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Posted: 13 years ago
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ofcourse i agree maandy...
life should be given a second chance...why not...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Agreed...

life is not something to be described in black and white... everytime yes or no is not an answer for life is much beyond it with too many shades dark nd bright...

Many marriages even today are arranged by the families... while some find love others end in compromise, pain and at times betrayal... while some are forever together, others are left alone at the turn of fate when one of the partner dies.

Whether the person wants to gets married or not is personal choice... the decision is not easy for it takes great deal and requires courage to actually move ahead in your life and give urself a chance towards happiness... but is it fair for any society or any other person who made their personal choice... who's sitting int he comfort zone of his/her home to subject or condemn these unhappy souls to a loveless and lonely life? Is that even fair?

I for myself have seen a couple of very successful re-marriages... the ones tht truly leave u in awe of their relationship... their happiness warms ur heart...

a marriage is a societal institution... isn't it an institution that guarantees one of a companion tht wud stay by ur side forever? so my question is why can't one step out from it when the vows are broken to start a new one?

So yes... i do agree with the concept of re-marriage😛


Luv,
Sonia
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Posted: 13 years ago
#33

Originally posted by: JanakiRaghunath

I also agree with you, dear. I too believe that everyone has just ONE soulmate, and if that soulmate dies, it is impossible to love someone else equally. I feel that you may love someone else, but it can never be equal to the love you held for your first wife/husband. Sometimes, you don't find your soulmate the first time, and if you have found your soulmate through your second marriage, that works out well.
I'm kind of worried for PV because of this...if Yash really loved his first wife so much, can he ever be in true love with Aarti?


yeah you are right SOUL MATE matters...

i hope yash's soulmate is going to be aarthi...

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Posted: 13 years ago
#34
Hey Madz😃 . Yes I am all for remarriage . Everybody has a right to a second chance Nikhila
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Absolutely agree with you! I don't for the life of me understand the stigma that surrounds the idea or remarriage! If someone ends up losing their husband/wife or get divorced early in life, you can't expect them to live by themselves for the rest of their life.

I mean, yeah, it's difficult to move on from something like this, and it takes time, but ultimately there comes a time in life when everyone starts needing a companion/partner, so to me, there is nothing wrong with starting afresh and beginning a new life with someone new. I know a couple of people who have gotten divorced/widowed in their 20s, and after a couple years they themselves decided to get married and settled again and move on. But unfortunately our society puts such a wrong impression on just the thought of remarriage, that some people actually think of it as a morally wrong concept or something.

I have never been married, and I still have that storybook idea of romance, where you hope to find that one person who you'll love for the rest of your life, but in reality nobody knows what life has in store for us, and when tragedy hits, like it has hit Aarti and Yash, then we have to reconsider our priorities in life, especially when kids are involved, because they can't spend the rest of their lives with just the memories of their previous relationships!

I love the fact that they're showing such an interesting and controversial topic onscreen, with a actors (esp. Gurmeet) who have such a solid fanbase, and I am really excited to see how the story unfolds. The relationship building between Yash and Aarti is the crux of the show and something I am really impatient to see, but I think one of the high points will also be how these two accept the others' children as their own, especially Yash! :)
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Posted: 13 years ago
#36

Originally posted by: maanddy




Og course, I know you, Aash! I have known you as biggest NP fan from GF! BTW, he is smart guy and even good looking!

Really?Embarrassed *Blushing beet red and sharm se panio pani hoing*☺️☺️☺️☺️


And secret behind my MARRIAGE, I was just in relationship with GC at first and I was wife of MSK but then as MSK gone forever with Geet, I thought he is gone so lemme marry the original one, he would give me another MSK, too and Ram too and Yash too! 😎

So, I proposed GC and he said YES! 😲 And then after lil bit of courtship, we married in TEMPLE very simple and sweet ceremony, only ME and HIM! And of course, our POOJARI! 😉


So, this is how I am married to GC and in relationship with Donny(Rannvijay) and I don't know about future coz I may fall in love with Yash and may be I'll marry him, too! 😉
Enogh said!! so i take it u are palnning to be the typical draupadi...😉😉😉😉 2 down..quite a few more to go!!😆😆😆


Only thing I can remember about me right now is, "Suzana's SEVEN husbands" and you will remember me as "Maddy's ___ husbands" (I can't fill the blank right now) BTW current status is only 2. So, I have to marry other MEN too! 😆

ShockedShockedShocked u planning to kill them all?ShockedShockedShockedShocked Nahiii...😡😡😡😡


BTW, our point of discussion was not "Maddy's Complicated Love Life" so coming to the MAIN point, I agree with everything you said! Take example of me, I am getting married like anything! And you know one thing? On IF Marriage thread, I am getting married to "Anju MaanManiac" so do you think I would have any problem with second marriage? OF COURSE, NOT! 😆

😆😆😆😆😆 there is an IF marriage thread?ShockedShockedShockedShockedShocked how can two ppl in lurve with the same banda be married? wudnt u kill each other in ur sleep??😉 i meant u and anju😆😆


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Posted: 13 years ago
#37

Originally posted by: maanddy





Oh! Me too! Thanks for participating! 😊

Its always my Pleasure dear...waise miya biwi razi toh kya karaga kazi...👏
Jst kidding...
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Posted: 13 years ago
#38

Originally posted by: euphoric

Agreed...


life is not something to be described in black and white... everytime yes or no is not an answer for life is much beyond it with too many shades dark nd bright...

Many marriages even today are arranged by the families... while some find love others end in compromise, pain and at times betrayal... while some are forever together, others are left alone at the turn of fate when one of the partner dies.

Whether the person wants to gets married or not is personal choice... the decision is not easy for it takes great deal and requires courage to actually move ahead in your life and give urself a chance towards happiness... but is it fair for any society or any other person who made their personal choice... who's sitting int he comfort zone of his/her home to subject or condemn these unhappy souls to a loveless and lonely life? Is that even fair?

I for myself have seen a couple of very successful re-marriages... the ones tht truly leave u in awe of their relationship... their happiness warms ur heart...

a marriage is a societal institution... isn't it an institution that guarantees one of a companion tht wud stay by ur side forever? so my question is why can't one step out from it when the vows are broken to start a new one?

So yes... i do agree with the concept of re-marriage😛


Luv,
Sonia





Hey Sonia,

WOW! I just loved your Black and White theory, this is my theory as well! I surely believe that there is just not YES and NO to any situation! And about second marriage, well even I have seen so many couples, one of them is my cousin Bro his first marriage did not work well and it was kind of bad chapter and then he married once again and now he has a 1.5 year old cute boy! And my best buddy's dad married twice coz her mother died and she was small so her dad married another woman that too with child! In fact, her story is just like Yash and Aarti! Her dad married a woman with two kids! 😳


So, I certainly believe that we should give life and love a chance! We have right to live according to our wish, finally! 😊




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Posted: 13 years ago
#39

Originally posted by: nooriewas

Its always my Pleasure dear...waise miya biwi razi toh kya karaga kazi...👏
Jst kidding...




Yes...The ultimate thing! 😆
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Posted: 13 years ago
#40
in the serial aarti has good MIL as mother but bad experience about her partner...
once she/he had bad experience about 1st partner then may be one can't accept the other one as best partner very easily.. & if she/he is widow then may be easy for remarriage..but she/he should love the partner then only possibility of remarrige..

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