Aarti still needs to demand an apology

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Raveena

@Loveforlife

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Posted: 13 years ago

#11

I would like Aarti to get the apology without asking. Lets wait and watch...

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Ashwatha

@ashGC_arja

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Posted: 13 years ago

#12

agree with you... Yash and his mom esp must apologize... i hope aarti retorts back to Yash his behaviour to some extent atleast so that he could realise her suffering during those times...

this becuase i want him to know what he did with her and how she had been living with all those thaanas

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Kittya Cullen

@Kittya_Cullen

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Posted: 13 years ago

#13

Originally posted by: DMKJ_VB
@ Kitya- Yash loves arpita, not aarti. but how does that explain her not explaining why she spent a night with another man? If it was Yash in aarti's place, spending a night with another woman, i would expect him to explain himslef as well! Becoz this is not something trivial.

However, I was not talking about her giving an explanation, I was talking about her memory lapse! Even after seeing yash's anger for 4-5 days, she can't recall anything! Yash must have decided to return to Bhopal after that very night, as the articles suggest! How in the name of God can aarti still not recollect anything? If she was drunk, she might have forgotten what happened. How could she not realize that a part of her memory is missing?Thats totally weird and absurd!

as far as Yash's anger is concerned, I agree with whatever u wrote- word to word. i wasn't defending Yash, only pointing out that aarti is not blameless either. By blame I don't mean her spending a night, that was accident. i mean its ridiculus that after so many days , she still does not remember it!

About Prashant, as long as aarti had no interest in the marriage, the lie was acceptable. In Mumbai however, she was totally into Yash, almost forcing him to make her wear bangles, etc etc...she clearly wants Yash's love, she hopes to be loved by him( as made clear by her expressions during the fire incident when yash is about to say " for me, you are."), but still she chooses to hide this truth, inspite of knowing that Yash hates lies. Yash has never hidden anything from her. A lie is a lie. She didn't have to scream it to her in laws, however she should have told it to Yash, instead she got brainwashed by shobha. Strangely, not for a single moment does she feel any guilt now for hiding such a huge truth! Its natural that she wouldn't want to dwell on Prashant, however Yash is being deliberately cheated here. When Prashant came to shobha's house and Yash was there, he was continuously lied to,and after that aarti decided to follow shobha's advice and hide everything. I would have felt ok if she had felt guilty about it, but no! She has no guilt whatsoever!😕 Can't justify it from any angle!

It seems highly unlikely that Aarti wouldn't explain a night with another male. However, even if something of that nature did occur, it's far more likely that Yash never gave Aarti a chance to explain her reasons. As you can see these last few days, when Yash is angry, no one else's words register on his mind. As for expecting Yash to explain, I agree, but knowing him, he would simply remind her that she is not Arpita and has no rights on his time nor his whereabouts. Anyway, the point is her not remembering. Once again, I can't say what happened in Aarti's memory. Her getting drunk seems very unlikely, unless she drank bhaang in celebration of having Yash's happiness back. However, even without that as a cause of memory loss, the fact remains that while she desires Yash's love, she hasn't received any sign that he is interested in the least bit. So her being stuck with her male bestfriend at wherever wouldn't cross her mind as a source of anger for Yash. He has never gotten involved with her outside of the children, and then recently in Mumbai there were so many things that they all did together that at some point in time brought the two in close contact, yet still the most Yash has shown her is friendly concern and interest.

As for the lie. Aarti has lied by omission. I accept. However, Prashant was her past. He is the biological father of Ansh, but nothing more. He has no claims over her in any way, and as far as Aarti and the Dubey's are concerned. That man is dead to them. Whether or not Aarti tells Yash that she is a divorcee is something that she will have to decide. It would have been best if she had told him to clear the lie that her family had told, especially before feelings were ever involved, I agree. However, being married before does not meant that you have to tell your current husband about the previous relationship. Personally, I would tell my second husband (God forbid I should ever get married twice!!😕), but it isn't a requirement. The truth is meant to build trust, and respect in a relationship, which is why some people talk about those past relationships. In terms of guilt, she should feel guilty now. She loves him, and in love, by nature, their should be no secrets. However, the reality is that secrets remain a part of real life, and the secret that she carries is one that I'm sure some people out here in real time also have.

My point is:

1) Aarti forgetting about being with Aman is not impossible, even with Yash's anger probing her thoughts.
2) Aarti should have told Yash about the divorce, but in the psychological sense of the word, she truly does consider herself a widow.
3) Guilt is something that develops when a person feels that he/she did something wrong. Aarti has not been shown to feel remorse for keeping the truth from Yash, since like I stated before, she has removed Prashant from her life symbolically and legally.

I frankly don't see why she is being blasted by Yash when she clearly states that she doesn't remember. If she doesn't, just freaking tell her!!! Gosh Yash!!! If it was some big, bad horrible thing, then I will be upset that she forgot it. Until then, I'm just watching for the little insights into Yash's mind.

As far as I see it, Aarti is imperfect, but so are the rest of us, and the mistakes that she makes usually occur as a result of good intentions. So I am far less likely to judge her. However I clearly see the points that you are making, and I acknowledge them in their full essence. 😳

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Maleena

@*Maleena*

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Posted: 13 years ago

#14

Completely agree with you. Yash needs to ask for forgiveness from Aarti, I hope she doesn't let him off easy with a simple I'm sorry from Yash.

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RubyWoo

@RubyWoo

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Posted: 13 years ago

#15

actually the whole truth is still not out only the article says that Aarti spent night with Aman for what ever reason we have yet to c the epi and then say who should say sorry but a am with Yash for now till i watch the epi when the truth comes out. I like Aarti too but as of now she should not get angry with Yash as she also is not aware of her
mistake.

@DMKJ-VM agree with your post.

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ARWA

@jojo1986

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Posted: 13 years ago

#16

Ruchi-Virmani I am with you i was thinking the same way👍🏼

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PuvZ

@PuvZ

Rocker

Posted: 13 years ago

#17

Totally agree with you!! Aarti should also throw tantrum like What Yash is doin!! And watching Yash trying to please her will be for all the viewers !

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