Yash - the 'abla' naari!!

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Yash is behaving like a rape victim! 🤢

I can understand that he is riddled with guilt and he thinks that he has betrayed his late wife, but his own flash backs prove that he was the one who made the first move towards his current wife then why is she blamed for the seduction??

It was definitely not one sided nor was it planned. I mean who can plan thunder lightening rain electrical black out etc etc to create a perfect bedroom atmosphere?? 😲

So I think that Yash should stop behaving like a damsel in distress and take proper control of the situation like aarti who is definitely the stronger person in the relationship!!

He can't be immature when he has his kids to consider, he is no irrational college boy who can do anything which brings him bodily harm and puts the future of his kids in jeopardy.

I don't think what kind of response this thread will get... But this is what I honestly feel.

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: timepassTP

Yash is behaving like a rape victim! 🤢


I can understand that he is riddled with guilt and he thinks that he has betrayed his late wife, but his own flash backs prove that he was the one who made the first move towards his current wife then why is she blamed for the seduction??

It was definitely not one sided nor was it planned. I mean who can plan thunder lightening rain electrical black out etc etc to create a perfect bedroom atmosphere?? 😲

So I think that Yash should stop behaving like a damsel in distress and take proper control of the situation like aarti who is definitely the stronger person in the relationship!!

He can't be immature when he has his kids to consider, he is no irrational college boy who can do anything which brings him bodily harm and puts the future of his kids in jeopardy.

I don't think what kind of response this thread will get... But this is what I honestly feel.


Nice take...@BOLD: agree with u 100%
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Posted: 13 years ago
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that's why i highly doubt the love for Aarti on his part because he will not be clinging to the dead if he feels something for Aarti..if he does have the feeling for aarti, he should blame himself not Aarti. He doesn't feel heaven with the thought of Aarti, he feels sin. Big insult!
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Originally posted by: villager00

that's why i highly doubt the love for Aarti on his part because he will not be clinging to the dead if he feels something for Aarti..if he does have the feeling for aarti, he should blame himself not Aarti. He doesn't feel heaven with the thought of Aarti, he feels sin. Big insult!


Very good point completely agree!!

It is a terrible insult!!
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: timepassTP

Yash is behaving like a rape victim! 🤢


I can understand that he is riddled with guilt and he thinks that he has betrayed his late wife, but his own flash backs prove that he was the one who made the first move towards his current wife then why is she blamed for the seduction??

It was definitely not one sided nor was it planned. I mean who can plan thunder lightening rain electrical black out etc etc to create a perfect bedroom atmosphere?? 😲

So I think that Yash should stop behaving like a damsel in distress and take proper control of the situation like aarti who is definitely the stronger person in the relationship!!

He can't be immature when he has his kids to consider, he is no irrational college boy who can do anything which brings him bodily harm and puts the future of his kids in jeopardy.

I don't think what kind of response this thread will get... But this is what I honestly feel.


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Posted: 13 years ago
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Ugh!! i knw right and who the heck wud want to rape a demented guy lyk Yash🤢🤢 he twisted it around and it seem as though she forced him to look at her playing in the rain, lyk if she forced him to play in the rain with her. lyk if she forced him to hug her wen she ran into his arms wen the the thunder and lightning struck lyk she forced him to take her up in his arms and carry her to the bedroom so he should stop behaving and realize wht happened b'twn them was just human nature because as a man I hav no idea hw he cud spend the rest of his life with a beautiful wife in one room and not even think abt her and even b4 he got drunk his eyes were totally fixated on her during the the puja in the shiv mandir while he left her alone with Aman to go and make an important phone call and need I remind u abt the the Janmashti thing wen he pulled her into his arms.😡😡😡😡 So he kinda likes her if not loves but I don't believe tht it is completely love yet he is just in denial so he is in the early stages of falling in love again denial😃
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: swaggerchick16

Ugh!! i knw right and who the heck wud want to rape a demented guy lyk Yash🤢🤢 he twisted it around and it seem as though she forced him to look at her playing in the rain, lyk if she forced him to play in the rain with her. lyk if she forced him to hug her wen she ran into his arms wen the the thunder and lightning struck lyk she forced him to take her up in his arms and carry her to the bedroom so he should stop behaving and realize wht happened b'twn them was just human nature because as a man I hav no idea hw he cud spend the rest of his life with a beautiful wife in one room and not even think abt her and even b4 he got drunk his eyes were totally fixated on her during the the puja in the shiv mandir while he left her alone with Aman to go and make an important phone call and need I remind u abt the the Janmashti thing wen he pulled her into his arms.😡 So he kinda likes her if not loves but I don't believe tht it is completely love yet he is just in denial so he is in the early stages of falling in love again denial😃




Hmmm correct, this dude is one confused fellow!! Even if his emotions are conflicting he should not trash talk to his wife like that. When the whole family was blaming arti for having a physical relationship with aman then it was Yash who stood by her side and said that her character is not bad and now he is blaming her with the same allegation??

But in all this I am really respecting aarti, she has emerged as a beautiful strong character!!
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Posted: 13 years ago
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i really not agree with ur post but i m not accept his behaviour towards arti. Somewhere he lived in guilt of cheated arpita by making relationship with arti b/c he believe love happen once in a life but never understand his inner feeling for arti.
Not compare aman-arti night incidence with consumption night where one side yash support her and other side he blamed her for that night b/c acc to him, arti loved him and want him and for this she make a plan .
He is too much in guilt that stop him to thinking what's wrong and what's right. Even he never think about his kids that if something happened with him then what is the future of his kids. This a human nature when he come in his own, they dont listen anyone and what its result.
Hats off cv's to show real character that show how much u r perfect but somewhere u r also wrong where u think only about yourself. We r not expected it from lead and we r not see like that before where lead behave like that.
But i accept it b/c always human sycology is always above his control and it is beautifully shown in bhool- bhulaiya where vidhya balaan sychology above her and same with yash in same extent where he live in past and that kept him too much .
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: loveuguys

i really not agree with ur post but i m not accept his behaviour towards arti. Somewhere he lived in guilt of cheated arpita by making relationship with arti b/c he believe love happen once in a life but never understand his inner feeling for arti.
Not compare aman-arti night incidence with consumption night where one side yash support her and other side he blamed her for that night b/c acc to him, arti loved him and want him and for this she make a plan .
He is too much in guilt that stop him to thinking what's wrong and what's right. Even he never think about his kids that if something happened with him then what is the future of his kids. This a human nature when he come in his own, they dont listen anyone and what its result.
Hats off cv's to show real character that show how much u r perfect but somewhere u r also wrong where u think only about yourself. We r not expected it from lead and we r not see like that before where lead behave like that.
But i accept it b/c always human sycology is always above his control and it is beautifully shown in bhool- bhulaiya where vidhya balaan sychology above her and same with yash in same extent where he live in past and that kept him too much .


I respect your views whole heartedly but CV's are not showing true human character because when a person becomes a parent the whole 'nazariya' of life changes. You see the world in a different way, you feel more responsible and more cautious about your surroundings. If a guy is a reckless driver u will notice that after father hood he becomes more careful with him self.

If a couple are comfortable seeing x rated programs on tv, u will notice that after they become parents they don't see uncomfortable show in front of their child because they feel responsible for the child's moral education.

I am not against Yash feeling guilty, that is human nature but he shouldn't blame aarti for the Consummation on that night, he should admit that he is also 50 percent guilty in that.

Vidya Balan had a serious mental problem called schizophrenia, Yash isn't anywhere close to being that disillusioned. Those two are completely different examples not suitable in this context I'm afraid...

P.S. The word is consummation which means sex not consumption which would be to eat or to drink... Thought u should know, sorry if offended.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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I really do understand everybody feels Yash outraged behaviour is over the top and sometimes annoying.
Yash is not perfect ,
Do you remember both Yash and Aarti refusing to do this punar vivah because both loved their first partners and Aarti went to go meet Prasant when she already knew about she was going to start a new life with Yash , so why did she do it because love compelled her as she truely loved Prasant .
Yash too is compelled by love but for Arpita , Yash been angry all the time i his way of dealing with his guilt seemed it never worked so now he takes to boxing without considering anything all thats in his mind is Arpita .
So yes Yash needs this boxing match to level out his guilt more to bring him back slowly into his normal frame of mind .

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