Aarti still needs to demand an apology

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spyers

@spyers

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Posted: 13 years ago

At this point, I couldn't care what the issue is with Yash.

I am only concerned with Aarti continuously tolerating abuse because it is not good for her to just forget everything that happened just because she's in love with Yash.

I know many people will give excuses such as Aarti has low self esteem hence why she's acting this way or that wives are able to tolerate any and everything thrown in their direction. However, that does not mean when someone does something wrong to her that she should just forget what just happened and accept a halfhearted apology.

When all is said and done, Yash needs to sincerely apologise to Aarti both in privacy and in front of his family. And Aarti needs to make sure that he is truly sorry for his actions.

Thoughts on this.

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Roopa

@Roopakishore

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Posted: 13 years ago

You are absolutely correct. Yash should ask her apology. and he should also confess that I did behave like this because I do not have the guts to loose you, I cannot tolerate another guy with you except me because I love you and I love you so much.

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DMKJ_VB

@DMKJ_VB

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Posted: 13 years ago

and NO ONE feels that how in the name of GOD aarti forgot that she was stranded with Aman? even if she was drunk, how can she forget that a part of her memory is blank? Sure everything that happens in this show is Yash's fault. and Aarti has no fault whatsoever!😕

Yes, Yash should apologize to aarti, but the fact that ppl here are almost blind to any of aarti's faults is just unbelievable. Yash behaved abominably, but he is being more harsh with himself. He needs to repent big time and apologize to aarti.

What about the Truth that aarti is hiding about Prashant? Yash loves his first wife- OMG how can he? he is insensitive, criminal. ( as if he promised aarti that he would love her after wedding), aarti hid about prashant..SO what shobha told her too.she has faced so much ( of course Yash has not suffered, after all losing someone he loved more than his life forever , someone who loved him back and was not a moron like Prashant- , knowing that she died young, that too infront of his very own eys, and he was helplessly watching- oh of course all that means NOTHING)of course aarti is a small girl that she got brainwashed by shobha. and when Prashant truth comes out, lets all CURSE yash again if he even has the guts to feel cheated! In fact Yash should apologize to aarti for loving his first wife ( who cares if it was Aarti who misunderstood him as a lecher, and wanted him to stay away from her always), and Yash should also say that it was his mistake that she hid Prashant's truth!

I know I will be called an Aarti hater after this😆 honestly, I don't care. Becoz I am the one who defended Aarti throughout , and still do. Only I feel strange when her obvious mistakes are ignored , and Yash's every action is blamed!

Edited by DMKJ_VB - 13 years ago

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Deepti1808

@Deepti1808

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Posted: 13 years ago

An apology is a long way away in terms of episodes i mean

First yash has to realize he is wrong

Then he has to realize that in his depression he has hurt everyone but mostly his wife aarti.

Then he must have the guts to say sorry

For that he must accept that he is in love with aarthi

So step by step tedious process might take another 20 episodes minimum going by how long his temper episodes have taken he will be given equal footage for the cooling down period.lol.

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adi1986

@adi1986

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Posted: 13 years ago

Yes Yash should and will definetly apologize to Aarti. Not just sorry, he should repent big time.

And when the time comes for the divorce issue to be revealed, Aarti will need to the apologising and explaining.

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Kittya Cullen

@Kittya_Cullen

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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: DMKJ_VB
and NO ONE feels that how in the name of GOD aarti forgot that she was stranded with Aman? even if she was drunk, how can she forget that a part of her memory is blank? Sure everything that happens in this show is Yash's fault. and Aarti has no fault whatsoever!😕

Yes, Yash should apologize to aarti, but the fact that ppl here are almost blind to any of aarti's faults is just unbelievable. Yash behaved abominably, but he is being more harsh with himself. He needs to repent big time and apologize to aarti.
What about the Truth that aarti is hiding about Prashant? Yash loves his first wife- OMG how can he? he is insensitive, criminal. ( as if he promised aarti that he would love her after wedding), aarti hid about prashant..SO what shobha told her too.she has faced so much ( of course Yash has not suffered, after all losing someone he loved more than his life forever , someone who loved him back and was not a moron like Prashant- , knowing that she died young, that too infront of his very own eys, and he was helplessly watching- oh of course all that means NOTHING)of course aarti is a small girl that she got brainwashed by shobha. and when Prashant truth comes out, lets all CURSE yash again if he even has the guts to feel cheated! In fact Yash should apologize to aarti for loving his first wife ( who cares if it was Aarti who misunderstood him as a lecher, and wanted him to stay away from her always), and Yash should also say that it was his mistake that she hid Prashant's truth!

I know I will be called an Aarti hater after this😆 honestly, I don't care. Becoz I am the one who defended Aarti throughout , and still do. Only I feel strange when her obvious mistakes are ignored , and Yash's every action is blamed!

I wouldn't quite say that we have ignored her obvious mistakes. The biggest problem most viewers have with Yash was the manner in which he expressed his anger. Even if he wasn't trying to physically hurt Aarti, it was still irresponsible and careless. As for Yash loving Arpita, I certainly wasn't expecting him to rip her from his mind, and place Aarti prominently in her place, so his obsession with Arpita did not colour my opinion regarding him.
Aarti withholding the Prashant secret is dangerous, and it is a volatile issue waiting to come to light. Frankly though, Aarti had pushed Prashant out of her life after her remarriage, so she wouldn't want to dwell on a past being like him. Yash and Aarti had no interest in each other when they first married. It was a mutual agreement, so the Prashant secret, while important, was easy to suppress with the influence of Shoba and Mr. Dubey ( I can never remember his name😆). I still don't approve of the way she handled Palak's birthday party, neither the fact that she sheltered Bhua when she discovered that it was "Bhua dadi" who had switched Ansh's essay. The reason I, as a viewer, emphasise Yash's actions, is because his weaknesses have so far caused the most pain. Not only to Aarti, but to his children, his mother, his father, and his brothers. It is the fact that he had allowed himself to become so cocooned in his pain, that it kept him from seeing the fact that his family wanted to share it with him, but instead were helpless- forced to watch in pain the slow loss of the man they all loved. I'm sure we'll be criticising Aarti soon😆😆, so no worries dear😳

Quick question: If Yash has never shown any interest in Aarti, why would she suspect her night with Aman would leave any impression on his mind? Yash has been Arpita obsessed for ages, it would be her wildest dream to even consider that possibility. Imagine- Yash jealous because Aarti spent a night with a hot guy😲

Edited by Kittya_Cullen - 13 years ago

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Suchi-

@Suchi-

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Posted: 13 years ago

OK WHY on earth should Arti apologize????

cause her husband doubts her..? that she probably slept with some stranger.I mean COME ON!!!!

what the hec...

acting like a maniac cause she spent some time with someone..and without finding out WHO it is or what the situation was...acting like an @#(*@(#*@(*...

Arti that stupid girl, always sooo weak and crying. She needs to seriously get angry at this man's behavior and STOP talking to him. Until he apologizes.

Honestly!!! If he had found out about prashant I would have been like ok chalo , he has the right to get angry like that ...but this reason is absolutely not acceptable!

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villager00

@villager00

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Posted: 13 years ago

i want the apology but i don't want Aarti to demand it. I want Yash to realize it on his own and make the first move😊

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Mahalakshmi

@maha9

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Posted: 13 years ago

I too want yash to apologise to arthi.

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DMKJ_VB

@DMKJ_VB

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Posted: 13 years ago

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@ Kitya- Yash loves arpita, not aarti. but how does that explain her not explaining why she spent a night with another man? If it was Yash in aarti's place, spending a night with another woman, i would expect him to explain himslef as well! Becoz this is not something trivial.

However, I was not talking about her giving an explanation, I was talking about her memory lapse! Even after seeing yash's anger for 4-5 days, she can't recall anything! Yash must have decided to return to Bhopal after that very night, as the articles suggest! How in the name of God can aarti still not recollect anything? If she was drunk, she might have forgotten what happened. How could she not realize that a part of her memory is missing?Thats totally weird and absurd!

as far as Yash's anger is concerned, I agree with whatever u wrote- word to word. i wasn't defending Yash, only pointing out that aarti is not blameless either. By blame I don't mean her spending a night, that was accident. i mean its ridiculus that after so many days , she still does not remember it!

About Prashant, as long as aarti had no interest in the marriage, the lie was acceptable. In Mumbai however, she was totally into Yash, almost forcing him to make her wear bangles, etc etc...she clearly wants Yash's love, she hopes to be loved by him( as made clear by her expressions during the fire incident when yash is about to say " for me, you are."), but still she chooses to hide this truth, inspite of knowing that Yash hates lies. Yash has never hidden anything from her. A lie is a lie. She didn't have to scream it to her in laws, however she should have told it to Yash, instead she got brainwashed by shobha. Strangely, not for a single moment does she feel any guilt now for hiding such a huge truth! Its natural that she wouldn't want to dwell on Prashant, however Yash is being deliberately cheated here. When Prashant came to shobha's house and Yash was there, he was continuously lied to,and after that aarti decided to follow shobha's advice and hide everything. I would have felt ok if she had felt guilty about it, but no! She has no guilt whatsoever!😕 Can't justify it from any angle!

Edited by DMKJ_VB - 13 years ago

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