there has not been any blossoming of friendship between them till now. I know your point that the actions of Piya denote her "Love" for Abhay, but, taking the events under a realistic scrutiny, thats not possible. Yeah -so, how much does she know him as a person? Think this over in a practical fashion and you'd get me.

But anyway, as you said -each one to his own. I respect the way you feel.