Vikrant-Sarita relationship dynamics

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Yes, Vikrant did make a deal, but he made it very clear that he would give Sarita all the happiness she deserves if she is a good mother to Abhi. He never once demanded that she be a wife, but that she at least respect the sanctity of marriage. Even though he never said he wanted them to have a normal husband-wife relationship, he expects her to be a decent woman and not have an affair! To him, a woman with loose morals could never be a good mother to Abhi.
It's a different matter altogether that he is crazy about her on many levels:
1. As a perfect mother that he and Abhi can't afford to lose - he was an orphan so he really understands the emptiness a child feels without parents; he obviously wants to make sure his son gets the complete family unit he never had growing up.
2. As his possession/trophy that he got as part of the deal - she belongs to him and his inner circle; she can't leave. He was very determined when Abhi asked him if his mother would always be with him.
3. As a woman of strong character who fights for what she feels is right and cares so much for other people's happiness - I think he's kind of proud of how she has turned out after being treated so bad for 10 years. He likes the fact that she stands up for herself, even though he acts annoyed at her irrational behavior sometimes. Deep down, he respects her because he knows she can really match up to him.
4. Finally, on a subconscious level, he was attracted to her the moment he saw her and she stirred something in him. She is an addiction that he doesn't want to give up, and enigma he wants to solve, and I guess somewhere his ego can't take the fact that she isn't pining for him, considering he's such an in-demand guy. He knows he's attracted to her and cares for her more than he should, whereas he thinks she doesn't notice him the same way. His outbursts and anger are a mix of concern for his son and pure jealousy; I think it also frustrates him that he feels jealous because of her 'activities' with Raj and that she has that much control over his thoughts and emotions. He doesn't want to admit that she has such a hold over him, so he uses Abhi's case as a shield for his emotions.
Sarita, on the other hand, is also attracted to Vikrant - she notices a lot of things about him, and thinks a lot about his psychology and reactions in relation to her and Abhi, before she makes a move. Raj never challenged her or drew out her fighting spirit the way Vikrant does. Vikrant appeals to the woman in her, not just the wife in her. This is very important because Sarita is and should be on the road to re-discovering and appreciating herself after what she went through during her marriage to Raj. As some of you have said, she is still a child in some ways and being with Vikrant will expose her to real love and passion, make her feel alive as a woman, which I think is really important for her. She just doesn't know it yet. Raj told her he loved her at the last moment, but she didn't really get to cherish or experience that with him since she married Vikrant soon after.
To be honest, I don't think they should fall in love too soon. There are many psychological and practical issues that need to be addressed before they can let go of their baggage and really move on with each other. I would like to also see them explore Vikrant's insecurities due to growing up as an orphan and having lost his wife (the background story is still a mystery). I want to see them grow together gradually and shed their inhibitions. They have both been lonely for so long, it would normally take them a while to really give themselves to another person. Let's see how the CVs go about it.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Loved your post. It is true that mentally, psychologically Vikrant and Sarita are better pair. Raj is a man who has no control on his whims.. 10 years when Sarita was a with him he wanted Divya now when Divya comes to him finally he wants Sarita... so in a way he is the most selfish ... as he has thought only and only of his own desires and wants.
Vikrant has come up on his own values family and if Raj is not between them he will give a chance to himself to accept Sarita. He likes Sairta somewhere. And sarita also knows that Vikrant's deal was not for himself but for his son. She respects that also.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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😃wonderful post. You are bang on about everything.
Vikrant will bring out the women in her. Vikrant story is a mystery and it seems when that is out in open we might figure out Vikrant more. Vikrant likes her and her rejection for him drive him crazy. He never once demanded sarita to be his wife. This is what i love best about him.

I feel other than being a wonderful women Sarita might discover other talent hidden. Like what she is beautiful singer or artist or something like that. Vikrant might let her work in office too. So we might not see Sarita as a mom or house wife but more.

Like Raj said that Sarita completely got transformed physically same way i feel she will get transform internally. She will discover herself. What if she has not completed her studies and Vikrant encourage her finish that. There are so many possibilities.

I also feel he might get her reunited with her parents. He is going to give her everything she lost with Raj and that was
her identity
her strength
her feminine side
her self respect
her abilities

It will take time for them to fall for each other. They are not even friends yet.

ANyway i am all excited and i hope they limit crazy Raj and focus on VISA😃
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Wonderful post. I enjoyed reading your thoughts on VISA dynamics.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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She clearly cares about him, especially after that scene the ball hits his face and she tends to him. That's her natural reaction so there is a spark that.

I guess the love part will happen slowly b/c she loved Raj for 10 years and now has decided to be Vikrant's wife and Abhi's mother. But I do think she will gradually fall in love with him.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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I enjoyed your posts.
I think Sarita likes Vikrant. She flirts with him all day. She pouts when she does not get her way, she makes fun of him with Abhi, when he gets jealous (aside from Mumbai trip) she thinks it's funny, and when he is telling her what to do she laughs.

I think she is caught in this tug a war between Raj and Vikrant that she doesn't really have a minute to process her feelings. She spends her time try to calm them both down.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Thanks for liking my post. I also wanted to add that sometimes I wonder if what Sarita feels/felt for Raj is because of her mentality that as an ideal wife she must love her husband? With Vikrant, she doesn't feel that because she never considered him her husband. She said to Divya pretty clearly that the only one she really cares about is Abhi (at least she has that in common with Vikrant!)
The process of falling in love with Vikrant should be a result of appreciating him for who he is and how well he treats her (hopefully), not because she has to love him as a dutiful wife. I hope we get to see proper romance and bonding between the two. I also hope that Vikrant is the one to fully fall in love with her first and maybe even make the first move. Sarita really needs that for her self-esteem - I just wouldn't be able to stand seeing her have to chase Vikrant, always justify herself to him, and keep trying to get him to love her. She's done enough of that for 10 years. Time for her to get some real TLC.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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excellent post and amazing insight dear!!totally loved your post😊
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Posted: 11 years ago
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vikrant brings out the feisty side in sarita, where as with raj she is subdued and submissive .When abhi is around she is bolder, no fear whatsoever of mr.kadoos. And mr.akdu /kadoos is like... kya cheese hai iss ladki?😆(line borrowed from arnav)😉

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