Is Divya being selfish? - Page 2

She's selfish in a way to leave for 10 years and expect him to wait for her I fell bad for Raj in the flashback he tries to stop her but she was hiding from him she did all of that for her own selfish reason.

I can relate to Raj a lot, kind of.

Thr is another thing.in all serials,there are eithe posive or negathve character..but i am enjoying all these complex characters! It s human nature tn deal! I hope in future they keep all character as complex..let us see what is in store!

I don't agree here.

In a way she was selfish, to think that she didnt owe Raj an explanation before leaving and not giving him a hint whether she will ever come back to him, but expected him to wait. If she loved Raj so much, she should've told him, and I am sure he would've understood. She didnt call or check up the entire time. She should understand just as she had responsibilities of her family, Raj's family will have expectations from him as well. Her expecting him to wait around for 10 years and accepting her when she gave him no guarantee of her return is what makes her selfish. If she lived her life in these 10 years as per her wishes, Raj has the full right to move on as well. I felt bad for her when she knew the truth, but I think she brought it upon herself.

Originally posted by: -Unknowndesire

She's selfish in a way to leave for 10 years and expect him to wait for her I fell bad for Raj in the flashback he tries to stop her but she was hiding from him she did all of that for her own selfish reason.

According to the latest promo i think Divya would have told Raj everything...she is nt selfish ...if she was thrn evrn aftrr knowing that Raj is married she would have tried meeting him and interfered in Raj n Sarita's married life but instead she herself decided to move on in life and also told the truth of her life to her to be husband...and also she told her siblings to decide groom for her as when she can take all decisions of their life they also can do so...and deep in her heart she knew raj would have moved on in his life but still prayed that it would nt have happened nd thus was crossing her fingers...
The most selfish here is Raj ...after reading Divya's marriage news he was so furious...if she can still expect her to come back to him after being married can't she expect him to wait for her when she did so...when he could moved on 10 yrs ago then can't divya do so now ...nd evenif Divya did contact him he could have done so

i think no one is selfish,

Originally posted by: ssshh

i think no one is selfish,

divya did mistake bcoz of past circumstances, after all she is human ,and human do mistake, she is not selfish,yes she has expectation from raj, bcoz she loves him, may be her expectation based on delusion. she was hiding from raj, may be bcoz she feared that she will be weak in front of raj and couldn't stand on her decision.even after knowing raj's marriage , she didn't accuse raj. bcoz she knew that somewhere she did mistake.

raj also did mistake by marrying sarita, but if you remember that raj's father told that if raj- sarita won't happen than sarita's family will kill them.may be to save his family, he had to marry sarita. he knows that he did mistake and ready to take any punishment,he is guilty for it but something are not in our hand especially our heart ,even he is ready for sarita's remarriage. if he couldn't able to love sarita than what's his fault, its not in anybody's hand that whom should love or not.

sarita also did mistake by marrying raj, even after knowing he loves someone else. may be bcoz of family pressure or society pressure.but now even after 10 yrs ,she didn't get any progress than i think its time to stand for herself. she has suffered enough, now she should move on in her life. may be some else deserve her love who can understand her. i am sure raj will definitely help her

very well said SSSHH agree with you