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Aarti and Akaash
Akaash is paying for the sins of his parents. All innocence and goodness in him was thwarted by his parents. His birth mother G3 used him to get even with Radha and SP; the woman who raised him since the day of his birth, Radha turned out to be his kidnapper; and his father, SP could not and did not live up to the demands of parenting.
In one of my earlier writings https://www.indiaforums.com/forum/punar-vivah/3522963/humane-reason-to-support-sp-radha-pv I had written that "My sole reason for wanting this PV is to address AKAASH'S SOUL CALL to experience the love of God shine through his human parents. To be accepted by his parents unconditionally for who he is and what he is."
This request of mine has been met by Aarti and not by SP and Radha.
Why do I say that Aarti is like a mother figure for Akaash?
Aarti - as mother the nurturer: A mother forgives and loves eternally.
Aarti gave Aakash a mother's unconditional love that restored him to a state of mental well-being.
Aarti attended to the psychological needs of Akaash. She did not want to hear of his past mistakes and she did not talk about his current situation. She accepted him totally as he is warts and all. She only wanted him to get back to SM and live in harmony.
The hand-hold between Akaash and Aarti as he hung over the cliff was the metaphorical umbilical cord connecting mother and child that cannot be severed. The lack of psychological attachment that G3 and Radha had created in Akaash's psyche was filled by Aarti with that one hand-lock and her resoluteness in getting him out alive.
Mothers sense when their children are in need and sure enough at the time of Akaash's darkest hour Aarti was there to help him.
Aarti - as a mother who is selfless:When a child faces foes and adversaries then the child's mother will stand like a shield between her child and the oncoming onslaught and tribulations.
Aarti showed her selfless nature by fighting the goons and saving Akaash from possible death. Aarti was not concerned that she was pregnant or facing 3 goons ' all that mattered to her at that moment was saving Akaash.
Aarti---- as mother the teacher: "In a child's eyes, a mother is a goddess. She can be glorious or terrible, benevolent or filled with wrath, but she commands love either way. I am convinced that this is the greatest power in the universe." (source unknown)
Mothers by example, teach love and empathy. Mothers also teach civility and etiquette, and most importantly, they teach children to hold in their selfish impulses in favor of sharing and caring.
Today Aarti by the command of her love brought about the change in Akaash that neither G3 nor Radha could achieve. She awakened his inner sense of right and wrong, and the need to reform without resorting to Radha's stick or G3's coddling and smothering.
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Arjun
