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Sadie

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Posted: 13 years ago

#101

Change Of Plan

No Analysis From Me 😆

Sadiie x

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Mamita

@mamita

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Posted: 13 years ago

#102

Originally posted by: ninand
I am taken aback, by just how impactful todays episode was. In terms of showcasing Aarti's shock and heartbreak at finding herself being abandoned again..

I felt my heart being twisted into a knot.. it did not matter that I have seen barely a couple of episodes of this show, her pain(and bravo KS for such a brilliant performance) was gut wrenching.

oh how i love her mother-in-law.. her own reaction as she sees Aarti's fate taking a harsh , a stubborn u-turn.. the way she slumps back against the door frame in agony ..
and why wouldnt Aarti feel there's something lacking in her? Granted at first , she was left perforce but she could come out of it..
but with Yash, abandonment takes a new meaning. Here she accepts some faults laid at her door,, and she now knows Yash.. the kind of man that he is..there is immense respect, even gratitude, and wouldn't there be a natural kinship, a bond that needs no name or reason.. something quite inexplicable , intangible yet so strong in its influence..

how can she absolve herself of loosing that.. and that man. It was so touching , so poignant, that her m-i-l knows she will loose her person with this divorce.. that she is willing to do anything, beg, implore , to keep from this fragile dream from dispersing just like that ;(

It was heartbreaking to see her keep her hopes up by looking through Bua's treachery.. but the sequence of events after that.. ;( the way Ans wanted to emulate his new papa..

I would come to Yash at a later date.. todays it was Aarti and only her:(.. theres some solace to be found in the precap and in what Yash felt like asking Aarti while he watched them from that distance.

Loved this write-up of yours, Ninand! 👏 The pain, the POV you have expressed seems directly from Aarti's heart! 👍🏼

@Bold : You nailed it! The relation between Aarti and Yash currently is actually inexplicable and so are their feelings towards each other. Since Aarti knows that Yash is a sensible person and he will not take mindless decisions, she is completely shattered with this step of Yash, as she truly believed that he would come to take her back... But Aarti's predicament is very obvious. She can't understand exactly why did Yash sign the papers. Fine, she herself told Prateek not to tell him anything, but she hoped that Yash would understand himself why she left the home. She hoped that Yash would identify with her POV because till now, Yash has always been rational. So the moment she received the papers was truly earth-shattering for her. Very heart wrenching... 😭

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disha

@Conqueror212

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Posted: 13 years ago

#103

Originally posted by: ..Sadiie..
Change Of Plan
No Analysis From Me 😆

Sadiie x

thank god... we r in serious mood...😆😆

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jikky_84

@jikky_84

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Posted: 13 years ago

#104

@ Mamita, I agree that Yash is a person who has always related to Arati and her emotions, but now the whole situation is different. He don't know why she left,I don't think he believed what G3 told but somewhere he feels that she left him because he was not a good father to Ansh (from his monologue today).

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Mamita

@mamita

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Posted: 13 years ago

#105

The Boa's situation actually seems alarming to me! 😲 She has a grudge against SP, that we knew. But now the main point is her hatred has spread to SP's family. I have not seen real concern in her eyes for any member of the family and anything she says to anyone in the family is heavily dipped in sarcasm and spite. She reminds me of Shakuni mama from Mahabharata, who had a grudge against Bheeshm initially and later sweared to finish off the entire Kuru dynasty and he did. I hope the Boa redeems herself or Aarti's behaviour towards her changes her in the course of time.

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Sadie

@..CountingStars

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Posted: 13 years ago

#106

Originally posted by: disha_Maan.GC

thank god... we r in serious mood...😆😆

Good

Off To Annoy My FF Readers

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pennu

@pennu

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Posted: 13 years ago

#107

For whatever the reason i am not likng aYash...😡Aur woh Payal ki bachi kya kah rahi thi...😡 Sotheli Maa...🤢And nobody even tried to correct her.. is thats how the Royal Sindya Family's Parvarish...😡

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Mansi

@skanda12

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Posted: 13 years ago

#108

I've done my take on Page 1 ... but here it is again ...

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Today's episode seemed at first to be a continuation of the distress of yesterday ... in fact I had expected the Creatives will surely make Yash sign the divorce papers, for the sake of heightening the drama. Even though his hands trembled yesterday, something told me to be prepared for the worst ...

But when Yash actally did sign the papers, though, my heart sank even if I was expecting it. The Bua did such an A-class job of using the Brahmastra of the "Arpita ki jagah de do Aarti ko, divorce papers ko phaadh do" argument that I knew that Yash had gone beyond reason into the "Arpita-smaran" territory. There was no hope left!

Anyway the deed is half done, because Aarti has not countersigned the papers till now. So I guess we will have to live with this loose end and hope for the best in the intervening episodes ... spoilers now indicate that the brothers and the kids will now enable the patch-up. I can't wait to see how it all happens ...

Although the episode began on this distressing "divorce-papers-signing" note, as the episode progressed I started seeing many signs of hope of a fast reconciliation. It is a bit early yet for a full reconciliation, but the signs have started to appear. So I want to call my analysis today "HOPE CREEPS IN ..."

A word about Bua before I go on to Yash and Aarti ...

The Bua today defined her actual role in this household for me. Where the Casanova is a planner, and Gayatri the instigator, the Bua has a self-appointed role as the "finisher". She finishes what is begun and sets her seal of ruthless completion on things. Notice how she neatly stripped Aarti of the kangans repeating at least four times that it was Yash's idea. Notice later in the show how she neatly finished off Shobha's call to Yash on his mobile, taking the trouble to even erase the call log! Although Bua gave us a piece of self-talk - that she will not let Yash's punar vivah succeed when her brother did not even think of a punar vivah for her - still I felt that this was not the sole motivation for the Bua to be such a good game-finisher. I think the lady loves her job, loves the thrill of bringing closure to things, loves the "success" she feels when she has achieved.

Hope arrived when Yash and Aarti blamed themselves for the situation

Yes, that's right. I actually saw it as extremely auspicious that Aarti and Yash are into that stage of blaming themselves for the situation.

On one side Yash thinks "Why am I not able to sustain any relationship? What is in my destiny that I lose Arpita and then Aarti also?" On the other side Aarti remembers the way Prashanth left her and sees a repeat from Yash. "Why am I attracting such bad luck? Maybe I am at fault?" is her question.

How do I think this is therefore the beginning of hope? Well, I think it would have been disastrous if they had reached the point of blaming each other for the loss of their marriage, because then they would have played right into the hands of the enemies. The fact that they blame themselves gives me hope that in this self-searching mode, they will also be in a frame of mind to try and make amends to each other. They may be temporarily angry or perplexed, but as they cool down their consciences will not permit them to live with the thought that they are the architects of the fault. And this kind of pricking conscience may drive them towards each other better than any other people can!

Hope arrived in the way Yash and Aarti got ready to go out with their kids

The resilience with which Aarti and Yash got ready to take their kids out for karate and an outing suggests to me that both of them are not going to do the Devdas act, and are going to be there for their children. This is a good sign. It suggests that they are not going to succumb to the situation and give in to any sense of hopelessness. They are already up and about and being parents to their kids. Yash is not nursing his back too much, and Aarti actually finds something to smile about when she gives Ansh his ice-cream.

Yash and Aarti seem to have their wits about them and they do not look like broken people to me. I see great hope in this that their natural resilience in difficult situations will help them bridge the divide. They have both lived through difficulties in life before and emerged stronger from it all. They are survivors, both of them.

Hope arrived when Pratik & Co. showed signs of growing discomfort

It was very heartening to see the first signs of growing discomfort in Pratik, Vidhi, Pankaj and Paridi. Pankaj, I have realised is a little slow to voice his concerns, but I saw distress in his eyes today. Vidhi looked extremely uncomfortable, Paridi was a bit shaken by all the goings-on in this family, and Pratik - dear Pratik - actually berated his mother quite strongly saying "Whatever is happening is not acceptable" ... I think even Gayatri sensed that the generation next was not with her and the Casanova and that's why she tried to put Pratik in his place with such aggression.

Spoilers suggest that this foursome are now going to devise a strategy to bring Yash and Aarti together, so I am waiting with bated breath! Anyway, the good part was that today these four people seemed on edge and unable to take more ... there's hope in the brothers and wives!

Hope arrived when Fate has brought Yash and Aarti face to face

No sooner had Gayatri said to Pratik that "I will never let Aarti's shadow fall on Yash again", by the good grace of Fate, Yash's car drove up right alongside Aarti's scooter! I now have developed great hopes in Gayatri ... she attracts Fate to deliver the opposite of what she says! I just hope she continues to throw speeches about separating Aarti and Yash because I suspect every time she does that we will see one more chance meeting of Aarti and Yash, somewhere unexpected!

Spoilers have also said that Aarti and Yash will meet again when they are dropping their kids at school and Yash's wallet gets stolen with Aarti chasing the chor. I think it was Fate again that contrived to make Yash change Ansh's school that day. Look how useful it is now ... both of them have got so many opportunities to meet across the school gate!

Edited by skanda12 - 13 years ago

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TAPD

@TAPD

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Posted: 13 years ago

#109

Today when Vidhi was fixing Palak's hair, Palak siad to do her hair like she was doing... When asked who, and she Palak said that "Sauteli ma".. Did any one noticed Yash's reaction? looked like he was shocked the way Palak addressed Aarti...

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Gagori Chatterjee

@jyoti06

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Posted: 13 years ago

#110

Today's Episode for me was a meaningful filler I will say where I get to see the perfect reasoning of why Yash signs those divorce papers to prove Aarti is not Arpita in his life but she has a separate identity ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️ and in contrast Aarti does not sign those papers to prove Yash is certainly not Prashant in her life ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️... This contrast of both Yash and Aarti only goes on to show their growing bond and longing for each other ... Rest I was expecting a filler since IPL cruicial Semifinal match of Mumbai and Chennai is going on 😊

The Right or Wrong Influence of our Elders does matter 😊

Today's Episode actually showed how elders matter a lot when it comes to today's generation making or taking decisions ...

Yash was misguided by his own elders with Bua using reverse psychology on Yash just when he was falling weak and this resulted in Yash quickly signing up those divorce papers out of emotions to prove that he does not love Aarti but he forgot to use his brain ...This happens when your own elders misguide u or play games with u or fill your mind with lies ,..So Yash took all the wrong decisions today under the wrong guidance of his elders 👎🏼

On the other hand Aarti's brain is functioning in perfect direction when she guesses that Bua is playing a game in kangan case because no way Yash can take such decision and then she even refuses to sign those divorce papers just because she is under the right guidance of her Elder Shobha who yesterday only explained Aarti the true meaning of a husband-wife relationship which starts with izzat and trust , then friendship and finally love ... So Aarti takes all the rights decisions under the right guidance of her elders

Aarti and Yash's decisions only reflect their growing bonding for each other ...

Yash was always clear in his mind that Aarti is not Arpita and so Aarti can never take Arpita's place in his life but he never denied that Aarti can certainly make a separate place in his heart 😳😳..So today when Bua almost accuses Yash of giving the place of Arpita to Aarti in his heart , Yash signs those papers to prove Bua wrong out of his instant reaction which shows his weakness towards Aarti since in his heart he is well aware that Aarti is making a separate place in his heart and not trying to replace Arpita 😳

Aarti is finally clear in her mind that Yash is no Prashant and so she certainly cannot trust a third person like Bua or Lawyer's words and sign up those divorce papers because what Prashant did with her , she knows Yash can never do the same ...😃😃...

So here Yash signing the divorce paper and Aarti not signing the divorce paper only goes on to show their growing affection for each other since neither Yash wants to compare Aarti with Arpita nor Aarti wants to compare Prashant with Yash😳

If Yash too felt that Aarti is Arpita who is just a mother of his kids , then he would not hv signed those papers but hv told Aarti to continue with her Nanny act for his kids and if Aarti felt that Yash is like Prashant , then she would hv certainly signed those divorce papers thinking if she can give freedom to Prashant , then whats the big deal about Yash ...But both dint think in this direction which is proof enough that both r actually beginning to bond as husband-wife in real sense and its not just limited to being parents for the kids 😊...

Changes in Ansh and Palak ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️

Ansh wants to learn Karate to become like his father ...a future indication of Yash giving karate training to Ansh 😉

Palak is finally missing her new mother when it comes to tieing up her hair 😳...

So even the kids r beginning to miss their opposite parent ..How will Gayatri deal with it now ?? 😛

Pratik might b the first one to revolt ,,,

I feel out of all , Pratik will b first one to revolt against his mother since he is closest to Aarti and today itself he tried taking some panga with his mother when he realised that poor Yash is feeling suffocated in the house without Aarti-Ansh 😭😭😭...It will b interesting to see how Pratik handles this delicate matter and lets the truth out in front of Yash 😃

Bua's main grudge is on Daddy Scindia and not Aarti ..

Its clear that Bua wants to take real revenge from Daddy Scindia by making sure his son's punarvivah breaks simply because he never thought of his widow sister's punarvivah ..I m glad that CVs showed this self-talk of Bua today to justify her extreme vengence against Yash-Aarti 😊...

Yash is feeling jealous already ?? 😉😳

Now the last scene was certainly proving Yash is a typical hubby who is certainly not enjoying the sight of his wife and son enjoying the ice cream candy without him 😉😆😛...If he had no emotions for Aarti then he would hv been indifferent towards them even after watching them from his car but the fact that he got affected and felt the need to ask Aarti why the hell she broke this relationship only goes on to indicate that how much he wants this relationship to remain with him forever 😳😳

Precap dint show anything much but we know both r going to meet and do some bhagam bhag tomorrow 😛😆...