Aarti's Issue with men in general.. - Page 3

Originally posted by: uluvmg

awesome analysis of one week..👍🏼 yes u r right.. aarti had painful past from her lovable huby.. she may experienced about men is that men don't want any relations means they are sefish because her huby left her with their unborn child & also his partens for another lady.. & she may also thinking that men only love women for physical relationship..thats why when she has direct contact with men she behaves rudely..

True ..normally our behaviour in life all mainly depends on our past experiences and thats exactly the case with Aarti at present ...her past experience has made her bitter towards any men ...she has lost the trust and respect for the opposite gender ...

@jyoti: nice analysis...agree with you...i wrote almost the same thing in another post, but you summarized aarti's character more precisely...she difinitely has a trust issue...moreover, she is still getting rude remrks from bth men & women for her current status...so, it is not easy for her to get along with men...

Originally posted by: 123mitul

@jyoti: nice analysis...agree with you...i wrote almost the same thing in another post, but you summarized aarti's character more precisely...she difinitely has a trust issue...moreover, she is still getting rude remrks from bth men & women for her current status...so, it is not easy for her to get along with men...

Agree with your observations...both will have love and trust issues

Originally posted by: nishersal

Agree with your observations...both will have love and trust issues

Both love their previous partners...and we have all seen that Aart does not trust men...and so she won't trust Yash very easily...he' ll have to prove himself trustworthy first before she allows herself to love him. And Yash will not love her so easily...maybe watching her with his children he'll first trust her before he allows himself to love her

Even if Aarti and Yash starts trusting each other ,love will b a very long process because both hv not yet come out of their past tragedies ...Aarti still remembers Prashant and Yash still seems to b in love with Arpita ...so it will take time for both to actually accept each other in their heart ..I m hoping to see a good initial friendship and understanding between the two ...😳

Originally posted by: nooriewas

Yup i was also thinking the same!!!!she is vry scared trusting on any MAN!!!!i thnk any girl or lady in her place ll surely behave in front of MAN tat she is really tough and sum rude behaviour!!!bt actually she is doing tat ki koi use phir se dhoka na de!!!i thnk so!!!😊

she is scared of another round of heartbreaks and betrayal ...isliye she is sort of building a strong defensive wall around her ...

Totally agree with u very good observation👏, yes she dint appreciate pratik and yash in front of them but appreciate them in front of others, later also v may see this same issue with aarti she will see yash as good person but wont accept him or appreciate him easily as she think she will get diappointment frm him, as wht she got frm prashant.

I loved your nuanced observation of the pattern here. Her natural instinct is defense when it comes to dealing with men, and it seems according to here, offense is the best defense.

And more specifically, even when she does respect the gestures of men she is reluctant to say it in front of them, lest they take advantage of her trust and favour. Basically she doesn't ever want to give a man the upper hand in an interaction, so she doesn't give him the power to hurt her the way Prashant did.

The problem with this, other than the obvious one of her not being able to move on and find happiness, is that Ansh is imitating her every move, quite literally! Even though she does regret her actions later, Ansh is not there to see or understand that. He sees only her knee-jerk reactions in the heat of the moment and this is what he is emulating. For example when he decides to go to the bathroom by himself, without anybody's help, he is sort of reflecting the attitude of Aarti's, which is dangerous both on an immediate and long-term level.

If this were to continue, Ansh would probably grow up to be closed off, fiercely protective of his mother and not having any functional relationships of his own as his model was a single person who aggressively battled off anyone who provoked her to come out of her shell.

I like the subtle ways they are building the case for this PV.