publicly decaration!!! but what about reputation?

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Posted: 14 years ago
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A girl whether belongs to high class or middle class family but she is always concerned about their reputation.

I m talking about declaring ur relationship publicly. Kabir proposed pia in misha's birthday party where almost all high class people were present while T and abhay declared their relationship in canteen where college student were present. So my question is what would they do if they have to face break up in future? Every one knows about their affair, if they broke the relationship definately people will talk about it and may be its not possible to get good future partner due to publicly declaring there relationship.
Is it possible in real life? I m asking this question because here most of members r young and college going student. Many of u have girl frd or boy frd but do u like to announce your relationship in parties or college?
Once upon a time T was with kabir and now with abhay while every one knows about her style of changing boy frds, so definately her parents even know, dont they have any objection against it? I agree kabir is serious about piya but future is always uncertain. What would they do if they have to part a way in future? Definately people will talk about them because every1 knows about them.
I know many of u may say that why the hell they have to think about people? but here u dont have to think about people but atleast about parents.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Well, my school it happened a lot! And yes, people really talked about it. In fact, though, I'm not on fb but through my friend's account I could actually see the extent to which people publicised their love life even on fb. We call it 'fb sex', its that open!
This is an Ekta show and here, too, its bound to happen. Kabir, it was just a way to make Pia feel special, plus he was drunk. And Abhay and T made it public because and only because they wanted everyone to know that they are the 'hot' couple of the season. And they aren't even really a couple. They're only pretending. As far as parents go, we all know that Kabir's dad had no objection, Pia is an orphan, Abhay's parents couldn't care less and if T's parents cared at all, they wouldn't have let their daughter become the bimbo she is.

If you talk about me, personally, yes, I would like to keep my relationship as personal as possible.

P.S. This is fiction and that too on Star One and on top of that Ekta. So the more you compare it to reality, the lesser sense it'll make😆
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Ur soo right! bt u knw....When its an ekta show neva think of morals...logic...sense..or any other such thing! :)
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Just one thing...who cares if ppl tlk ..let em tlk n live ur life!!! if u let ppl put u down...u will never come up...esp when ppl tlk crap abt u..best thing to do..is know urself n ur morals...n ur good to go..honestly...if tht happened to me..i wont care..neither will i tlk abt other ppl if it happened to them..i wont care..! :)))
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Posted: 14 years ago
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I have seen a LOT of it..Like, only recently, the 'hottest' couple in my school broke up, and I saw them talking on Facebook via comments where the guy was trying to manaofy the girl. And I saw all sorts of problems they had. I mean, nothing's personal these days. :/

Another example.. One guy posted 'I dont care who reads this, but I have a special place for you in my heart..'' blah blah on my friend's wall. And the girl accepted. And their relationship is public ever since.

Well, I dont' know about the hottest couple story, but my friend's parents and the guy's parents certainly don't know about the publicism of their relationship.. And mostly, that is the case - Parents ain't even aware.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: Akanksha0701

I have seen a LOT of it..Like, only recently, the 'hottest' couple in my school broke up, and I saw them talking on Facebook via comments where the guy was trying to manaofy the girl. And I saw all sorts of problems they had. I mean, nothing's personal these days. :/


Another example.. One guy posted 'I dont care who reads this, but I have a special place for you in my heart..'' blah blah on my friend's wall. And the girl accepted. And their relationship is public ever since.

Well, I dont' know about the hottest couple story, but my friend's parents and the guy's parents certainly don't know about the publicism of their relationship.. And mostly, that is the case - Parents ain't even aware.

but dear dont u think that facebook and reality r different. I mean who cares what is happening on facebook and some people dont also write their real name on facebook.
So situation of facebook is completely different.
just 1 and half year back when i was in 12th std one couple who was in relationship since 8th std it means 5 years they broke weirdly and volgurly but their parents know about them from begining so its just impossible to hide anything from parents when public knows about u. But yes if no one knows except some close frd than the case is different.
I know its fiction show but i m talking about reality. Is it possible in real life?
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Posted: 14 years ago
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it depends on how liberal on conservative the family in question..i guess most parents aren't aware but the friend circle or the college peers will sooner or later know who is dating who...and i also know of couple whose parents also know it..and have consent to the relation..heck one of my friends just got engaged that way..n they have been dating for four years and at the start they both were dating different people and everyone including their parents knew it..just i said..depends on the mindset of the parents.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: Chill_Out

Well, my school it happened a lot! And yes, people really talked about it. In fact, though, I'm not on fb but through my friend's account I could actually see the extent to which people publicised their love life even on fb. We call it 'fb sex', its that open!

This is an Ekta show and here, too, its bound to happen. Kabir, it was just a way to make Pia feel special, plus he was drunk. And Abhay and T made it public because and only because they wanted everyone to know that they are the 'hot' couple of the season. And they aren't even really a couple. They're only pretending. As far as parents go, we all know that Kabir's dad had no objection, Pia is an orphan, Abhay's parents couldn't care less and if T's parents cared at all, they wouldn't have let their daughter become the bimbo she is.

If you talk about me, personally, yes, I would like to keep my relationship as personal as possible.

P.S. This is fiction and that too on Star One and on top of that Ekta. So the more you compare it to reality, the lesser sense it'll make😆

well its useless to run ur logic on ekta's show but is it possible to hide things from parents after declaring it publicly?
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: -ASTHA-

well its useless to run ur logic on ekta's show but is it possible to hide things from parents after declaring it publicly?

Trust me, teens today are really smart!! My friend had been going out with a guy for two years who her parents don't approve of. The entire school knew it but not her parents! It happened throughout 11th and 12th! Don't know their current status though...
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Well this does not happens only in ekta's show, it happens in almost all shows, publicly first they declared about relationship and then they breakup. I think in real life also this does happens, but mostly, parents of such rich spoiled spat kids, don't worry about such issues, they take this as a high society class

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