I FEEL BUA ALSO HAS A POINT

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Posted: 13 years ago
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HI FRNDS I KNOW MANY OF U MAY NOT AGREE WID ME BUT I STRONGLY FEEL THAT BUA HAS A POINT.HER DREAMS SHATTERED AT A VERY YOUNG AGE WHEN C WAS WIDOWED.I FEEL C ALSO HAS A RIGHT TO LIVE HER LIFE HAPPILY.AFTER ALL C IS ALSO A WOMEN JUST LIKE AARTI.NO DOUBT WATEVA C IS DOING IS TOTALLY WRONG BUT HER DEMANDS R JUSTIFIED.SO IF C WANTS TO MARRY AGAIN WATS WRONG WID IT.
HEY GUYS PLZ TELL ME WAT U THINK.
SORRY FOR MISTAKES.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Yes, she does have a point, I can never understand this thinking- if the lady lost her spouse, she should get that choice but I guess with her attitude, might be difficult to get a husband for her
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Yup ur right... She is venting her frustration at Aarti😭... that's all!!! Since the boxer already has a wife... Guess Ram Dulari is the only choice for her now !!😆
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Posted: 13 years ago
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yes, bua has a point .
she is showing her frustration to arati directly as she is jealous of getting chance 2nd time but actually she is pissed with her brother who didn't give her a chance for 2nd marriage .
but her present behavior is not acceptable as she is hurting a innocent woman who didn't hurt her .
she need to make her demand to her brother and bhabhi .
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: gcluv

yes, bua has a point .

she is showing her frustration to arati directly as she is jealous of getting chance 2nd time but actually she is pissed with her brother who didn't give her a chance for 2nd marriage .
but her present behavior is not acceptable as she is hurting a innocent woman who didn't hurt her .
she need to make her demand to her brother and bhabhi .

Agree with u
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Posted: 13 years ago
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I know Bua has a right to get married. I would analyze her character further.

She was widowed at early age. Her borther should have taken a lead that time for her second marraige. But I will not blame him for not doing so. If u will see our Indian culture, second marriage of a woman is never given a priority, even today. If we will consider the situation 25-30 yrs ago when she was widowed, it would have required a great courage to Suraj pratap to marry his sister second time. In fact nobody would have ever thought of her second marriage.

Now days have changed but only a bit. Second marriage of women are promoted but unfortunately of the women who do not have kids. Remarriage of a woman with kids is not very much promoted even today.

So she is angry for 2 reasons:
1) Angry on brother that he had thought of remarriage of his son but not of his sister. Gender bias and bias as Yash is his son, his own blood, so more care.
2) She is angry on Aarti's luck as she got second chance to live her life.

Bua is actually not angry with AArti. She is annoyed with the customs present at that time, her brother for not being sensitive for his sister's life n happiness n finally her own destiny which has not given her second chance of lining with happiness. Only wrong thing of Bua is that she is taking out the frustration on Aarti.

Bua always claims that she love Yash very much then she should understand that she should help Aarti in getting adjusted with Yash n family . She should look that the couple lives happily n not try to put things on fire when thy have already gone wrong.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Bua did'nt get that opportunity that Aarti got
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Completely agree with u...well said
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Posted: 13 years ago
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I agree with you all wholeheartedly that Bua is being treated impartially and deserves justice !Since Aarti is cognizant of the reason behind Bua's animosity for her,she should be instrumental in finding a new suitor for her as well as encouraging her brother to get her remarried despite she's a widow
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Your totally right!!
She does have a right to marry again.

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