Originally posted by: Shreya_94
Won't say Divya does not have brains of' course. But don't you think it was way to unrealistic of her to expect her college-sweetheart to wait for her as if nothing ever happened? She did not even stay in touch with him. Its not all her. Raj too is responsible. Everything is so illogical.
She was so happy when she returned from Mumbai. Did it not strike her that Raj could have moved on?
I can understand you shreya .I have seen your logically posts for sarita ,not like others and tell you,The reasons for you support sarita ,me too . Although I am a fan of ruby ,missing divya so much and want a story for her .I was watching it for her and has stopped now ,but thats the only difference.Story wise ,we are same. Chemistry wise ,again we may be different .
I think in one post you had said sthing like we are upset bcoz of raj-sarita .No No we are not upset bcoz of that but bcoz of screen space ,bcoz of sidelining ruby like this when we were said sthing different totally . When divya was uniting raj sarita ,was there this unpeaceful environment ? No !! If they were showing story of divya too from starting ,then we would have no problem but there is only story of sarita .They didn't show divya's back story even the main thing .
As you said why was she expecting raj to wait for her for 10 years .It can real be understood by their back story in true sense ,like their separation scene.
But on the basis of whatever has shown ,The reasons can be like-
1. First she was also waiting .so she thought he would also be . Usually when there is a goal like of responsibility and in result our wish our dream coming true ...then our concentration is not on time passing .We just try to fulfill responsibility as soon as possible and then want to go for living that dreamlife . Then when we go to the place after 10 years ,we usually imagine it in older way as it was ,NON LIVING OR LIVING THING WHATEVR IT IS...i have experience this so only am saying it ...Few day back ,I saw my school and even if it was changed ,I was trying to see older school only i which I have studied. same was with teachers ,I wanted like wish they were my teachers who had taught me ...This was all when I didn't go before with my wish and what if it was like I was bound not to go there ...can't imagine fully .
2. They were too young to be mature ...their love was not of understanding but of craze .They were crazy about each other then .They were not in love where there are no expectations ...so they expected each other to wait may be .Regarding contact ,They have not showed any point though and reason can come out only with separation scene ,what am seeing is - may be the fear that raj again can force her (so only she was leaving hiding from him) or seeing her dreamman ,dreamlife ,she will not get swayed .
Now why am ssaying it is - When I am scared or nervous what I do is To lay down ,have blanket on and try to stay in dark where none can see me .I don't know but this gives something feeling that makes me calm down ...I don't know if its making sense to you or not bcoz all characters behave differently and its difficult to understand to other characters who behave opposite to us in same situations .Like my sister ,she in these situations goes to my mom ,shares the thing with her and gets calm down.
At last There are two conclusions .I don't know about past but howmuch ever divya knew raj,on what basis she expected him to wait or knew he will wait ,she was right .Raj was waiting for her completely . So there was sthing in the relation of theirs(craze ,possessiveness ,understanding ) that they knew other will wait for them . Raj For divya and divya for raj .
and second thing is what ever she had expected before knowing ,she has faced the reality quite maturely . In last 10 years ,living in that world ,she has become mature enough .Its not her actions are hurting to sarita's emotions .
Shreya ,all I said is about Divya not Ruby .
When I have come here ,May be I should say to hebasamiya too .Dear ,If she wanted to get raj from before ,she would have done it very easily .Which problem ,you think was coming in her way of geting raj back .Was there any ?? AND NOT TO FORGET ,She was the only one to force raj to go to sarita owise there was no chance .Am not saying against sarita .I like her ,sympathy for her . Am not even saying supporting Divya . Am saying against your try of creating unpeaceful environment .I have not seen even one post of supporting sarita also ,let be divya .
Now is it okay to dump gaurav by marrying him ?? I know she was ready before but seeing sarita's condition,she has realized that without love ,both will get hurt and suffocation only .like she answered gaurav .
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