discipline vs freedom

war is start discipline vs freedom...who will win????
no one is perfect not Yash & not even Aarti. both r fail in being perfect parent. both r not matured enough to take care of their children. when Yash was scold Ansh for misbehaving now he has to admit that only discipline is not enough to become good human being. there r many other things which today Aarti mentioned.
and of course Aarti also not completely right. bcs already Ansh misbehaved with Sindhiyas. so now this is very interesting to watch who will win first???Yash or Aarti???who's values & thoughts r more valuable,beneficial 4 children...

BOTH VALUES AND THOUGHTS R IMPOTANT AT CERTAIN LIMIT .NOT OVER LIKE ANSH N NOT UNDER LIKE DAUGHTERS

Nice title!!! I think there shud be balance of two. I dont think they have failed; i mean they are trying atleast. Not to forget they were handling their kids singlehandedly.

Ansh and PayLak misbehaved; agreed. But they are children, which child is perfect??? We are forgetting their positive points.

Do we in our lives look for faults in children?? I think many child behave like them even if they have been looked upon properly.

Some balanced parenting is required ; all things will fall in place.

people often say that freedom means doing whatever you wish to do (apni marzi se jeene do). But if someone wishes to murder someone, should we allow them to do so? Of course not! Freedom doesn't mean giving vent to all our desires and trampling the wishes of others or hurting others. So obviously a mix of both discipline and freedom is required. Ansh needs to know that he cannot go about disrespecting his elders, and so do PayLak need to adjust to situations and give space to others. I hope both Yash and Aarti realise this and teach this to their kids.

Originally posted by: gafulu14

BOTH VALUES AND THOUGHTS R IMPOTANT AT CERTAIN LIMIT .NOT OVER LIKE ANSH N NOT UNDER LIKE DAUGHTERS

ya very true. well said👏

Originally posted by: asrocks

Nice title!!! I think there shud be balance of two. I dont think they have failed; i mean they are trying atleast. Not to forget they were handling their kids singlehandedly.

Ansh and PayLak misbehaved; agreed. But they are children, which child is perfect??? We are forgetting their positive points.

Do we in our lives look for faults in children?? I think many child behave like them even if they have been looked upon properly.

Some balanced parenting is required ; all things will fall in place.

ya i do agree with u. i am not saying that Ansh & payal palak r only spoiled children. i am talking abt only yesterday's problem. i know they all have very much good points also. of course they both r equally important 4 children.i know we r human & no one is perfect. we all have negative & positive sides.😛
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Originally posted by: JanakiRaghunath

A balance of both is required. Children should never be given too much freedom (the consequences you can see in many rowdy teenagers today) but neither should be overly-disciplined, or else their ability to express themselves when older is hampered.

When children misbehave, discipline should be used, but otherwise they may be given freedom as long as it's within reasonable limits.

ya totally agree with u.