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Posted: 12 years ago

is paridhi supposed to stay home every time there is a problem. if these 2 have a problem w/i the marriage, then does everyone else stop their lives to help them. they are grown adults not little kids. i think at this point paridhi needs to get her mother involved and leave the house. even her own husband wont support her. she is literally all alone

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Posted: 12 years ago

don't worry for paridi, she is strong character compare to arti and vidi

like buaji she will do anything for uske dream ko sach kerne ke lye.
now she using single status 4 dream, tomorrow she will get trouble then come back or leave the house
paridi parents new era, but lazy

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Janaki

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Posted: 12 years ago

Sorry but I don't like Paridhi's character right now. There's a difference between achieving one's dreams and being selfish. Paridhi went from being healthily ambitious to selfishness. She literally doesn't care about anyone else in the family, so why would they care about her or support her? If she wants respect she should earn it. I don't like women like her at all. Such women should not get married because they don't consider anything but their job important. They are actually married to their jobs.

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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: JanakiRaghunath
Sorry but I don't like Paridhi's character right now. There's a difference between achieving one's dreams and being selfish. Paridhi went from being healthily ambitious to selfishness. She literally doesn't care about anyone else in the family, so why would they care about her or support her? If she wants respect she should earn it. I don't like women like her at all. Such women should not get married because they don't consider anything but their job important. They are actually married to their jobs.

how is she being selfish? her staying home isn't going to solve anyone problem. its not like she doesnt care. when ansh got kidnapped she didn't ask to go to wrk. now that would be selfish. and the only way for a women to earn respect in that family is by staying at home and listening to gyatri. she obviously has diff plans and had expressed them pre-marriage and pratik agreed to support her. and now he turns his back on his words. she's resorting to methods bc her useless husband cant speak up and theres no other way for her to work without her royally pissing off her in laws. and its not liek her going to her job would require anyone else to sacrifice anything. maybe arti and tvidhi would pick up the extra load in the household but vidhi was doing this on her own before so its not liek its much of a change.

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Posted: 12 years ago

I used to support Paridhi- but her characterization lately has erred towards being selfish, There is a difference between ambition and selfishness. She's more then willing to stomp on other people's happiness to get her way as was evidenced by her seeking counsel with Bua and lying about her dream to prevent the Mumbai trip so she could go. Building your dreams on the wreck of someone else's happiness is not ok.

That being said- the feminist in me cries out AGAINST Paridhi's methods, did she know what type of family she had married into absolutely not, but now that she knows she still doesn't try to change their minds about her working, she lies about it...what's the point of her going after a new job, lying about her marital status and lying to the family because eventually she will be caught, and then what?Will she quit her job then? Will she leave Prateik then?

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Janaki

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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: Inkpen4877
I used to support Paridhi- but her characterization lately has erred towards being selfish, There is a difference between ambition and selfishness. She's more then willing to stomp on other people's happiness to get her way as was evidenced by her seeking counsel with Bua and lying about her dream to prevent the Mumbai trip so she could go. Building your dreams on the wreck of someone else's happiness is not ok.

That being said- the feminist in me cries out AGAINST Paridhi's methods, did she know what type of family she had married into absolutely not, but now that she knows she still doesn't try to change their minds about her working, she lies about it...what's the point of her going after a new job, lying about her marital status and lying to the family because eventually she will be caught, and then what?Will she quit her job then? Will she leave Prateik then?

Well said!👏 Supporting Paridhi is no longer about being a feminist or chauvinist. She's no longer just ambitious, she's become selfish and cunning. Though Prateik may have contributed to this somewhat, he's not entirely at fault because Paridhi's parents are like these too. Especially her mother who doesn't seem to give any importance to family life. She's supporting her daughter in lying to her family, and no mother should do that because that could cause problems for her daughter.

Anyway, Prateik's trying to support her nowadays and I feel sorry for him for having to put up with stupid Paridhi lying about her marital status. I would hate it and would sooo not agree if my husband asked that of me.

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Raveena

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Posted: 12 years ago

Paridhi is frustrated yes but she is a smart one!! She will not leave Prateek and she made it clear to him when he said that she can leave the house if she wants!!

Prateek is wrong somewhere yes I agree!! They need to reach a balance!!

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Posted: 12 years ago

Oh wow...This is kinda interesting...I kinda support Paridhi actually in this...I do not see why she should stay at home when obviously there is nothing she can do abt Yash and Aarti..And excuse me..even Parteek is not like in any way trying to help Yash and Aarti...if not, y he didnt stop his bro from letting his bro's temper get the better of him.

And seriously, who just not turn up for work when there is such a problem at home??? What abt your responsibility at work? I mean everyone has a role and their own responsibility at the work place and if you just do not turn up, someone else has to cover for you...It is definitely important for you to assess if the situation warrants you to not appear from work ( I am not talking abt gg on leave or taking MC but I am talking abt just not turning up for work cause your bro-in-law and his wife just had a show-down!). I do not get where Prateek is coming from!

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IshaMish

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Posted: 12 years ago

earlier I supported Pari.. coz her asking to be a working woman was not wrong.. and prateek promised her that she could continue with her job.. and at later stage he backed off... he did not even discussed his/her problem with vidhi or arti.. just keeping mum..

but now paridhi has gone to an extent of selfishness.. and yes foolishness... If she opts to work on TV.. she should know that someday any of the family member/relatives/friends of family would see her.. and she will be caught.. even as a RJ pa scindhia saw her..

It would have been better if she clearly discussed her plans with the family.. instead of being selfish like this.. she does not even care about prateek's feelings.. how he would feel.. when she says to everyone that i m unmarried and this guy is my friend.. during interview she talked so big about love... and now she is not thinking of their relation itself... forget about family

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Pankhudi

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Posted: 12 years ago

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Originally posted by: gafulu14
don't worry for paridi, she is strong character compare to arti and vidi

like buaji she will do anything for uske dream ko sach kerne ke lye.
now she using single status 4 dream, tomorrow she will get trouble then come back or leave the house
paridi parents new era, but lazy

sorry dear but am just not agree with u that paridhi is a strong character compare to aarti !!😕 may be she is stronger than vidhi but aarti is the most strongest character what i feel !! 😃

paridhi is not strong but she is most selfish one don't you remember what drama she created the night before aarti and yash mumbai trip just to fulfill her own dream she lied that she had a dream that their flit may crash !! yuck she didn't even thought about kids who where so excited to go mumbai for their vacations !!

and yeah its not true that only a working women more is strong then the ones who are housewives !! and buaji ! well she is a frustrated women who is so damn weak that she can't see anyone happy if she didn't have a happy life . whatever is paridhi but i don't want her to turn up to another buaji ... !!🤢

Edited by pankhudi11 - 12 years ago

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