Is SP the only one at fault?

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MaTanGini

@MaTanGini

Explorer

Posted: 12 years ago

These are just my thoughts on the happenings in PV at the moment and is not intended to hurt anyone's sentiments.

I just feel that everyone is blaming SP for being this bad person for leaving a woman when she was pregnant with his child but what about Radha?

As per Radha's story, they met, became friends and then lovers and crossed the line...it was consensual...then why is SP the only bad person here?

SP had as much right to say no to Radha giving birth to their child as much as Radha had the right to go ahead and give birth. SP wanted the child aborted but Radha went ahead and gave birth to the child and not only did she do that but she switched babies so her child could get a better life!!!!! It was solely her decision to bring that child in to this world which she did and then committed a crime of separating a mother (Gayatri) and son (Akash) who were not at fault.

All I am saying is that, yes SP did do wrong - had an extra marital affair and got a woman pregnant BUT Radha did worse - she punished 3 people who had not wronged her in any way - Gayatri, Akash and Yash.

I wonder if she would have done a same thing if SP had been a poor person...

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Vashti

@VashH

Dazzler

Posted: 12 years ago

Everyone is welcome to their own opinion .
But there is a "but".. in this equation .
He would not have been the only one at fault had
he taken responsibility for his mistake 30 yrs ago .
Going into details describing his character from
then to now is not worth it .
All I will say is that he is full of himself
and has absolutely no respect for women in general.
How rude of him to demand of her to have
an abortion and never look back .
She did not get pregnant by herself .
He disgusts me !!
Checks and Balance ...
All the good he did for his family
just got wiped out by Radha and Akash !!
And this is my opinion ..

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villager00

@villager00

Sparkler

+ 3

Posted: 12 years ago

I actually felt it was not Radha's intention to come bursting out about Aakash's parentage, only it was provoked (who sent her in suddenly anyway 🤔)..

I think it's not entirely blaming but SP's deliberate move of changing the reports that is angering. As one forum member said, SP made his sons made a fool of another son..

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deejagi

@deejagi

Rocker

+ 2

Posted: 12 years ago

Yes, what ever you said about Radha, swapping the kids is wrong but all set and done, the issue was SP here. He never told radha that he was already married and have a son when he went physical with her. Radha had no intentins of disowing teh child and hence she didn't bother about precautionss but was he not aware that she might get pregnant, then why the hell he did not use some protection?

Radha whole hearedly loved SP and though that they will get married soon and that was the reason she gone ahead with physical relation and when she got pregnant, she would have been happy to know that the child is the fruit of their love, she never doubted that SP might disown the baby and their relation.

What we oppose in SP is teh way he snubbed gayathri for doubting him and with the adosity to humiliate Radha and Akash, his own son. if he had repented in private atleast, I would have felt he is human yet, but no, he is a devilish person.

Now after this revealation, I can understand why he doesn't accept the ladies of his house to go out and work. Because all he could visualize will be his hineous act with Radha, so he desn't want his family ladies to be the victim of some one lese.

Jaya

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Avi

@gmhatcher

Navigator

Posted: 12 years ago

I think SP's major fault in all this is he was the one that was married.

Yes Radha had a relationship with him but she didn't know he was married. When she found out she did the right thing. When she found out she was pregnant she informed him which was again the right thing.

Yes the ultimate decision to have the baby was hers, that he wouldn't acknowledge his responsibility and felt that throwing money at the situation along with a few choice words certainly didn't help matters. Where Radha is responsible is that she chose to switch the babies ( but watching the FB it seemed more like an impulse that she soon regretted). Sp on the other hand is the one who chose to cheat on his wife (who he not Radha had a responsibility to).That he thinks he has the ultimate say in all their lives is his own arrogance, that he chooses to continue with the lie is his right, and that others find out the truth is their right.

So in the end yes it is all SP's fault .

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MaTanGini

@MaTanGini

Explorer

Posted: 12 years ago

Interesting thoughts everybody.

My question was is it ONLY SP's fault. I just meant to say that SP and Radha are equally at fault.

I am not saying SP is at no fault here...but what SP did didnot affect so many lives. He had his one night stand with a woman which was wrong as he was married. When it came to excepting the baby he said no and that was his right. Also he is definitely wrong in shunning Gayatri for doubting him and then letting his sons make a fool of his son.

It was Radha's right to decide whether she wanted to baby or not and once she made a decision that she did she should not have switched babies. Her action was that of a criminal no matter what excuse she gives.

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Shobha

@ssroomani

Rocker

+ 5

Posted: 12 years ago

Gini, SP did not have just a one night stand. He was a married man with a child when he met Radha and he should not have allowed any intimacy to develop between them. He was the trustee of the college as well, so he had a responsibility towards Radha as one of the students there. He hid the fact that he was married and went ahead with his affair...if Radha had known he was married, she would not have gotten carried away by his charm, nor would she have developed physical relationship with him. So SP actually duped her and when she found out she was pregnant, gave her gaalis and told her to abort the child. He was unfaithful to his wife Gayu as well and the fact that Aakash and Yash were born within a day of each other shows he kept up relationship with both...his wife and his mistress. He cheated both the ladies and also created an unwanted child.

Radha was no doubt wrong in exchanging the babies. But her sin is way less than what SP did to her. Radha admits to Aarti that later when she thought of what she had done, she regretted that she had deprived Aakash of his rights. She said it was too late to do anything and she did her best to give Aakash a good life within her means. She could have abused Aakash if she wanted pure revenge, but she did what she did on a moment's impulse...finding that both she and Gayu had given birth to sons around the same time. Also, she never had any intention of making the truth known to Aakash or SP...that was fate, actually SP's karma coming to bite him from behind...as well as Radha's karma because she stands to lose both her sons when the truth is known!

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Gagori Chatterjee

@jyoti06

Alumni

+ 8

Posted: 12 years ago

I agree .. I found Radha equally at fault

I think practically Radha should hv aborted the baby because first she did commit a mistake before marriage and secondly when she knew that a single mother like her who comes from a poor family will face issues and might hv to either give away the baby to a orphanage or like she did that is swap the baby to make sure her son/daughter gets a father's name , then why give birth in first place if she feels she wont b able to nurture the baby alone ??

Sometimes I feel she gave birth to the baby to take her revenge from SP and not because she wanted the baby 🤔... mayb she thought after birth , SP might still accept her and when SP dint , she swapped the baby to take her revenge ...

If she gave birth to the baby because of motherhood and like u said she dont want to kill it , then why will she give it away to another mother so easily ??

This is where I do hold Radha equally responsible along with SP 🤔

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Mahalakshmi

@maha9

Sparkler

+ 3

Posted: 12 years ago

i agree but he should also had some limit as he is married na dear

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