Is Aarti not doing enough for Yash?

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Punar Vivah's page on Facebook posted : Yash says, "Arpita ke bina mera jeevan aisa he hai, aur aisa he rahega." Do you think Aarti is not doing enough to make Yash's life better?


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Posted: 13 years ago
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No, Aarti's doing fine, but what she needs to learn is to give Yash some space and not force him to do something he doesn't want. She only got over Prashant that quickly because he was a cheat, but Arpita was a not a cheat. She was a loving wife so Yash cannot forget her so soon. If he doesn't want to go to Mumbai yet, Aarti needs to respect that. After they fall in love Yash may take the initiative to go to Mumbai again himself, but right now he's not ready.
They could go anywhere for vacation. Why just Mumbai? I think Aarti should have promised Palak instead that they'd go somwhere for the holidays.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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That's a good point too Janaki. Yash is still very much in the memories of Arpitha and looks like he needs even more time to accept Aarti but i also don't blame Aarti at the same time as i like that she is making some effort instead of sitting and waiting for her luck/time to pass. But yes, she should make a move but not force Yash so much 😊 After all, she has won everyone's heart and now comes her biggest test, winning Yash's love.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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I will just steal one word from my sister "Rewrite".
Rewriting memories is not necessary to make one's life better.
Arpita's memories need not to be confused with every single new memory in lane. Yash and Aarti's new life, why it is always shown colliding with Arpita's memories?? Why not something new and far distant.
Yash doesn't want to go Mumbai, fine!! Why to force him? They can show them going somewhere else where they can find a beach.
Aarti is just doing perfect but her efforts are always shown colliding a very strong part of Yash. That is not at all necessary to show...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Thanks for the picture. That is a beautiful picture. 😃

I think Aarti is doing just fine but Yash is not doing enough to make his own life better. He has had 4 years to face his pain. His family has lived in fear of his pain for the last four years. His family has lived on needles and pins the last four years making sure they don't say anything or do anything to upset him. I think it is high time for Yash to realize that his pain should not affect the lives of people around him. If Mumbai holds memories for him, then Palak and Payal shouldn't have to suffer for it. And how are Aarti and the kids to know what all memories hold dear to Yash. Today it is Mumbai. Tomorrow the girls might come up with some other place which may hold memories for Yash. And would he deny the kids that too? How long should every one wait for Yash to conquer his pain? This is not about Mumbai, this is about Yash realizing and acknowledging that he has to move on in his life to make his life better and also of those around him who rely on him.

I swear FB comes up with some of the silliest questions. 😕
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: angake

Thanks for the picture. That is a beautiful picture. 😃


I think Aarti is doing just fine but Yash is not doing enough to make his own life better. He has had 4 years to face his pain. His family has lived in fear of his pain for the last four years. His family has lived on needles and pins the last four years making sure they don't say anything or do anything to upset him. I think it is high time for Yash to realize that his pain should not affect the lives of people around him. If Mumbai holds memories for him, then Palak and Payal shouldn't have to suffer for it. And how are Aarti and the kids to know what all memories hold dear to Yash. Today it is Mumbai. Tomorrow the girls might come up with some other place which may hold memories for Yash. And would he deny the kids that too? How long should every one wait for Yash to conquer his pain? This is not about Mumbai, this is about Yash realizing and acknowledging that he has to move on in his life to make his life better and also of those around him who rely on him.

I swear FB comes up with some of the silliest questions. 😕


They are testing the viewer's feelings 🤣
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Posted: 13 years ago
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think arti is doing fine she just want yash to leave the same way as it was earlier for the family sake n kids too so i think now she will not force him to do any thing what she want to him
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Posted: 13 years ago
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aarti is making enough efforts.
But it takes time to yash forget past and live present.if he goes to mumbai he get the memories of arpita and the fact she doesnt come back will hurt him.taking him mumbai is not a bad idea though
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Even i don't think that Aarti trying to make Yash go to Mumbai is wrong as Aarti is perhaps trying to make Yash stronger in accepting the reality that Arpita is no more though her memory remains and find comfort in Aarti 😊
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: Visha_Dhami

That's a good point too Janaki. Yash is still very much in the memories of Arpitha and looks like he needs even more time to accept Aarti but i also don't blame Aarti at the same time as i like that she is making some effort instead of sitting and waiting for her luck/time to pass. But yes, she should make a move but not force Yash so much 😊 After all, she has won everyone's heart and now comes her biggest test, winning Yash's love.

I know Visha, I agree that Aarti's intentions are good, but we musn't also force people to move forward when they're grieving, it could have catastrophic outcomes.😳 I think what Aarti should do is give Yash some time. They could all go to another place for vacation, and once Yash becomes his original self more, and starts to fall in love with Aarti, then he himself will want to take her to the beach house in Mumbai. Get what I mean?

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