I was Wrong!!!

I stand by and say what she did was and is wrong and she'll face the consequences of her actions which will effect her thus making her realise her mistakes.

But yes I feel I was too harsh when I doubted her love for Yash for not telling the truth.

Thinking back, have I ever lied to ensure my close ones are not hurt.. Yes I have and I do that coz I love them but of course not to such extents. Petty lies or white lies as one may call it. It got me thinking so much as I've been in the situation where someone really dear to me lied to me to a similar extent of how Aarti is lying to Yash. When I found out I was devastated. It blew out of proportion as I could never trust that person again and always doubted that person's intention. But can I really say that, that person didn't love me at all hence was able to deceive me to such levels?? I really don't know but deep down I think it was the situation which made that person hide such a big thing, probably afraid that it would hurt me but not thinking of the bigger picture and consequences that lie would bring to both of our lives. Who knows maybe that person lied out of the love.. Probably the same goes for Aarti. She loves Yash but is just too scared to tell the truth thinking it'll hurt him but she didn't think of the big picture of him finding out by himself or worse someone else. What she did is wrong but to doubt her love for him is too much.. So I was being a jackass.😆

So I guess lying does have a major consequence to a relationship as it can severe it to such extents beyond repair. Where there is no trust, there is no relationship so I guess in AarYa's relationship, it's going to be the matter of whether they trust each other enough to mend and work through these upcoming events. If they do then their love and relationship will prevail but if Yash looses his trust on her then it'll lead to a downfall in their relationship.

Yup she was afraid.. What I meant was I feel I was harsh by doubting her love for him and to be honest if trust is lost, it's usually lost for good. Aarti was afraid and chose not to trust Yash but now if he looses his faith in her then like I said that will be it. So we have to wait and watch what his reaction will be..

Don't we all but can you say you have NEVER told a lie in your life?? and can we say that as we lied we don't love the person at all?? Yes we can say that it was not to this extent but a lie is a lie.. I'm not justifying her lies, I'm just saying that I was being really mean and overly judgmental when I said she probably didn't love Yash coz most of us when we lie, however petty it may be, it is to our loved ones

any lie and a lie about Ansh's BMT is different.

I do agree with u however that aarti's love shouldn't be doubted! but I do doubt her trust in Yash!

I really dunno what i want to happen but for now I'm just waiting for the truth to unfold. This whole lie thing has seriously made me reflect on my own life and at times I feel really stupid for being so judgmental with things in my life..

I am impressed with you honesty.

But you don't have to appologise as you said what you felt.

Like I made a super long post on what I felt. 😉

We all are friends here so we share our opinions with each other. In the process some disagree with us and some agree with us. That doesn't mean that one person is right and the other one is wrong.

So please don't appologise as we all sometimes have different POV's on different situations. 🤗

aarti was sure that yash would support but dubeys were not