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I agree that SP's decision was not the best decision. I agree that everyone is angry. I admit everyone has a right to. One thing I do not agree on is the degree of the bashing of his decision.
Every father (good ones) love their sons from the bottom of their hearts. Imagine you raised a child with your own two hands, earned money just for them and loved them so they can take care of you in your old age. Imagine that your son is everything for you and for most people they are.
Now imagine then all of a sudden, your daughter-in-law has been lying to you all this while and she has betrayed you. Wouldn't you be shattered? Imagine that your son whom you loved for your entire life left you for his wife. Imagine that! Would you be normal?
Now this exactly is SP's situation. He is not wrong in this case to want his son back. He is not wrong to be angry at his daughter-in-law either. I didn't say though that he was right.
Now this is here he is wrong.
Is it wrong to teach your daughter-in-law a lesson by turning and further instigating her ex-husband against her? Is it a good idea to separate your son from his wife knowing that besides his children the only person that matters to him is his wife? Is it wrong to separate your son from his wife knowing that it is his second wife and it matters that she is with him as his first wife whom he loved with his entire life is dead? Is it wrong?
Obviously it is!
The circumstances have lead him to this decision. As it is a very delicate matter, he is definitely shattered and is not thinking logically. Again, I am saying that it is not totally his fault..
Please you can bash him as I want to bash him too...but please remember that he has a reason for wanting a separation. Even though, it is wrong. He is mainly thinking of himself and it is wrong but know that the CVs know what they are doing.
Loyal PV fans, please remember, PATIENCE IS KEY!
My POV.
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Arjun
