Strong dependency on others is a clear sign of weakness!! - Page 2

Originally posted by: poppiepaws895

Maybe or maybe not. He may or may not see his father in a good light or he might do. What do you think?

KR has definitely committed a big blunder and it's quite justifiable to punish him for his lack of manners. And the gurukul adhyay can probably train him to become a better human being and a better subedar.

But, I really want MR to explain to KR that whatever he's doing is for KR's own good. If he sends KR away for such a long time span without properly explaining the necessity of this decision, then it could cause more harm than good to KR's mental health. He might think that his father did injustice with him.

I don't know why, but I am kinda reminded of Ishaan's condition, from Taare Zameen Par, when he was sent to hostel. Yes, probably KR will be more refined in gurukul, but if the shree ganesh of a good thing is done with bitterness then will it yield good results.

In short, I seriously want KR to go to the gurukul without having any bitter feelings towards his father, mother or anyone else. For that MR and GB needs to do something to explain to him the gravity of the situation, before sending him away for such a long time span.

Originally posted by: Interstellarr

Does insulting & being disrespectful towards your teacher/parents/siblings is okay if you're upset or angry or insecured about anything? Nope, its absolutely not okay and rather than discussing stuffs, it needs proper treatment by parents or any proper teachers. Yes, you can't disrespect your teacher how much upset or angry you may be. What was that KR telling Guruji that he gets fees for teaching him, its a clear insult!! Can you even imagine how much embarassment he had to face in front of Guruji for his own son. No father in place of MR would hear KR's side of story at that instant because insulting & arguing with your teacher so adamantly doesn't require any history of what he was going through before. And remember always, a student can wait for his teacher but a student can't make his teacher wait for him/her. The teacher has every right to interrogate him/her and you can never expect that he/she would hear your story of not having any interest today for attending his classes. So how MR reacted seemed very justified to me w.r.t KR's horrible behaviour towards his Guruji. I completely felt for MR when he said to GB that he is thinking where he would hide his face after this incident. Can you imagine how terrible a father may feel seeing his own son's downfall? Lack of proper parenting is the main reason here but I think more fault is from from GB's side as mothers are not only the first teachers of their children (pointed by MR too) rather in most cases, they are more close to the children than the fathers. And here his father has the responsibility of the whole Malwa, balancing everything is not very easy in reality. It was GB's fault that she never rectified his mistakes, and one can understand after watching yesterday's episode that KR trusts his mother the most, he said to AB that his mother will manage everything!! You see! He says to Ahilya if she always stay with him, he can never go wrong, what kind of dependency is this!! Yeah it may seemed really "sweet kind of" for many to watch for, but to me its a clear tendency to be dependent on others. While KR should have provided mental strength to his parents and wife, there they have to provide him that and can you feel how painful is that for them!!

P.S. As per new precap launched by Sony, it is being told by MR that KR is going to Gurukul for 7 years to learn everything to be good subedar in future. Now that's a good thing to happen which I had expected. So its basically a good and much needed action taken by MR for his son.

agree with you on the dependency theory. Surprised how in one day even one morning KR relapsed and that too so badly. If he says all these horrible words to Guruji that means it has been at the back of his mind all this time. Who is responsible for that? Gautama for sweeping all his mistakes under the carpet on the pretext that they are Subedhar family . So much so that she was not letting Ahilya speak even when kR was bullying her. At that time GB was so full of her pride regarding royal family wealth etc and AB was poor or ordinary. But the she realized how Ahilya is important for her son and how winning others hearts is more important than position power etc and she changed. But what puzzles me is that how she did not realize how her son was shaping up AKA badly brought up a bully an uncontrollable badly behaved kid even from so many incidents. Especially the horse incident . He disrespected the stable owner, Harku Bai and several others on several occasions. Surely KR must be aware that he cannot cross some lines even when he was behaving badly like arguing with Guruji. How come he did that day alsohow so much drama is enacted over the incident. This serial does not show Brahmins in such a good light. Guruji is being shown like a paid servant all the time. But suddenly KR gets all the blame and GB goes scotfree and does such a drama over Guru ki apmaan. It is so much overacting as she always does and this time downright irritating. I cannot understand her drama. If she showed one quarter of this strictness earlier KR wouldnt have turned the way he did today.

Originally posted by: Sree0796

KR has definitely committed a big blunder and it's quite justifiable to punish him for his lack of manners. And the gurukul adhyay can probably train him to become a better human being and a better subedar.

But, I really want MR to explain to KR that whatever he's doing is for KR's own good. If he sends KR away for such a long time span without properly explaining the necessity of this decision, then it could cause more harm than good to KR's mental health. He might think that his father did injustice with him.

I don't know why, but I am kinda reminded of Ishaan's condition, from Taare Zameen Par, when he was sent to hostel. Yes, probably KR will be more refined in gurukul, but if the shree ganesh of a good thing is done with bitterness then will it yield good results.

In short, I seriously want KR to go to the gurukul without having any bitter feelings towards his father, mother or anyone else. For that MR and GB needs to do something to explain to him the gravity of the situation, before sending him away for such a long time span.

Originally posted by: u4tlu

agree with you on the dependency theory. Surprised how in one day even one morning KR relapsed and that too so badly. If he says all these horrible words to Guruji that means it has been at the back of his mind all this time. Who is responsible for that? Gautama for sweeping all his mistakes under the carpet on the pretext that they are Subedhar family . So much so that she was not letting Ahilya speak even when kR was bullying her. At that time GB was so full of her pride regarding ro yal family wealth etc and AB was poor or ordinary. But the she realized how Ahilya is important for her son and how winning others hearts is more important than position power etc and she changed. But what puzzles me is that how she did not realize how her son was shaping up AKA badly brought up a bully an uncontrollable badly behaved kid even from so many incidents. Especially the horse incident . He disrespected the stable owner, Harku Bai and several others on several occasions. Surely KR must be aware that he cannot cross some lines even when he was behaving badly like arguing with Guruji. How come he did that day alsohow so much drama is enacted over the incident. This serial does not show Brahmins in such a good light. Guruji is being shown like a paid servant all the time. But suddenly KR gets all the blame and GB goes scotfree and does such a drama over Guru ki apmaan. It is so much overacting as she always does and this time downright irritating. I cannot understand her drama. If she showed one quarter of this strictness earlier KR wouldnt have turned the way he did today.