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Posted: 14 years ago
#21

Originally posted by: chakku

hey i m in d club!!!!!
wished to see it b/w abhiya after marriage😍


me too😍
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Um, I didn't really think about it. I mean, okay, I like, belong in the agegroup who apparently gets ''influenced'' by watching such acts. Okay...I am 14, and I watch these shows for pure entertainment, not for the cause of ''learning'' values and ''deriving moral lessons''. And besides, I'm kinda used to more intimate scenes than those.. you know, American shows and all.

It's not a glorified thing - Sleeping before marriage. If you look at my upbringing, in England, I've seen such stuff happening a lot. Okay, not exactly that - but kissing and everything, you know? And if certain precautions are taken..Okay I am blabbering again. The point is.. I am not against such stuff, okay, and I don't think it tarnishes the true love.. 'Cause lust and physical attraction IS a part of love.. So yeah, if you get together only for the sake of sleeping together, it's wrong.. but if you love 'em.. then yeah, it's supposed to happen, you're supposed to get physically attracted.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: luv_wacko

i agree with you whole heartedly....i also sipport this old school of thought about intimacy before marriage..

altho pia and abhay were very innocent they did nothing..just a few eyelocks and lingering stares...a lil cuddling perhaps...
bt if ur pointing towards maithili and abhay den i cant say ..maybe they were married...or not...
bt yeah i support ur view!😊
devyani


hey devyani, i am talking about Abhay and Maithli!😳..like you i hope they were secretly married! i dont want them tarnish their love story!
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Posted: 14 years ago
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maybe they were or were about to be betrothed..but yeah they did break der rules and d limits..
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Posted: 14 years ago
#25

Originally posted by: ka7eela


@ bold i agree but i didn't bring religion in this because i know we all belong to different religions and i dont know what other religions take on this .. i agree that one tend to lose the respect!\

@ brown , well maybe they are married secretly like Romeo and Juliet😉 because he was afraid to tell his mean old parents!

@ blue true, but what i meant they shouldn't glorify it and say that these acts are of true love, i mean things that like happens even in reality, but we condemn them

Take Maya's example, she was did the act with Danish and got pregnant , but in her case its not glorified, no one said thats true love, what i mean things like these shouldn't be associated with true love cause makes such acts more appealing especially to under-aged, beside it tarnish the whole concept of true love, i hope you are catching my drift!

i know its wrong and the shows shouldnt promote such acts cuz young ppl esp children get influencd by it, also it gets embarassing at times...
i hope too they are shown secrelty married n maybe thats why Matz was saying when will we tell everyone about our relationship...the possibilty is there...
But again like i said its a show so be ready for anything...i mean it wont be the first time they will show such intimacy between a couple before marriage, also in movies to they show it. Yes its wrong but what can one do about it? Nothing much i guess...
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: Akanksha0701

Um, I didn't really think about it. I mean, okay, I like, belong in the agegroup who apparently gets ''influenced'' by watching such acts. Okay...I am 14, and I watch these shows for pure entertainment, not for the cause of ''learning'' values and ''deriving moral lessons''. And besides, I'm kinda used to more intimate scenes than those.. you know, American shows and all.


It's not a glorified thing - Sleeping before marriage. If you look at my upbringing, in England, I've seen such stuff happening a lot. Okay, not exactly that - but kissing and everything, you know? And if certain precautions are taken..Okay I am blabbering again. The point is.. I am not against such stuff, okay, and I don't think it tarnishes the true love.. 'Cause lust and physical attraction IS a part of love.. So yeah, if you get together only for the sake of sleeping together, it's wrong.. but if you love 'em.. then yeah, it's supposed to happen, you're supposed to get physically attracted.


hey Akanksha😛 well i am not talking about kissing and stuff, i am talking about going all the way, i m talking about pre-marital sex! i know things like this happens even in reality, i know few people who are in living in relationships! even in a conservative country like Oman! although in our religion its a huge sin!

but my point is i hate it when they associate these acts with true love! its like they are saying pre martial sex is an act of true love!

@ blue and why cant they wait until they get married! i believe respect is a part of love too if a boy respects a girl he wouldn't put her in that situation

@ brown i agree getting attracted and the need to be with the one you love is all part of love, but one shouldn't give into their desires, we are human after all, we have control on our emotions we can distinguish between right and wrong.

beside we all love Edward and his love for Bella was true and he doesnt sleep with her till they get married😉



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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: sugaryanu

i know its wrong and the shows shouldnt promote such acts cuz young ppl esp children get influencd by it, also it gets embarassing at times...
i hope too they are shown secrelty married n maybe thats why Matz was saying when will we tell everyone about our relationship...the possibilty is there...
But again like i said its a show so be ready for anything...i mean it wont be the first time they will show such intimacy between a couple before marriage, also in movies to they show it. Yes its wrong but what can one do about it? Nothing much i guess...


thank god you got me with all the typing mistakes😆

@ blue i know, but i am juts expressing my view yaar😛..


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Posted: 14 years ago
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Kaheela-- arey i know yaar u r free to express ur views n agree with u :)
what i meant was that i had enough of the whats right n whats wrong to show on a drama....for me its like a never ending debate n have got some bad memories with it so i try to avoid it lol
i hope u understand what i mean 😊
on a lighter note Abhay was looking hot in both the centuries :P😍
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: sugaryanu

Kaheela-- arey i know yaar u r free to express ur views n agree with u :)

what i meant was that i had enough of the whats right n whats wrong to show on a drama....for me its like a never ending debate n have got some bad memories with it so i try to avoid it lol
i hope u understand what i mean 😊
on a lighter note Abhay was looking hot in both the centuries :P😍



@ bold thanks😳

@ blue i had it too😆 maybe the experience was from the same forum!😉

@ brown he was , he is such a hottie☺️


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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: ka7eela


like you i hope they are married secretly , lets hope that and wait and watch!

@ bold, bashers in PKEK!😕.. i thought we have a friendly forum here😉



Not really bashers but I find a lot more criticism of Viv acting here. When he is improving we should encourage him more rather than criticizing and counting his fault. Sorry for going off-topic. U are right they should not encourage live-in relationship in show when whole family is watching the show.

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