I was Wrong!!! - Page 2

Originally posted by: villager00

i was contemplating that this side of Aarti, the ability to trust is probably a very scarred one.. while we don't know much about her growing years, i have the feeling that to trust is something she has invested much upon and continously was let down.. now that she found someone she could depend and completely put her trust on, she's stuck on the conditional bargaining that "i'll tell soon" or "i'll meet it in the middle".. ..

Originally posted by: lovely_nikki

Wow sheema 👏

I am impressed with you honesty.

But you don't have to appologise as you said what you felt.

Like I made a super long post on what I felt. 😉

We all are friends here so we share our opinions with each other. In the process some disagree with us and some agree with us. That doesn't mean that one person is right and the other one is wrong.

So please don't appologise as we all sometimes have different POV's on different situations. 🤗

Originally posted by: sheema_rajoo

Yup probably her life experiences made her react in this way. She loves him but is just too scared to loose him but it still doesn't justify her actions. I guess if you let the past come in between your future then you're bound for the worst life has to offer.

Originally posted by: sheema_rajoo

No but seriously I feel I'm too judgmental and your post helped me reflect on my own life. I assume things too easily and jump into conclusions. I wonder did I do a big mistake in just assuming that the person didn't give two shits about me and therefore lied!!! Gosh it scares me to think of it..

Originally posted by: lovely_nikki

Sheema like I said you don't have to feel sorry. You judged her based on your personal experience. IT happens with everyone.

I'll just say one thing, yours and Aarti's case are completely different. She is not doing this for selfish reasons( anyways it's just a serial)

But whatever happened with you, who knows what that persons real reasons were. Just forget about it and think that it was all a bad dream. As no one is worth to loose our peace of mind. If that person really feels guilty with what they did to you. Than he/ she will come and appologise to you. If not than they are not worth your friendship.

Sorry for the lecture. But just wanted to help a friend ❤️